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friend problems...
im 16/f umm at my school there's this new girl named tori and she's in my chemistry class. and we talked & stuff. and she would wait for me after class. but after a while she stopped waiting for me and she even stopped talking to me. i don't know why. and one day in class i said hi to her and she was like umm hey and she was being weird and rude. i know i shouldn't care but i felt like i've lost a friend. i don't get why doesn't she talk to me anymore? i didn't do anything to her.. so what should i do?
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ok i suggest you write her a letter or just ask her straight up have i said something about or i have been rude or have you heard anything nast rumors about me. See what her replies are if she doesnt reply and walks away thats when u just let it be because after she does that i think there is really no going back to that.that was just rude and everything. So ya you can also try another approach and send one of your friends to slowly get close to her and find out what her deal is....but simply i just think she has found some gurls who dont like you so of course she is new and simply peer pressure got between yea..but i know how you feel. .you feel guilty and everyhting even tho you dont know her...but cant help to worry. . . but just let it go if those things dont work...
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She might have heard something about you. Can you think of anyone that doesn't like you? Or maybe she is hanging around some people that said you were not someone to hang around. Talked to people about you or something and they said something. Maybe that happened, or not. She's knew so anyone can be influential. Remember all she really wants do is fit in, all new kids do. The best you can do is ask her what's going on? Or is she o.k.? If she gives you attitude, and pushes you away then maybe she isn't worth being your friend. Remember a good friend doesn’t care about anything but you. If she doesn't like you anymore she doesn't deserve you.
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Sadly, you just have to accept the fact that she has moved on to other friends. It happens from time to time, especially considering she is new and starting to get to know all of those around her.
Maybe in the long run it is for the best? I would say it already seems that way considering if she were a true friend, she wouldn't have traded you in on a different model. Better to discover that now than to become really attached to a friendship only to find that she was being fake. That hurts a lot more.
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I know this probably the answer you didn't want...but ask her why she is doing that. It could be from a rumor that is going around, and she heard it and doesn't like it or something. Maybe she started to hang out with a new group of friends that are mean like that, or don't like you. She might also be having troubles at home. Let her know that you wanna be friends with her and you care about her, and that you are there for her. If you do that im sure that will fix it.!
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