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Last Update: December 25, 2007
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im 16/f umm at my school there's this new girl named tori and she's in my chemistry class. and we talked & stuff. and she would wait for me after class. but after a while she stopped waiting for me and she even stopped talking to me. i don't know why. and one day in class i said hi to her and she was like umm hey and she was being weird and rude. i know i shouldn't care but i felt like i've lost a friend. i don't get why doesn't she talk to me anymore? i didn't do anything to her.. so what should i do? (link)
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ok i suggest you write her a letter or just ask her straight up have i said something about or i have been rude or have you heard anything nast rumors about me. See what her replies are if she doesnt reply and walks away thats when u just let it be because after she does that i think there is really no going back to that.that was just rude and everything. So ya you can also try another approach and send one of your friends to slowly get close to her and find out what her deal is....but simply i just think she has found some gurls who dont like you so of course she is new and simply peer pressure got between yea..but i know how you feel. .you feel guilty and everyhting even tho you dont know her...but cant help to worry. . . but just let it go if those things dont work...
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Well, I've been best friends with this girl Stacy for 2 years. We do pretty much everything together and I'm always going over her house and stuff. But lately, it feels like we're always competing, at least I feel that way. Whenever we go somewhere together I'm always trying to look better than her. And she just got a ton of new clothes for school from like hollister and abercrombie and I didn't get as much as her. I get really jealous, and I don't know why. We've always been best friends, but why do I feel this way? (link)
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dont worry its ok . . .every frien uaually comoetes alot these. . .sometimes it can get really bad thow just make sure that it does not get to the point well yea 2 are actually arguing to the limit where yea 2 cant handle each other anymore. . . ok like its ok to get jealous of your friends once in awhile maybe like yours eyes are finally noticing that hey she has all this and i dont but its ok just ask her if she ever gets jealous of you than yea 2 can talk about and see what happens ask me if you need anything else
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14/f
k well me and my friend both like this guy in our class and i mean i really like him a lot but she doesn't know i do. and i don't wanna start a competition but he's the sweetest guy i've met and everything but then she sees the same i guess. we're not that close and now i don't know what to do!!!
help please!! (link)
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Ok lets start off by saying that you should bring him up in conversations with her and she how she reacts and if she gets mad than i think you should keep it a secret and just secretly get him and just say well i dont know why he chose me plus you said it yourself yea really aint much of friends so it aint really a big idea now if yea were best friends than no you shouldnt get with him.....but yea ok back to the subject just bring him up and if she reacts like omg we both like the same guy...and maybe yea can make a game of it and see who gets who...so yea try that...
good luck
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p.s. message if you need anymore advice
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15/f
so, ive kissed guys before. i;ve just never really MADE OUT with a guy. and this guy and i are planning on dating, haha, sounds kinda funny, but anyway, i'm sure he'll be the one i'll end up making out with for the first time. he's 18 and he most defiently knows a lot about making out.
just any tips or stories would be great.
i reeally woulld appericate it [: (link)
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if he knows what he is doing just go with what you think is right wow it happens you just never force it go with flow and it will be when you never expect it but dont be waiting all day just let it happen best is when it is unexpected. But just go with it there is really no wrong or right to making out. But you can tell him i never really made out so i may not all be good and of course he will say well i show you. And you say yes that is always good. But there is a make out and over doing it now when you start feeling uncomfortable withthe making out or he is doing to much let him know ok. but usually people love it but
but GOOD LUCK
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Okay, I need advice right now! Im moving in with my dad. I called him to come get me and my stuff, but i havent told my mom yet, and he is coming in an hour, im just really scared and i dont know what to say... someone help me???? I need answers now!! Please. (link)
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i know late but she will get mad no matter what but i think you should let her knew before you left it will break her out just for you to live how would you like it if that happened to you. You should just always but yourself in the same situation and see how you would react. but i hate to say this who do you love more. who gives you the attention and is there for you when you needed it the most. and if it is mom than i personally suggest you say with her.. it always best the child stays with mom but its just my opinion but choose wisely and consider what you are doing oh dont get me wrong you aint a bad person or someone mean. its your decision and you decide.
