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Q: is there a website where you can put a picture of you or someone and then other people can comment if they think they look like you.

thanks
xoxo

On myspace people can rate your pictures

Q: Sooo..
how do you get rid of a double chin.
Look im not fat, well except in my stomach area, but i know how to get rid of that and all but how do you get rid of a double chin?!?!?

Please be Discriptive and like step-by-step if you can or if that made any sense :)
Oh, and if it has to do with what i eat, please make a list like monday -fruit day
tuesday-meat day
whatever, if you know what i'm talking about, please do so.

Thank you so much in return,
Seriously, This means, Alot.
-Double Trouble.

You may not want o hear this but God makes everyone the way he feels they should be made. I know he made a mistake. If you want it gone because of your appearance, there is someone out there who will accept you for who you are, because everyone has something that is beautiful about them that make people see past imperfections like that. If it helps any I have a big nose and I've learned to accept it and it has made my life a whole lot better.

Q: Well i got a job interview at coles i1m not sure if they have that there in the US OR UK um it's like walmart and target and all just food though and i was wondering what do they ask and they said cause im in year 10 they'll need my report though i don't have my report but they said grades don't really matter and i'm just really nervous and ideas on what they'll ask or what i should wear ?
I'm 15/f

They will just want to know about your personality, ability to work with others, your availability, grades, and what you d for a hobby.

You should wear a nice casual outfit. (khakis and a collar shit or button up shirt.)

good luck!!

Q: I am looking for a job, im 14...i am very good when i work in groups or with my hands i am VERY creative, but i am shy...and i know if i do get a job that i'll have to do the interview thing...is there any kinda "walk-on" job that pays decently well..(for a 14 yr old)

-thanks

You may not want to hear this but the best thing is to do more interviews and get over the shyness of interviews, because if you get a job without one eventually when you get older they are required. So get used to them while you have the chance so you will be used to the process when your older trying to apply for a big time job.

Q: I am under alot of pressure to find what career I want the thing is I am only 14 and I know what I want to become it's that it isn't realistic (well that's what people tell me). And if I don't figure out soon I may be living in my mom's house the rest of my life. HELP!

Well, i'm 15 and I have the same pressure on me. Just tell them what you can see yourself doing. As you get older and go through high school your interest may change or you will become more interested in the career you initially wanted to become.

Q: Okay, here's my story.
I'm 18/m, graduated, with a year of cooking school under my belt. I'm currently a dishwasher/prep cook at a high end restaurant. My problem is that I recently discovered I don't want to be a cook. And now I need a career change but don't have enough money to go back to college. I live in B.C. if that helps. Any advice is greatly appreciated, thank you.

You need to first know what you want to be so that you have a direction. With a direction you can work toward a goal. Every time you get paid put a little to the side for school. Before you know it you will have enough with grants and financial aid.

Q: I WaNT To WoRk For WWE?
i, my name is Larry and right now my goal is to get my degree in communications and work for wwe. Right now I am still in High school, and my first goal is to like get into radio and then be able to get in wwe. I really want this opproutnity to be like a announcer, are commentator. This has been my passion all my life and I am upsest with it. What do you suggest I do to get there

You should take a public speaking class and maybe start off commentating for smaller things and work your way up.

Q: I want to act, I just got a call to go to an open call audition. I havent told my family yet, and i dont know how because i dont think that they will believe in me.
how can i tell them, or atleast my mom ?

Just tell her about it..... she may be hesitant about it because it is new to her.Just ask her to come see you audition so that she can see how great you are at it. Also tell her how much you would appreciate if she would believe in you. No doubt you'll win her support.

Q: I read about the horrible conditions of the city of Juarez in Mexico. I've been searching for a while for ways to improve the world. I live in the United States, but what are some ways to reach out and help the people there?

If you just send a box of clothes, toys, or anything that would make life easier. a pair of shoes would make a huge difference in a multiple of people lives. When they use them they can pass them down. You may not be able to change the world but you can make someones life better. =)

Q: Physical? When one does a sport, the school asks one to get a physical from a doctor. What do they ask you?

