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16/m how do you get a girl to fa in love/ike you, i know all girls are different and a that but what generally works?
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The guy I like was just himself. He's sweet. He pays attention to me, we hang out, we go places. He lets me play with his hair and we sit close to each other. He always makes sure he tells me when I look good. He'll put his arms around me. I like stuff like that. He's just a nice guy. We have a lot in common too.
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Girls are different [like you stated], some girls prefer the 'bad boys' while others prefer the nice, sweet sensitive types. I, myself, prefer the traditional, gentleman guy, the kind who opens doors for you, pays for your meals, just generally a nice, sweet, sensitive guy who isn't afraid to crack a joke once in awhile. I'm not saying that you have to change the way that you are, because girls are turned off by guys who try too hard and try to be someone that they're not.
My advice, is to just start being nicer if you aren't already. Smile, appear relaxed, and you'll be drawing girls to you in no time. However, don't change your behavior when you're around your friends while you're with a girl. It's very risky, and it's a huge disappointment when a girl finds out that that nice guy who was great, ends up being a jerk when he's around his friends. Please, when you meet a great girl and find yourself liking her, try to make the first move. I can't even begin to explain how nerve-wracking it is when both are interested in one another, but the girl herself is a little shy to step forward and start making all the moves.
Don't be afraid to hold her in public, kiss her when she least expects it, pick her up when she's down. Girls are also attracted to guys who are nice and courteous to their parents.
I hope that helped, message me if you need more advice.
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What generally works is making an effort to go up and talk to her and paying attention to what she's saying. I know that sounds cliche but trust me on this...I'm a girl so you'd think I would know lol.
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Talking to us, hanging out, joking around playfully, compliments, not being boring, fun, taking care of yourself and how you look, pride, interesting ... just good charcteristics and personality and stuff like that, and you're sure to get a girl to like you. [don't forget to not lie and be as charming as possiblee]
Good luckk
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