my dad insists that i be in bed by 10:30 on school nights. im 16 and i think this is rediculous. of course i can never fall asleep at 10:30 because thats too early so i normally just watch tv until 1:30 when i can fall asleep. he doesn't know this. he thinks i just go to bed and occasionally when he opens my door and i have the tv on he yells at me. i feel like a little kid. how can i convince him to let me stay up. it's not like i'd go to bed at 1:30 on a school night but he won't even let me stay up until 11 or 11:30. he over egsagerates about everything. if its 10:35 he'll complain because "it's 11 o'clock already and you're not in bed" there's a half an hour difference there buddy. please help me convince him because this is just rediculous.
Parents just care, sometimes too much. If you tell him, Dad I love you, but I can't got to sleep at 10:30 and I don't want to fight about this with you can we make a compromise on a bedtime schedual? If he says no then tell him how you feel.Then say dad not to hurt you, but I really just want to know why you want me in bed at this time. If he really cares, which he does, I'm sure he can bend things a little bit for you.
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Ok i am an 8th grader and everyday after all of my classes are over i go and see this 7th grade teacher bc he is like the bestest teacher ever lol but there is this boy in this teachers class that is like in love with me {{lets call him "bob"}}. "Bob" has had a BIG CRUSH on me since he met me and he is really weird and it is embarrasing bc everytime "bob" sees me he is stuck up my but and everyone thinks i am going out with "bob". But he has known me for going on a year now and he is always like omg i cant believe you are gonna leave me and go to high school and he is always talkin about how he dreams about me and stuff and it is really creepy bc "bob" scares me and everyone says he rights on his arm a heart and mine and his initials and i dont know what to do bc i want him to leave me alone bc "bob" gets on my nerves but im not tryin to be me i am really nice but its just he wont leave me alone and i have done everything i can >:| What should i do to make him stop?!?!?!?
OK, I think maybe you should tell bob the truth, but as nice as possible. He has a crush. It's sorta cute, but it can get very annoying. Just pull him aside and say, listen bob you're so cute and all but I want you to know that you're one of my good friends, and we should stay friends when I go off to high school. Won't that be fun? It may be a little harsh, but sometimes you can't hint these things if you really want him gone just let him down as easy as possible. Unfortunately there is a huge possibility that he's going to get hurt. The great thing about people is that they get over these things sooner or later.
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okay well i have feelings for my guy friend. i dont know if he feels the same way though. he is a sophmore and i am a freshmen. we talk on the phone and on myspace. he usually wants me to call me and stuff and suggested us hanging out just the two of us ,but i got so nervous that i changed the subject. he says he cares about me and he is the nicest guy i have ever met. how do i hint that i like him? Does he fill the same way?
Guys don't get hints unless you spell it out for them. Tell him you like him, and that you want to date him. That you care a lot about him. He sounds like he already likes you. Don't be afraid is he feels the same way or not what really matters is how you feel about him. Just tell him the truth.
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MY MUM WON'T LET ME HAVE A BOYFRIEND!
am 15yrs old, ad my mum won't let me have a boyfriend!
All my friends have boyfriends, but i did'nt care i could'nt have one because i never saw it as a big deal....
Then...about a year ago i started to like this guy, i knew i could'nt go out with him, and was'nt upset i could'nt, because i thought, 'why would he like me? But about a month ago he asked me out, i told him i would think about it.(And hes saying take as long as you want, how cute is that)
I find it really unfair i can't go out with him, my mum says i need to concetrate on my studies but i am, an a/b student-and hes kinda more clever the me!
i don't think she trusts me either, but i know not to do anything stupid, i mean things like sex, am going to defo wait till am married.
I know she wants me to be safe and everything but, i really like him, and i wish that she would let me go out with him.
Is she being fair?
It's hard to say if a parent is being fair or not. Better safe then sorry. Yet that still doesn't change things. Maybe if you ask her to bring over some friends, and you bring him over let him meet her. Let them talk and get to know each other. When they're done ask nonchalantly what does she think of him, if she asks why say, "Mom, I love u. I want to respect you, and for you to trust me. Instead of dating behind your back I decided for you to meet the guy I liked first, please! I promise that I will be responsible. I know you're just worried, but I think it would be best if you let me." Sometimes when someone says no to something it's bound to happen. If you show her that you respect her she might soften up, and also make sure you let the guy know what's going on.
