Hey everybody, I'm Zeina and I am a highschool student. I can't promise that I'll check my inbox everyday but I will do my best to check at least four times a week and I apologize in advance if I don't get back to your questions soon enough. I'm willing to answer any type of question so don't be scared to ask....I'll do my best in answering every question. Thanks !! =]]
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Age: 16
Member Since: December 24, 2007
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I need a boyfriend should I run back to Max, because I really do love him!?!!???? (link)
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honestly....i dont think you should because you said yourself that he was immature and asked you to do things that you didn't want to do. You dont NEED a boyfriend you just WANT one.....if you wait i'm sure some amazing guy will find you and love you and love God too. Its ultimately your decision but....idk i just have a feeling. are you sure you love him? ...or you think you do because the relationships that you've had since him haven't been working out?....think about it
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First of all, I'm a girl and my friend is a guy. We're both in high school. I like him, and he knows it, but we are still really good friends, even though it did hold us down for a while. Anyway, there are several things I need help on. 1 is that he has a girlfriend, which he says he loves, but he is always depressed and afraid of being hurt, and thinks she doesn't care enough about him, which might be true, but he's always telling me about how sad he is, and I care about him a lot, but I don't know how to help him. I want him to feel better. I want to be there for him when he needs me. 2 is that I really like him. A lot. I wish there was away I could show him that I care more than he'll ever know, and I'm the one he needs. When he describes what he wants, it's what I want too, but he likes this other girl. I was fine with them being together at first, because he was happy and she was becoming my friend, but then she became bitchy to me and he was always depressed. I need advice. Thanks. (link)
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First of all i know exactly how you feel...about like your guy friend. It really sucks to see a friend in need and you don't know how to help. You need to tell him how you feel about his situation...let him know that your there for him, even if you've already told him, tell him again. He'll come to you as soon as he realizes what a great friend, person you are. His relationship with this girl isn't as healthy as it seems if he is becoming depressed often.
i wish i had something more to say..i hope this helps. good luck! =]]
-Zeina
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my brother got his very first girlfriend. hes 16. im 14. and i was happy for him and whatnot, but once i met her... i wasnt happy anymore. they've been going out for 2 months now. and she comes over like everyday and its really annoying. he writes her love notes and crap like everyday and its quite sickening. and i dont even think she feels the same way about him. she doesnt even like me and my brother tells her the meanest things about me to her which makes her hate me more. ive tried being nice, but in the end, i cant. i really DO NOT like her. and my brother gets soo offencive if i talk about her. shes coming over my grandma's house for christmas eve tomorrow. and its a family thing. and im totaly against her coming, but no one seems to care. earlier today i told my brother that she shouldnt come because shes not part of the family and i didnt really like her. well, he turned around and slapped me. like, i joke around saying "ohh! i cant wait til ya'll break upp!!" and i usually dont stay around to see his reaction cause i know it wouldnt be pretty. lol but, i dont mean it.
one time, he was on the phone with her and also on the computer talking to her, which is annoying, and me and my friend were sittin there on the couch, and i called his girlfriend a hoe. ( i call everyone a hoe, honestly) and he nearly choked me. and once i got away from him, he jumped over the couch and started chasing me. ( our parents werent home) so, i ran out of the house and he finally stoped chasing me. hes really aggressive when it comes to his girlfriend. and its really annoying. i dont mean any of the things i say, but he still takes it personaly. and i think he knows i dont mean it, but he doesnt care. and i cant stand her over our house EVERY SINGLE DAY. i try and stay out of it, but i just cant.
ive tried to ignore her, but somtimes when shes over she comes into my room and calls me something that my brother has told her to call me. and it makes me mad. sooo, yeah i hate her. and she hates me. what do i do? (link)
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wow...i totally understand what you are going through. I'm very sorry that your in this kind of situation. Are you and your brother close? well even if your not, try sitting down with him and explain how you feel but try to state your feels in a calm way. Trust me, as calm as possible or else its going to make bigger problems. You could also try calling a family meeting and try to come up with an agreement of some sort so that you, your brother and his girlfriend don't always have to be around each other. Has your brother ever gone to her house? Maybe go over to a friends house. I can't say that i have the perfect answer but i hope these little tips help.
-Zeina =]
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