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Ex Best Friend I miss him!
Basically I was sent a text saying that My best friend didn't want to talk anymore. I was saddened its been about 4-5 months that we have not talked. Funny though because he still wears a shirt i bought him and he is always staring at me. No matter what he looks at me and last semester asked someone how i was doing. Another he told that i did a great job on my project and funny thing i was in his class. i don't know what to do.. he held the door today for me but i used the other door. im confused as to what to do...i wrote him a note but im not sure if i should even bother giving it to him somehow...or sending it via email. whats a girl to do? I miss him and I have frequent panic attacks.
-Lost Apart of My Heart
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I think you should send him that note it can't hurt. And try talking to him it seems like he is just confused about starting to talk to you again. good luck
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The best thing to do is to find out how he really feels.If he is doing all of this stuff for you there is probably something inside of him that really likes you if you like him then you should let him know.As for the Notes/E-mails...In my opinion everything means so much more if said in person.
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Tell him how much he means to you and that you miss him. I think he misses you too. Try to talk in person and if that doesn't work, use email, but remember, people can't see the look on your face or hear the tone of your voice over email. :)
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To me it sounds like he misses you too, especially if he's paying random attention to you and stuff. I think it would be good to give the note to him. It's pretty obvious that you both miss each other's friendship. I had a problem like this with a friend, and it got to the point where we just missed hanging out with each other so we decided to be best friends again. That was a few years ago, and we're still best friends. All it takes is a phone call saying, "Hey, I miss you. We need to be friends again." Good luck!
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shoot you better give him that note and say the hell is up? yall cnt jus stop tlkn that is dum. if there is a reason ok. but if there isnt you beta jump on that friendship b4 it slips away
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It seems as though he's trying to earn your friendship back again but doesn't really want to ask you with words. He's probably thinking about you, since he's staring and holding doors. I suggest you write a letter, asking if you would like to be friends again. Make sure its a gentle note and don't pressure him to read it - he may need time to read it over and think about things.
Good luck!
- Indi -
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I would write him a letter. It means he can read it in his own time, read it a few times over and really think on it. It's also a gentle approach so he shouldn't get defensive.
At the very least, you deserve to understand entirely the circumstances that caused him to make the decision and the last thing you need is to come on too heavy.
Best of luck, I really think you should send him the note.
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