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okay.. so this guy that i used to hang out with a lot... (like a month and a half ago) used to like me... but then he told me he didnt like me.. but now i just want to try to be friends with him.. and i gave it time.. and so tonight i was with my friend and i called him.. and i talked to him like normally and he said he was free sometime this week and so we are supposed to hang out sometime soon.. but im just scared that he wont remember or he wont want to or something like that.. but i just want to see how it goes.. so yeahh. i dont know what to do about it. but my friend also talked to him and he was being really goofy(hes like that a lot) and he was like "u and katie should come over and we can jump on my trampline and play ping pong!" and my friend was like "haha okay...." kind of weird i know.. but it wouldn't be horrible.. i just don't know if he'll remember it.. cause then i texted him and i was like u me and gabby next week ur house.. kayy? and he texted back alright! so i dont know. what do you think??
That's great! Just try to continue your friendship with him. Just keep reminding him, continue to hang out. Maybe he has allot of stuff on his mind, or maybe he's just forgetful. If he's silly he probably is. If you want to keep hanging out with him don't be scared to send him a text message and say, "Hey! don't forget we have plans." If he forgets it's ok. Don't feel scared, he seems to still want to hang with you so just take your chances, sooner or later he'll be able to remember things on his own.
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im 16/f umm at my school there's this new girl named tori and she's in my chemistry class. and we talked & stuff. and she would wait for me after class. but after a while she stopped waiting for me and she even stopped talking to me. i don't know why. and one day in class i said hi to her and she was like umm hey and she was being weird and rude. i know i shouldn't care but i felt like i've lost a friend. i don't get why doesn't she talk to me anymore? i didn't do anything to her.. so what should i do?
She might have heard something about you. Can you think of anyone that doesn't like you? Or maybe she is hanging around some people that said you were not someone to hang around. Talked to people about you or something and they said something. Maybe that happened, or not. She's knew so anyone can be influential. Remember all she really wants do is fit in, all new kids do. The best you can do is ask her what's going on? Or is she o.k.? If she gives you attitude, and pushes you away then maybe she isn't worth being your friend. Remember a good friend doesn’t care about anything but you. If she doesn't like you anymore she doesn't deserve you.
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14 f. Well sometimes Ill be doing stuff.. like washing dishes or listening to music or pretty much anything when Im alone and i start to daydream about someone i know dying. Usually, my best friend, one of my friends, my parent(s) and one in a while me. I daydream about it for a while. Like I have a whole story to go with it, like its a movie or something. And I just cant stop doing it, it happens all the time and I'm worried about them. What shud I do?
I think these are anxiety thoughts. Maybe you are afraid of loosing them.
First you have to accept that we all die a little bit each day. By getting older! We are not immortal. I think if you begin to accept that sooner or later we all are going to die, these anxiety thoughts are brought on by fear of loss. If you accept death these thoughts may not happen to you anymore. If they do just repeat death is a normal part of life it happens all the time. Since you create little story lines maybe you can write them about fictional characters. Any way to get the thoughts out of your head can help.
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16/f
ok so me and this guy hooked up for like a week mabye 2 right after me and this other guy ( who i really really really liked ) stop talking to each other. so obviously i was a little depressed and everything and a few days ago the new guy kept asking me like what do you want out of this and im like give me time and hes like ill wait as long as it takes blah blah blah he tells everyone he really likes me.well yesterday i found out hes calling me a slut and he found out that the last boy was an asshole to me so he was like mabye if i treat her like an ass hole shell like me more. so i comfronted him about it last night and hes like i dont want to deal with your drama and walked away. i cried for like a minute and then i was just really mad at him for thinking he could get away with what he said. what should i do? and do you think im sad about loosing him or just mad at him??