The just check blood pressure,weight,height, and check your groin area to make sure your private parts are fine.

Q: For christmas I got this external hardrive to put all my music and pics onto.
But my little brother likes to watch south park and whatnot on my laptop, and then he likes going through my folders.(and there, on my ext hard drive, I have some pictures that he really shouldn't see)
So Is there any way I could put a password on the hard drive so if you went on my Computer and try to open the harddrive, it would ask for a password?
thanks!

Well unless you want your brother to grow up to be like you and look at those things, I suggest the best thing to do is delete them.

Q: I would like to read the bible, I am christian , is there a place i can read it online?

Of course,just go to bible.com. I hope you develop a better relationship with God.

Q: I visited my grandparents a few weeks ago and totaly loved it there, I saw all my old friends (I used to live there when I was 9), and the youth groupe rocked! I told my mom how much I loved it there and she asked if I wanted to move there. I told her yes but I ment my entire family. My mom really misses it back in her home town and wants to move there and has made arangements to move back there but without my dad. They aren't getting a divorce but they still aren't going to live together for like 3 years. Mom says that there marriage will last, but I can't help but think that she is sacrificing here marriage for me... should I tell her that i don't want to move (I really do) because she says that we won't if I don't want to.

You need to make a decision of what is more important to you. Being with your friends or having a family that's together. There are kids all over the world that just wish that they could have both parents at home.
You never know how much youll miss something until it's gone.

Q: okay this problem has been hearsince i was born. my mom divorced my dad and left my 4 siblings with him. i wasw about 6 months old when we left for nc to live with my grandma because she couldn't afford living on her own. while we lived there she neverm ade any friends or had anything to do with our family there besides my grandma. Since she had nobody all she had was me and she was stuck up my butt and would get mad if i wanted to go to a friends house or anything without her.so i didn't go places very often. she is also an alcoholic.She get really violent and she has also done a whole bunch of drugs. she would diappear for a wee or 2 at a time. she got caught and when she recovered she was stuck up my butt even worse. i had to start just leaving because other wise i would not have been able to do anything at all. well my mom's job trasfered her to a new town and her i am. we are close to my dad and them but she still is so far up my but and she is always right there when i wanna go somewhere. put it this way. i only have been to my friends house once and i had to fight to go. the only other place i have been is my sisters. she has started to drink again and she is getting to be unberable i can't do anything without her right there i'm 15 and i can't even go to my friends house. i don't want to live with her anymore but i can't live with my dad. he can't afford it. my sister is a sinlge mom with 2 kids so she can't afford me either. i don't know what to do i am terriable unhappy and i want to go back to nc. there are people there who could take me in but i can't leave because i need permission for my mom.and someone would have to buy me a ticket home. what do i do? i can't hardly take her anymore. i feel like i am in a prison. i have told her a million time but it never helps. What should i do?

You have to just stay focused on your grade do good in school so you can go to college, and spend more time warning your mother of how she is ruining her life and yours.

Q: ok so i will be turining 16 in like 10 months now but thats besides the fact i know what i want and i want to get it "done" and ten months well i better tell them something worth convicing by that time thats a lot of time. so i have nothing so far and i was just thinking of convicing my parents and its all three. step mom dad and mom. i already told them i want it. my step mom is like ehh idk your father wont like it my moms like NO my dad well never really said anything but thats what i want its cheap and on our 16 birthdays its like a royal day rite and we get something expensive and thats what i want a belly button piercing thats all my step sister has one and its fucking awsome!!! ilove it i want one and it will happend ....with a goood conviceing story and thats where the people whoare reading this come in helppppp plllzzz.

Parents only look out for your best interest even though we feel that they are always against us, but just wait soon enough you'll be out the house.

Q: so like everyone says that when you have a dream more than once, its eventually going to come true.

is that true? cause i have had the same dream for like a week. just...different people. and different sequences. but the same thing happens.