GOOD LUCK
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awhile back i entered a question about my 20 yr old daughter leaving back east to live with her father. well, she has asked my 18 yr old son to go with her, supposedly just for a few weeks, but i am extremely uncomfortable about this. i did not yell ar anything but the ex husband does nothing except try to brainwash them while they are there. they are leaving tomorrow and i can't help but feel abandoned by my kids who i've suffered and sacraficed to support all these years. i can't even look at my daughter, let alone say good-bye to her. i am so disappointed with her. i'm sure my son feels as if he is in the middle of all this and it breaks my heart that her and her father are going to try to talk him into staying there instead of coming back. my ex really is a piece of shit who has done nothing all these years but now looks like mr. cool. he is totally going against any rules i've made and if i say white he says black. i cannot believe how easyily my daughter is being swayed by him. and i'm trying to be cool about all of this, but i'm afraid i will lose it tomorrow when it's time for them to leave. i don't even want to be here, which i won't because i am so deeply hurt due to how my daughter is being to me and now i fear my son is a lost cause as well. and to top it all off, not only do i feel like the worst parent in the world, it looks like that as well. and one more thing, he is an alcoholic and she is already following in his foot steps by having problems with alcohol, i don't even know if the decisions she has made are alcohol induced or not. help!! (link)
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ok wow i am just 15 but i know a good suggestion for this. Dont blame yourself keep your head Hi and up in the clouds dont be gloomy and show them they are nothing to you anymore let them know you still love them have a dinner with each other and talk about this let your feelings out and say what they are putting you threw but always say i will love yea to death no matter what happens but please reconsider. and when you confront them about this do it anytime of they when they least expect it...it always better when they least expect. and dont blame yourself again you have done all you can for these children you of course you have sacrificed alot you are the mothers all mothers do. You aint the meanest.sh*ttiest mom in there world dont ever think that about yourself you are better than that. but you husband you can talk to him too confront him and ask why he is doing this and make sure why he is doing this maybe its not for payback what if he is just lonely and needs someone his kids perhaps. And your daughter being a alcholic or problems with alcohol comfront it to her see why she is doing it yes hse will get mad but it is always best to try. but just always know you grew them up and once its 18 thats when they make there choice see where god takes them now. But keep trying to help and comfort them. But just hope god has bigger plans for them in life. But dont ignore them it just makes them feel really worse than what they feel already..
GOOD LUCK I KNOW KINDA LATE
BUT MESSAGE ME IF YOU NEED ANYTHING ELSE
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i have to write my boyfriend a sorry letter for cheating. any good sugestions or help ? (link)
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yes.. i suggest it is best you do it in person its more believable for him to see you meaning it all. But if you have to write it i suggest you include memories of the both of yea. Funny,Love,Sex if yea did have it,and just memories you know that are good. Second include what were you thinking while you were cheating on him so he knows because they will always say what were thinking so you have to back it up with something. Include how you need him in your life and how it will be miserable wihtout him. Usually from there it will just start coming out
If you need anything else just message me
GOOD LUCK
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You answered someone's question about how everything in his relationship was about sex, and he's only fourteen!!! Where i'm from the youngest people have sex is like eighteen, there to young, it's gross!! WHy do they do it???? ARe they that horny, can't they just masturbate or something. Your just a kid when your 14!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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ok you say its to young i strongly agree with you but there are some kids well teens who think they are ready to have sex so they do..its better they dont have it because there can be complications to it. but if you think you are ready to have i am not going to be there trying to stop you. Because you say you are ready. Masturbating is way better than losing at a young age. But there are some kids who are horny and want to do it but there are others who think they are ready and they have a strong opinion than others and usually those are the ones who usally wont get nothing if they do it young. but than it goes back to opinion where some people think it is wrong while others think it isnt so no matter where what you say you will always be opposed by others. So i rather stay shut and just let them srcew up there lives at a young age...me i am 15 and i have strong opinion but iam waiting til after marriage because that is my opinion. So that basically the only answer i can really give to that subject but if you have more just let me know