It was totally wrong for him to say those things! It doesn't matter what a girl does, no one should ever say those things about someone, even if it was out of anger. And if they do make sure no one with a big mouth is around to hear it and pass it along like some dumb game of telephone! What you should do is forget about him! I know harsh, but why do you want to be with a guy who will say those things about you? You shouldn't it was uncalled for there are better ways to handle your feelings then to take them out on someone in that manner. What you should do is take a step back from the all the drama and sort your feelings out. You probably didn't get over the last guy that you really, really liked and you do need time. So give yourself time, write down how you feel get it out of you and when you're ready move on, go for it. I think you are sad and mad about loosing him. A part of you wanted to start things yet you are still on the last guy. Yet you shouldn't be angry with yourself, you told him how you felt and he got angry and took it out in the wrong way. Yet maybe without knowing maybe to get over the first guy you hooked up with him. Of course that's not how things work, but you maybe tried. Next time if you are still in a crush with a guy try not to jump into another relationship.
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I'll make my story short. I like this boy, and no I'm not an immature little brat who's too young to date. Anywho, I have a crush on this boy very much and this guy rejects me saying that he doesn't feel that way about me. But he's been hanging out with everyday and says he misses me and hugs me plenty of times. I like him so much but I really want him to like me back but all I get from him is that he says I'm like his little sister which is totally embarrassing and lame. I don't know how to get this guy to like me, when he likes to hang out with me all ready, and I don't get why he wouldn't like me! It's just hard and I need someone's help. How would I make this guy like me more than a little sister? He's not like any other guys. He's very blunt and shy to share his emotions but when it comes down to it, he does say what he feels. And I want him to like me more than a friend really badly. If he hangs out with me so much, I don't get why he doesn't like me more than a friend. Please help! Thank you.
It's very hard to MAKE someone like you. Truthfully you can't change someone's feelings. A person must do it on their own. It may seem hard, and it may hurt to know that he may never feel the same way about you. But if you truthfully do like him, don't you think that maybe, just maybe, you should accept being friends, and let it go? I believe that if you truly like someone you will take being friends then not having them in your life at all. Maybe someday he'll wake up and say "OH WOW! I LOVE HER!" But for now it's best that you don't push anything, it might ruin the friendship. I'm sure if you don't push anything, his sisterly love for you will grow into something deeper, but remember feelings are feelings and you can't change them unless they're yours.
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my boobs just started killing today and feel like bricks and are very sensitive,and i think it might be a sign of pregnancy, how long do i wait to take a pregancy test for it to be correct ? i got my period a week ago, but do i still have to wait another month to find out if im pregnant ?
Usually it takes 6 weeks for a baby to start to form, if you want to take a pregnancy test. It could be that you’re pregnant, but it seems too soon. Since you got your period a week ago I'm figuring it's from your period. If you still want to be safe it usually takes 6 weeks from the baby being conceived, and then you can try a test. If you start morning sickness, or anything else unusual that has to do with nausea, like maybe coffee or a certain food, maybe even lipstick those can also be signs. For the pain try an over the counter drug, aspirin, Advil, Tylenol. If you want to be more natural you can try a warm shower, and leave ice on your boobs for about five min. If the pain still is there you can try a doctor, it could be strain. Usually AFTER you have a baby your breasts hurt, do to breast feeding. Hope you feel better!
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Hi,
I sort of have situation right now between two guys("G" & "J"). I find that i like both of them, and im having a problem choosing!! I feel like i should, because i wouldnt want to falsely lead any of them on.
lets start with "G": i talk to him like everyday, and yet he still mystifys me. i want to know him so much more, and i really like him. i just can't stop thinking about him. I dont know though, what he would be like if i asked him out, or if he even likes me. (but i get the feeling he might)
and then, theres "J": i also talk to him everyday, he makes me laugh, and he's really nice. all my friends think he's my perfect match. I know he likes me, its really obvious and it makes me feel good. I like him too, but im at a crossroads now between G and J.
Can you help me out here?
It's always hard picking between two guys. In situations like this you can never tell how it's going to turn out. So it sounds like G is a giant mystery. It's always fun going into the unknown, but what happens after the unknown becomes known? What happens when all those feeling begin to fade, and you can't do anything about it. I say you find out more about G, and make sure he is no longer the mystery, because in relationships the unsolved mysteries becomes solved. You sound really happy with J though! He's also a little bit more obvious. I can't really tell you who to pick unfortunately, but I can tell you to get to know G more, and when you do compare him with J. Write both their qualities out on a piece of paper. Whose ever qualities you like more, that's the one you should go for. Don't be afraid to hurt anyone's feelings! This is your life. Good Luck :)!
