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is he worth it?
14/f
k well me and my friend both like this guy in our class and i mean i really like him a lot but she doesn't know i do. and i don't wanna start a competition but he's the sweetest guy i've met and everything but then she sees the same i guess. we're not that close and now i don't know what to do!!!
help please!!
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heres my advice to you .
shes your friend && you both like him than just back off because boys shouldnt get in between friendships.
because remember boys come & go but friends stay forever.
just forget about this kid && just tell your friend you know what im not gnnna risk our friendship over some stupid boy because theres so many guys out there for me.
so just you wait.
&& make the right choice.
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I think you should go for it. You and this other girl arent close, so why not? In life, you will soon realize that you just need to do what YOU want to. Cause when it all comes down to it, your alone. Therefore, you have to learn how to take care of yourself, and rely on yourself. (:
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Ok lets start off by saying that you should bring him up in conversations with her and she how she reacts and if she gets mad than i think you should keep it a secret and just secretly get him and just say well i dont know why he chose me plus you said it yourself yea really aint much of friends so it aint really a big idea now if yea were best friends than no you shouldnt get with him.....but yea ok back to the subject just bring him up and if she reacts like omg we both like the same guy...and maybe yea can make a game of it and see who gets who...so yea try that...
good luck
XOXOXOX
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i disagree with the person below me .. he is worth it .. i mean you have more friends then boyfrinds at a time ya know what i mean? i mean if your going to do what the person below says youll never get a boyfirned. so what if it doesnt last it was a damn good time and you have feelings for him
so i say go for him
in life you go for what you want
or you dont get anything at all
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He's not worth it. He may be super sweet, but you are only 14. The relationship is not going to last. I can tell you right now, your friendship will be destroyed if you go out with him. If your friend stops having feelings for him, then you can go out with him, but until then NEITHER of you should go out with him. I mean seriously- why kill a friendship for a relationship that will last no longer that 2 monthes?
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