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Ok ... this is probably going to sound really insecure of me... but I just need some adivce. What do you do when your best friend is like so much prettier and cooler than you are? My friend is very popular, pretty, smart, every guy likes her, she gets everything she wants...I just hate that I am jealous of her because shes my best friend, but whenver I'm with her... people don't talk to me... they talk to her... guys never pay any attention to me, unless they are asking about her. She is an awesome friend... but a lot of the time she is distracted with other things... because so many people like her. I just want to know how I should deal witht his situation. Thank you for your time! (link)
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Ive been in this situation myself.Quite recently actually.But believe it or not there are some guys who dont want to date the preppy popular one.There are guys who just like normal plain jane girls.Whenever your around her just try to think that and also it helps if you try to make some new friends.Maybe not hang out with her as much until you can be a little more self confident.Ive been in the same situation for about the past few years Ive actually tried drifting away from that friend and having a different best friend and she is now just one of my friends.We still hang out and stuff but since ive had my own chance to get out and talk to people I don't feel bad at all when I go places with her. I'm sure the same thing still happens but i just think that if they r willing to talk to her just because shes the pretty one then they arent looking for whats on the inside and thats the kinda of guy that you want.
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I have sorta a problem. I'm 16 male, and my best friend thinks I stalk their myspace. Everyday when I go on, i visit his myspace; I'm actually kinda jealous so I look at the comments that girls post and just read them. he confronted me about it, because he has a tracker.I said to him " no I was just bored and made a lame exuse" I mean Im not a stalker, I guess Im just jealous. So now he deleted me off of myspace and didnt really say anything to me at school today. What can I do? I see him tomorow for a study hall where we can talk. Uhm, I also have an issue where he wants to come over my house, but im kinda ambarrased to show him it because I dont have what he has, and im afriad he'll laugh or make fun of me. Wev'e known each other for almost 3 years. I need help!!
Thanks,
NY152 (link)
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I think I have found a situation that you might need to think about.Im sure know that Tom is the creator of myspace and he Has told everyone on myspace that there is no such thing as a profile tracker.There could be a chance that this Guy is simply tricking you and getting you to admit to something that he just suspected
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Why are you so retarted LOL J.k (link)
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ok so i am in the 2nd semester of my freshmen year in high school... i Right now i am very shy and am not making too many new friends i think it might be because i dont feel comfortable with my appearance so i am looking foward to sophmore year because inevitably there will be new kids who dont know me in my classes.. i want to reinvent myself and lokk really good next year and be more outgoing. i am afraid that no one will be willing to see me differently Do you think that reinventing myself will work or peoples opinions are set in stone? (link)
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I think that a lot of people do change their opinion because they see people in a different or new way. I think that you should be Whoever you wanna be.Idk about you but based on the number of kids in my High School there are bound to be some people out there who like you because of you.So I do think that coming in as a new person could be a good move just don't be someone your not
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Basically I was sent a text saying that My best friend didn't want to talk anymore. I was saddened its been about 4-5 months that we have not talked. Funny though because he still wears a shirt i bought him and he is always staring at me. No matter what he looks at me and last semester asked someone how i was doing. Another he told that i did a great job on my project and funny thing i was in his class. i don't know what to do.. he held the door today for me but i used the other door. im confused as to what to do...i wrote him a note but im not sure if i should even bother giving it to him somehow...or sending it via email. whats a girl to do? I miss him and I have frequent panic attacks.
-Lost Apart of My Heart
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The best thing to do is to find out how he really feels.If he is doing all of this stuff for you there is probably something inside of him that really likes you if you like him then you should let him know.As for the Notes/E-mails...In my opinion everything means so much more if said in person.
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ok i have like the awesomest friends in the world and some of them are boys and i guess thats y my mom won't let me but she wont let me go to the movies with any of them and its not that i dont want her there but my mom came with me once and my friends were like what the heck why did you bring your gay mom and stuff like that.
wat should i do?
i really want to spend time with them
they are amazing! (link)
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First of all you might want to reconsider how nice your friends are. But also just talk to your mom and let her know that you aren't interested in dating any of your guy friends.All you can do is try to get her to trust you.