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14/M
Well my girlfriend decided to call it quits cuz she lost feelings for me after i almost broke up wit her(it wasnt really a relationship it wuz a sex thing)anyways i know she goin wanna go back with me cuz i know the way she acts. what should i do just stay friends N if we do how can we be just friends? (link)
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if it is a sex relationship than why does she have to pick you..and you aint into that as i can see so i suggest just friends but you need to confront it to her. and no just leave it at that. ways to be friends are talking on the phone moviez and try your best not to tgo to each others house as much because than it will just go back to sex..you can also try hooking her up with someone else....Oh and one more thing if it is a sex relationship there is no feelings toward each other only pleasure its nothing but hollow...and about the additional info maybe she thinks by having sex she will not lose you...so confront it to her and ask her is that why you did what you did....well good luck
hope everything goes....need anythig else just message me
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ok...im 13 and so is my friend..but she has some..well..problems..heres how it goes..a few weeks ago i saw my best friend that i hadn't seen in 3 years..she ended up staying the night at my house a whole week two weeks later..she told me everything that happened since we had last seen eachother..she told me that she used to cut herself and had an eating disorder and she still did it once and a while..im worried that she might end up harming herself..she told me she had it under control but i dont beleive her..she said that it was addictive and i dont know what to do..i told her that i wouldnt tell no body so im not going to..so please dont tell me to tell someone..if you could send me some websites for her to look at or something like that it would be a LOT of help...or even give me a few things i could say to her..i plan on telling her how i feel next time i see her..but i need something more..help! (link)
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ok well u plan on telling her how you feel next time you see her right. Well just simply say ok i need to talk to you. come out and say its about your problems you are having and the rest will come out trust me. And dont be afraid to cry if you cry it is so much more better for the situation because it lets her know that its hurting you inside and she will feel the pain as you are. also about telling someone well first tell her how you feel and tell her she needs to change if not you are going to have no choice but to inform someone on what you are doing. It is always best that you tell someone because if she gets really hurt all you will do is blame yourself and you will live with that for along time and we dont want that because you might do some really stupid stuff as well. And the websites are not really hard to find just simply type in what you looking for and it will pop up. GOOGLE it. but dont be afraid to tell her exactly how you feel whether it sounds mean or not. And if doing this means losing her friendship its better than she losing her life.
GOOD LUCK XOXOXOXOXO
let me know if you need anything more
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My family doesn't like my BEST friend, and I have no idea what to do.. I mean I love this girl with all my heart and soul.. and my parent's don't approve simply because her taste in music and guys.. and her style in general. What do I do? DO I stop being friend's with her like my parent's want, or should I just go with my own inxtinct and stay friend's with her and try to sort something out with all of them?
PLEASE HELP :[ I REALLY NEED IT. (link)
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ok i had similiar problem... what i did was i told my parents what they disliked about her and said well what if i was like that would you hate me too. and yes stay her friend dont stop being her friend that so stupid..oh u can also say well mom and dad did yea have a friend that your parents hated too. And see what they say than you can also say well what if i stay her friend and just stop bringing her over here and instead we go to do the movies and i can go over to her house instead so your parents can kind of lay off. But you need to confront it to them. It also best you tell your friend about your parents and see how she reacts so if she knoe maybe she can act different around them but when they aint around she can be the same old her. the choice is really yours tho...
GOOD LUCK XOXOXOXO
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Okay I have this friend Bria okay.And she's like really nice and stuff..to me anyway.My best friend Haley like hates her..and I don't want it to be like that.Because Haley thinks Bria is a poser and everything :/
How do I make them get along?
Or should I just leave them alone? (link)
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Ok i been stuck here before. you should get both of them together and say i am going to hang with both of yea and i really want yea to be friends so its easier for all of us. But if they say no than say well i am goign to be talking to both but i aint going to tell yea when one of yall are talking about each other. Than you say if you dont like it than tell me now. And if that does happen than that tells you who is your better friend and not making you choose..
