Question Posted Thursday February 14 2008, 1:34 am
okay, my best friend, "jenny", she dating a guy name "james", i met James last year and we talk and i sending him my nude pic, for now we stopped talking, of course, but jenny dating him, i told her it gross that a guy saw your best friend's nude thing, she thinks nude pic thing is nothing, cheap to her, but not to me, james knew me and saw my nude and now he dating my best friend, i felt like gross.
for3v3r_his answered Thursday February 14 2008, 7:47 am: I agree with your best friend- I don't think it is gross that he saw you nude and now he is dating her. Good job for telling her about it. You feel it is gross because you regret doing it. It is better to do that when you are dating someone, but dating them for a while. If you're not, who knows what they will do with the picture- who they showed it to...etc. It is very violating. If you are with the person for a while, you will be able to trust them with something like that. If the relationship doesn't work out, I would think you would feel more comfortable knowing you shared something special and have that peace of mind that he wouldn't do anything with the picture to hurt you. [ for3v3r_his's advice column | Ask for3v3r_his A Question ]
Brandi_S answered Thursday February 14 2008, 5:53 am: Well, not on his part. He's a guy, and guys like nude pictures. That's normal.
Now you know why you shouldn't send nude pictures of yourself to people.
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