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i need help asap..
My family doesn't like my BEST friend, and I have no idea what to do.. I mean I love this girl with all my heart and soul.. and my parent's don't approve simply because her taste in music and guys.. and her style in general. What do I do? DO I stop being friend's with her like my parent's want, or should I just go with my own inxtinct and stay friend's with her and try to sort something out with all of them?
PLEASE HELP :[ I REALLY NEED IT.
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ok i had similiar problem... what i did was i told my parents what they disliked about her and said well what if i was like that would you hate me too. and yes stay her friend dont stop being her friend that so stupid..oh u can also say well mom and dad did yea have a friend that your parents hated too. And see what they say than you can also say well what if i stay her friend and just stop bringing her over here and instead we go to do the movies and i can go over to her house instead so your parents can kind of lay off. But you need to confront it to them. It also best you tell your friend about your parents and see how she reacts so if she knoe maybe she can act different around them but when they aint around she can be the same old her. the choice is really yours tho...
GOOD LUCK XOXOXOXO
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I think you should go with your instinct, but i dont really think that the reason they dont like her is because of her style and taste in guys and music... they probobly have a good reason why they dont like her. But you should ask them... but at the same time i think you should casually mention to them that she is a very good friend of yours and that you really want to keep her as a friend and that you really wish they would look at her from the inside, and see how great she is.
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If you really love this girl, like a sister, like you never want to lose her, deffinetly DON'T stop being friends with her. Don't let your parents not liking her break up your friendship. If you dont have a problem with her taste in music and boys and that stuff, then theres no reason to stop being friends. When you guys hang out now, just hang out at her house so your parents dont have to be around her. Or sit your parents down and tell them exactly how you feel. Tell them that she is your best friend and that you love her, and that her style shouldn't matter. But deffinetly don't throw a friendship away because your parents don't approve.
Also, for future refernce, saying i need help isn't a good thing to put in the subject of a question. on the f&q section, it says that they can delete your question if you do that. I wouldn't want to see your question getting deleted just because of the subject=]
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It would help if I knew what she was like. My best friend is an idiot, and very different from me, but I still hang out with her. My parents sometimes think she's to "ditsy", but they still let me choose my own friends, and my own mistakes.
Update: Since I now know more, I will tell you that I rather like emo. I find them to usually be great friends, and hot guys. lol. I have emo friends. If you are becoming emo because of your friend, then I would agree with your parents, but if you are staying yourself, while being her friend, then stay with her.
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