Well GOOD LUCK XOXOXOXO
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i like this boy. hes 14 and i am too but i really like him and we talk alot but idk if he likes me. i think he does but everytime im like positive h likes me well be talking and he will like mention how his best friend likes me. it sounds like he doesnt and hes trying to get me to like go out with his friend.
im pretty confused so if you i could use your answers.
thanx in advance. (link)
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Ok if you think that he likes you alot bring it up too him to him a conversation about do you think we might ever get together just asking or you think we might look cute together. But if he says no because my friend likes you alot and i cant do that. Than theres pretty much you cant do. but you can also come straight tell him you like and see what he says if he says no than you go well i guess friends we can be. but if he says he does but his friend there is something you can do. tell your friend the one you like to tell his friend stuff about you try to get him to like someone else wait awhile than hook up. But i think that should work
GOOD LUCK XOXOXOX
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Ugh, im so mad at my friend, lets call her MEL. Recently she lost her virginity last week, to a guy she doesn't even like. (which pissed me off) Then today they were you know in the woods doing it; again except my other friend, lets call her TYE was there with another guy whom she just met about three days ago. Tyes cherry popped and there was so much blood going everywhere. She nearly fainted [i arrived 20 minutes later with napkins when i got the call] I'm telling you there was alot of blood, is that normal??? My friend mel said she bleed only a little bit, not nearly as much as tye. (link)
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Ok that is not normal at all i suggest the following.
1.Look in the phone book and look one of those operators you can call.
2.Tell mom not dad. Because You know how dads are now if there aint no mom only dad ask a tia or older cousin
3.Ask a other family member
4.School Nurse if yea are still in school
5.If she is old enough to go to the doctor i suggest she go
6.Last She needs to go tested for pregancy or Std's just in case.
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i have many of friends but lately i have felt really lonely maybe it's cuz i'm stupid but i want to try and do somehting about it any suggestions? (link)
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Go to Da movies
have sleepovers
And talk on the phone
just keep busy
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ok so i have sort of a problem. im 15/f. i have, well had this best friend, lets call her w. ok well w and me were the closest friends you could possibly find. we were together 24/7. i loved her sooo much but at first she was kind of mean. at school she would always tell people all this bad stuff about me if we got into a fight. but we would act like everything was ok when it was just me and her. but she has always had this guy best friend and he is pretty mean to me and always makes fun of me with her. i just ignore it and act like everything is ok. then we started become really good friends with lets call her m. so me w and m became a group of friends, but then i was getting pushed aside. then they became friends and made this mean nick name about me and always talked about me, but pretended everything was all cool and they invited me places. but sometimes it just really hurts. but the other day i was pushed over the edge but im afraid to show them, because i dont have any other friends and its kind of hard to make new friends when everyone has their clicks already set and everything(im a sophomore by the way) and i want new friends, but m and w are so funny and i love being around them. but they are so different behind my back. i dont know what to do. i really need advice on how to deal with this.i've been friends with them like my whole freshman year, but i need a change because its making me feel bad and really crappy. (link)
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ok, well lets start off with you and w
ok i had a friend just like that and we made another friend and they became best friends and dissed me and i was also a sophomore. and they were my only friends but it got to a pont where i could not take it. So here comes the advice i suggest YOu confront both of them about it and see what they have to say about it. once everything is on the table it can go from there but it turns out to argureing and yelling its w/e from there. Just slowly start leaving them and its not hard to make friends in school i bet you have some friends in class that you have partnered up before get to know them more tell them about your problems and sooner or later they will invite you to sit with them. Honey and its only highschool u still have all of college and older life to make friends. If u need anything more just let me Know.
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is it true that if you're asian that means that u have a small penis? (link)
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Well, not really but most asians have small penis's but like i said not really some people are born with certain genes. But Its w/e and if your girlfriend has a problem find someone who doesn't care on size
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