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Friend in Rough Times
Hi, I'm 16/f. My 16/m best friend is going through some really hard times. His life used to be awesome, and all of a sudden his parents separated (a few months ago). He hasn't really been open about it with me or anybody else, and he hasn't really changed much, but I can tell that it's wearing on him. Now it's like he has to be the glue to keep his family together- he recently moved to a smaller house with just his mom and younger siblings. And his girlfriend told me that the other night, his father very forcefully took the keys to his car away for no reason. Apparently the cops were involved. Besides that stress, he's a really good student and school has been hard on him this year. I just want to know what I can do as a friend. He went from having a very normal family to having a crazy life in a matter of weeks. I've never had anything like that happen in my life, and I can't imagine what he's going through... and I don't want to say the wrong thing if he does decide to be open with me about things. Can you guys give me some insight, if you've gone through this?
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Your story is very similar to mine. My friend's parents are separated, but have been for a while. His dad took away his privilege to drive for no reason a few weeks ago. He sometimes gets depressed, and he lives with his dad, who can be somewhat abusive. Really the only thing you can do is let him know that you are there for him, and when he talks to you, not only listen, but let him know that you are listening. Just be a good friend and be there for him. Message me if you want to talk more.
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