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Stalking best friend.
I have sorta a problem. I'm 16 male, and my best friend thinks I stalk their myspace. Everyday when I go on, i visit his myspace; I'm actually kinda jealous so I look at the comments that girls post and just read them. he confronted me about it, because he has a tracker.I said to him " no I was just bored and made a lame exuse" I mean Im not a stalker, I guess Im just jealous. So now he deleted me off of myspace and didnt really say anything to me at school today. What can I do? I see him tomorow for a study hall where we can talk. Uhm, I also have an issue where he wants to come over my house, but im kinda ambarrased to show him it because I dont have what he has, and im afriad he'll laugh or make fun of me. Wev'e known each other for almost 3 years. I need help!!
Thanks,
NY152
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I think I have found a situation that you might need to think about.Im sure know that Tom is the creator of myspace and he Has told everyone on myspace that there is no such thing as a profile tracker.There could be a chance that this Guy is simply tricking you and getting you to admit to something that he just suspected
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In all honesty, this is a very strange scenario. I would suggest not bringing it up to him about the myspace problem. Maybe, if you don't show any concerns, he won't think anything of it, and possibly be remorseful. If he does bring it up, tell him that's what you do on your myspace, you check everyone's page out to see how their day went, or whatever.
The problem with you not wanting him to come over, that's just straight petty (not for you but him). If he thinks that he is better than you and you have nothing to provide him as a friend because of what you can or the lack of what you can't give him, he's not worth being a friend. Keep in mind, not everyone is cut from the same mold. You need to be proud to be who you are. Remember there are people out there who don't have the neccesities in life to get by, and we get to have a least some luxuries.
True friends, will stick by you no matter what, and will stay friends with you because of your differences, not inspite of them.
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Your friend is acting crazy. There's no logic in having a Myspace page and friends added if your friends aren't allowed to view your page. It shouldn't matter how many times you hit the site or what page you view. If he is concerned then don't post crap for the public/friends to see. Just imagine if every webmaster decided to ban people just because they visit their site too much. That would be insane! Hello? You are supposed to be his friend. How can that possibly be stalking when he added you in the first place? Let him know that point.
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