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Well, about 4 days ago now i split up with my (ex) boyfriend and now i kinda love him and one of his best mates. If i go back out with him then I'd seem like a complete loser, who likes to upset him by dumped him, then going back out with him. But, if i go out with one of his best mates he'd be completely depressed. He'd already cried two days straight over me finishing it with him, what would he act like if i went out with his best mate?!! I'm soo confused on what to do. But remember I don't love just one, i love them both. I'm 13/f.

Well, if you love your ex boyfriend still then just say...

"you know what babe I thought about my decision that I made and I take it all back... I love you still and I can't bare to see you all depressed like this. I want to go back out with you again."

You got to forget about his best friend because its completely against all rules to go out with an ex's best friend. The best choice is to just go back out with the 1 guy you love!

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I'd like to see how it goes.

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I had a best friend for 5 years. But once we got into middle school, we started to seperate. We were in none of the same classes, but I thouht we could still stay close. But she then became best friends with a girl who's really mean to me. We really don't like eachother and she is always making fun of me and my other friends. A year later we don't even talk very much. I really miss my friend, but she has changed so much, and I don't think we will ever be close again. Do you have any advice on how to continue being friends with her? or is the friendship doomed forever?

Well, I have been in this predicament before and I'm not very close to my ex best friend because of some of her decisions. The only thing you can really do is call her sometime and be like...

"Hey stranger! I need to talk to you and just casually say I need help with a little problem. Just tell her you miss your friend and you don't know if she misses you and if she says well I can't ask her for you. Just be like well do you miss me."

If she says no not really then you know she wasn't a real friend and if she says yes i miss you then you have to tell her how you feel because friendships revolve around communication. You have to express your feelings to her! I'm sorry I took so long to answer your question but I been a little bit busy.

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ok this is a weird question. what do giraffes eat? do they eat fruit or vegetables? and are they usually mean or peaceful?

Like the above people said giraffe's eat lots of leaves and thats why they have long necks to get the leaves out of the trees they also don't have vocal cords... they don't make a single sound. they only get mean when you offend them or cross their property.

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Hey here's a picture of me and I'm thinking about dying my hair.What color should I make it? Or should I keep it the same?

http://s194.photobucket.com/albums/z157/hiphopalopagus/?action=view¤t=Copy1ofPicture003.jpg

You should dye it either Red or Dark Brown or you can go with a faded kind of Black... If you get what I mean.

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i have pretty clear skin but what can i do about scars? i sort of have a lot of acne scars on my forehead and i was wondering if theyre going to fade or if there is anything i can do about them. i am 14/f if that helps.

Ok well the scars appear when you pick at your acne or if you ever pop zits thats what causes them. One way you can prevent any future scars you can simply not pick or pop your zits... To get rid of them you can use vitamin E and all you do is poke a hole in the vitamin E pill and use the oil on your forehead to help it heal.

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