You should try to talk to your mom about this. The only other thing I know is, you can live on your own when you turn 17, but that is a hard choice.

Your story is very similar to mine. My friend's parents are separated, but have been for a while. His dad took away his privilege to drive for no reason a few weeks ago. He sometimes gets depressed, and he lives with his dad, who can be somewhat abusive. Really the only thing you can do is let him know that you are there for him, and when he talks to you, not only listen, but let him know that you are listening. Just be a good friend and be there for him. Message me if you want to talk more.

Time to get rid of him and find someone else.

The guy I like was just himself. He's sweet. He pays attention to me, we hang out, we go places. He lets me play with his hair and we sit close to each other. He always makes sure he tells me when I look good. He'll put his arms around me. I like stuff like that. He's just a nice guy. We have a lot in common too.

It seems like he might like you. I wouldn't tell my friends I like him if I were you. That always made trouble for me, but then again, if you tell then and they tell him and he does like you, he might end up asking you out. Hope I helped. Message me if you need anything.

Tell him how much he means to you and that you miss him. I think he misses you too. Try to talk in person and if that doesn't work, use email, but remember, people can't see the look on your face or hear the tone of your voice over email. :)

"Find a best friend that you can't keep your hands off."


I like this one. I don't think it will help though. It just makes me think of my flirty friendship. :) Here are some that might help though...

"Don't make someone your first priority when they only consider you an option."
"Always be confident, and fake it if you have to. Remember, confidence is sexy!"
"Friendship comes first, and you have to be friends before you do anything else."
"Talk about things that are important, and laugh about the things that aren't. Don't be afraid to take chances, make a fool of yourself, or get hurt."
"Quit waiting on the guy to make the first move. Show him that you're a strong woman, and maybe you'll get something for your confidence."
"Communication is key, and you cannot love until you are afraid of not getting your heart broken."
"You just need to find the right stupid boy that you don't mind so much."
"Don't be afraid of a guy; they're just people. And they have feelings too!"
"It's just high school. You shouldn't take things so seriously."
"My mom always told me to make sure that your significant other knows how much you love them before they leave. You never know if they are coming back or not."
"Don't look for someone who's not going to argue with you on some points. You need someone who will challenge you and push you farther."
"Always be with someone that can make you laugh!"
"Don't go to bed angry with each other."
"Go with the flow, and make sure you know the person in question as a friend first."
"Never idealize the other person; understand and acknowledge their flaws and virtues by getting to know them. It's the only way to fall in love and be fallen for."
"Learn how to tolerate the annoying habits. Giving in to your initial desire to ditch someone just because of a few annoyances is the surest way to remain alone."
"You know it's true love when you can see, not only the best in each other, but recognize each other's faults and accept them as they are."
"Once a cheater, always a cheater."
"Instead of going to your friends about boyfriend problems, talk to your boyfriend. You'll get a real result, and he'll appreciate that you didn't tell the world about your problems."
"Share all your secrets. You will genuinely know each other's flaws, you won't have to hide anything, and you'll know they love you despite your mistakes."
"If you want to be with someone, go for it! There may be regrets, but at least it won't be a regret that you didn't go after who you wanted."
"Take time for yourself first. Get comfortable with who you are, and be confident. Once you've done that, they won't be able to take their eyes off you."
"Whatever you do, date the person because you truly like them, not because somebody else likes the idea of you two together."
"If you really like a guy, the best thing to do is not rush into a relationship with him. Become friends at first and see where you go from there!"
"Try to think about what you bring to the relationship, not what you get out of it."
"Always treat your significant other the way you want to be treated. Communication, and not hurtful words or actions, is the best way to express yourself."

The only thing I know to say is, just tell him, and show him you mean it from your heart. He needs you. I have a guy friend that I love a lot and his dad is abusive also. Just tell Cole that you really truly care about him and that you do like him, but you were just scared. Maybe you can let him stay at your house when his dad is being an ass.

I love one of my best friends, but he has a girlfriend. We hang out a lot and take care of each other. His girlfriend is a bitch and I love him more then she ever will, but he will be with her instead of me.

It depends. One of my guy friends loves when I wear Celine Dion, but the other thinks it smells like Vodka.

The guy I liked avoided me because he didn't know what else to do. He felt awkward around me. Everyone knew I liked him. I told him more than once, and I don't remember which was the 1st time. I don't know how to say "I like you", except for just saying it, but this site might give you some ideas.

http://www.romancestuck.com/i-love-you-100-ways.htm

For one, I don't think it would nice of you at all to lead this guy on, knowing that he likes you, just to make his friend jealous. My advice is tell him you're not interested and quit.

Well we weren't that great of friends when I told him and I had been hinting it to him. We hung out a lot because his best friend and one of my best friends were dating and her mom didn't trust her out alone, so me and the guy I like would go and kind of double date. We always had pool parties and stuff and we were becoming better friends over time. Well, one day we were hanging out at the girls house and I just told him. I always was close to him, like physically. We were always touching and doing stuff, but when I said I liked him, he didn't want me near him. He got over that quickly. All we did was hang out and talk and now we are best friends. We take care of each other. I still like him and I never want to lose him. Write me again if you want more help.

I told my best guy friend that I likes him before we were even that close and at first it made us more complicated and he didn't want us to hang out as much, but that soon ended and now we hang out all the time. He comes over to my house a couple times a week and we talk every day at school. He doesn't let people be mean to me. When he comes over we sit right next to each other, like we are so close that one side of our bodies are touching. Sometimes we put an arm around each other. I play with his hair, we tickle each other, and put my head on his shoulder. It's sweet, but he has a girlfriend and he loves her and we are just friends, but the point is that telling him didn't ruin our friendship. It actually got easier. Mail me if you want to know anything else.

Ok, I think you might need to listen to your parents this time. They have reasons to keep you on a leash. This guy sounds like trouble, whether he's a good person or not.

I understand what you're going through. My best guy friend is depressed. We talk about it and sometimes it is hard. He doesn't always want to talk, and that is what you're friend does. Maybe he isn't ready yet. You just need to be there for him. Let him know that you care a lot and when he's ready you'll listen, but don't push him to tell you anything if he's not ready. Just make sure that when he does talk, you're listening. Now, about yourself. Don't cut my dear. The last thing your friend needs right now is you losing your mind. Be stable for him. You have to try to be positive around him and when he's depressed, try talking about fun things, or things he is interested in. Do fun things with him. I like to have my friend come over a lot and we'll watch movies and take funny pictures... just stuff to take his mind off of his problems and show him that you can have fun and not everything in life is bad. Hope I helped. I can tell you anything else you want to know if you message me. :)

If you like him, ask him. It would probably make him feel really good, and you might even make his reputation better.

That's my friend's name. I think it's cute to call him Ry or Ry-Ry. :) That's all people usually call him. I don't know anything else.

I think your dad is right. I got my guy friend a present and I was afraid it was too little, or that he wouldn't like it, but before I even gave it to him, he said "it's the thought that counts". I think your boyfriend will love it just because he loves you.

I can sometimes be shy too. Just stay calm and warm up to her. Try to get to know her and have fun. If she's inviting you, then she obviously wants to get to know you.

I like to give relationship advice. I also like to receive it. It's funny how that works. I was in a relationship when I started using Advicenators and we are now good friends. I like someone now who is in a relationship. Stuff is very confusing, but I handle it well.

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