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i hate my brothers girlfriend
my brother got his very first girlfriend. hes 16. im 14. and i was happy for him and whatnot, but once i met her... i wasnt happy anymore. they've been going out for 2 months now. and she comes over like everyday and its really annoying. he writes her love notes and crap like everyday and its quite sickening. and i dont even think she feels the same way about him. she doesnt even like me and my brother tells her the meanest things about me to her which makes her hate me more. ive tried being nice, but in the end, i cant. i really DO NOT like her. and my brother gets soo offencive if i talk about her. shes coming over my grandma's house for christmas eve tomorrow. and its a family thing. and im totaly against her coming, but no one seems to care. earlier today i told my brother that she shouldnt come because shes not part of the family and i didnt really like her. well, he turned around and slapped me. like, i joke around saying "ohh! i cant wait til ya'll break upp!!" and i usually dont stay around to see his reaction cause i know it wouldnt be pretty. lol but, i dont mean it.
one time, he was on the phone with her and also on the computer talking to her, which is annoying, and me and my friend were sittin there on the couch, and i called his girlfriend a hoe. ( i call everyone a hoe, honestly) and he nearly choked me. and once i got away from him, he jumped over the couch and started chasing me. ( our parents werent home) so, i ran out of the house and he finally stoped chasing me. hes really aggressive when it comes to his girlfriend. and its really annoying. i dont mean any of the things i say, but he still takes it personaly. and i think he knows i dont mean it, but he doesnt care. and i cant stand her over our house EVERY SINGLE DAY. i try and stay out of it, but i just cant.
ive tried to ignore her, but somtimes when shes over she comes into my room and calls me something that my brother has told her to call me. and it makes me mad. sooo, yeah i hate her. and she hates me. what do i do?
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wow...i totally understand what you are going through. I'm very sorry that your in this kind of situation. Are you and your brother close? well even if your not, try sitting down with him and explain how you feel but try to state your feels in a calm way. Trust me, as calm as possible or else its going to make bigger problems. You could also try calling a family meeting and try to come up with an agreement of some sort so that you, your brother and his girlfriend don't always have to be around each other. Has your brother ever gone to her house? Maybe go over to a friends house. I can't say that i have the perfect answer but i hope these little tips help.
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How can he assume you don't mean what you say about her when it's obvious you can't stand her?
Best solution is to just respect her out of respect your brother. That makes you the bigger person.
Ignore her.
If she comes into your room to be rude, tell her that is your personal space, and to stay out. She has no business just barging her way into your room.
And you want to know something? You and her may hate each other, but she needs to respect your brother enough to respect his sister. He may not realize that now, but he will in due time.
In a couple of years, he will understand that he can't let a girl come between him and you, and he probably won't.
Don't worry. He won't be with her forever. Just stop harassing him about her, and he will hopefully stop harassing you about her.
Really, when you tease him about her and all, you are adding fuel to the fire.
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