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My best friend is so much prettier,smarter,and BETTER than I am. She is so popular she has guys hitting on her ALL THE TIME. She is forever complaining about boys being all flirty with her. I am jealous because she makes the best grades,and she is so beautiful,tall,slim,and such. I'm always jealous of her,and I must show it because she sometimes gets mad at me for it. I get all untalkactive,gloomy,and uncaring when I feel that way, which is so different from my outgoing,active,extrovert,and happy friend. She has the nicest parents,and she has everything.She is friends with everyone. Also,my crush for three years just broke my heart rejecting me by saying, "Eww,gross,not you,you're so ugly and fat." Then,I found out that he liked my best friend. And yes,and I very fat,and I have everyone calling me fat,ugly,and weird,and a horrible singer. I am not confident,and have no self esteem. I'm short, 4 feet nine inches, and much over 132 pounds. I am good at nothing,and get D's and F's. Can anyone help me boost my self-esteem?
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The main thing that you need to know,remember,and think all the time, Is that you dont need to impress anyone.The one that you will spend the rest of your life with won't be the one that dates you because you are pretty.The one that you spend the rest of your life with will be the one who loves you because you are you.People are "Luckier" then others and it seems like they have life way easier.But i bet that if you think about it enough you can notice that there is Something that you have that she doesn't it might not seem like much but that one thing could change someones opinion.Just remember If people don't like you because of your outside than you need to let them go because even though it may seem hard to find there is someone out there for you that will love you only because of what is inside.You just have to Wait.
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I have a really good guy friend... I'm female and he's 2 years older. We are both in high school. Anyway, I like him a lot... a lot. Actually I love him. 100% sure I love him, even if it is just as friends. Well, the problem is, I really want to go out with him, but he has a girlfriend. He was single when I met him though. He knew I liked him before he started dating her, but we didn't know each other very well then. His girlfriend is kinda mean to him, and I don't think she cares about him as much as she should. Maybe he doesn't tell her as much as he tells me, because if he did, she would have to love him more. So, at first I was happy for him, but then his girlfriend got bitchy towards me and his other friends. I don't think she's good enough for him. Now I'm going crazy seeing him with her and other girls. I want him to like me. I think I could have a chance, but I'm really shy and need to open up more. His girlfriend's good friend told me that she thinks they won't last much longer, and his girlfriend told me she thinks he likes me as more than a friend, but I don't think so. I really like him though and I want a chance with him. What I really need advice with is making him like me more. Ways to get close to him. Any advice you have would be good with this situation. I love him and everything he says he wants in a relationship I want to. Now don't forget I'm already really good friends with him. We hang out, and he comes to my house a lot. But I really want to get closer to him and let him know that I feel as strongly as I do. Another thing is, I always want to say "I love you" when he's about to leave or something, but I'm afraid he'll think it's weird or take it the wrong way, I mean, me and my friends do say that to each other, but would it be weird with him? Any advice on that would be helpful too. And, I always want to hug him, and sometimes he really needs a hug, but I think that might be weird for him too. Anyways to approach that? Thanks for any advice you give. Sorry it's long. (link)
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I have cought my self in the 'wanting to say i love you' several times. Believe me its best not to do that. Guys these days don't really think much about saying "I Love you" to anyone except their g/f.He Would probably take it in a weird way.If i was in this situation And My Best friend came to me about his feelings about his relationship then I would try to help him and give him advice. And question his girlfriends ways and maybe even boldy bring them to his attention. It's possible that he Doesn't even notice certain things about his g/f that you do.And maybe once they are in his attention he will notice that his girl friend really isn't what he wants.And possibly you are!
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15/f sophmore.
pep rally
so i'm at school and my vie principle wanted me any my 3 other friends to do this relay thing. And each person had to spin around on a bat 10 times around...so after i spun around the bat 10 times..i was REALLY dizzy. and i fell...but i got up and ran across the gym.
so my question is i know on monday people are going to make fun of me..or make jokes about this situation. So how do i act like i don't care ?!!!..what would you do in my situation?!!
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It sounds like in the first place this was just meant to be a joke of some sort.If people are actually laughing about it in a mean way then they are extremely rude and Immature.I would just laugh along with them.But if they start acting really stupid then tell them that they need to grow up and then turn around and walk away.LMAO. Thats what I would do!
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