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AH! 15/f...I have this guy that I FELL IN LOVE WITH at the beginning of the year. Just infatuated though, lol. I never talk to him. Because I'm too shy. But I really really really like him. And he always makes eye contact with me and smiles.
So yesterday, my friend comes online and tells me "I'm going to make it happen for you and [his name]. for sure. I got your back ;) I can make the connection between you two because you both are my friend"
And, of course, anyone would get SUPER excited. And I was. But now I'm beginning to doubt this. Has anyone on here ever been set up by a friend to be with a guy? I really want to be with him. It's like killing me inside. Self-confidence is a big issue here though. I'm not ugly, but I don't know how to look at myself/what to see in myself from the side. I don't know what guys think of me.
How can I better the chance of this working out? =( Thanks so much in advance.
Playing Match maker is so much fun! But don't you think you should be the one to come out of your shell and ask him out?If you have some confidence issues, don't you think this could bring you out of your shell? Its ok to get rejected EVERYONE DOES!It's ok, and don't be shy. Sometimes boys can admire a girl that can speak for herself, and be bold enough to make the first move. You have to start learning more about yourself, it may be an online personality quiz or zodiac signs. But don't be afraid. Makes sure that he treats you with respect and makes you feel good. You can do it! Deep down inside, there's a great interesting wonderfull girl who's just dying to tell that boy how she feels. Should we keep her locked up any longer?
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Okay im a freshman at my school
and they are having powder puff,which is like football for girls.
I really want to tryout but I don't know too much about it.
Like are the rules the same and whatnot?
I basically just need some pointers or basics
thank you :)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Powder_Puff
This will tell you all about the sport
I'm sorry I couldn't be more help, but you should go for it! It looks really good on college! Good Luck :)!
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my best friend used to be in our group but then she left us for all these gothic kids. she denys being gothic. today at school she wore all black and dark purple. her friend started talking to me and he was sayin ew omg shes so gothic and she cuts why are you her friend. i was so embarassed i looked at her and her other friend just stared at me and he said why are you acting so happy! and her friends do kinda give me chills in this class ther was her 2 guys and a girl of her friends. she never usually takes any shit from people shed stand up for her self and her friends usually do to. but she sat there peeking smiling. after class she said o what a friend to me and i thought she was talking about me. was this like a setup? we were talking yesterday about our old group and she sounded kinda mad. she said i act like i dont know her at school. could she have told her friends. im still in it but i feel like an outcast with out her. but she seems so much happier around these friends. whats with her always being with guys well and girls and what happened im just confused? her friends accept me and she keeps me safe if im around them i have a soft heart shes a great friend but what am i? well im 14 girl shes 13..girl lol shes been my best friend my whole entire life but i gues i do tell my other friend their my best friends..
Labels! Throughout school all we here about are jocks, preps, gangsters, punks, goths...but what are these groups really? A bunch of normal kids that's what! It doesn't matter what you ware or how you act. A person's a person! Do not feel embarassed with your friend you sound like you care about her alot! Do not let group identity ruin realationships. Do not feel emabrassed. The next time someone asks you "Why do you hang out with her?" Simply say "Because its a free country. She's my best friend! I won't give her up just because she's in a different group. Are you insane or just imature." It's o.k. to feel your not a good friend. That's just a feeling, what matters is what you do. Just because your friend acts different doesn't mean she's still not your friend. If you paint a yellow cat black, is in not still yellow? You might get a little wirded out at first, but that's normal. You're going into the uknown and people label them as freaks all the time. Do you know how much that hurts them. If your best friends new "goth" group asks you "Why are you so happy?" say "Cuz I'm so happy to see you! Plus I'm with my best friend in the whole world!" She matters don't care what people say. Put yourself in her shoes! Imagine being shuned becuase you're doing something you like. Something you feel comforftable with. Do not change becuase you might feel people not likeing you. BE YOURSELF!When people see how ready you are to accept another group, some will admire you and you may be the start of a peace among groups! Yet some will envy you, or not wish to change your mind. If they drop you...were they really your friend to begin with? Or were they just friends with an image of you that was not true.
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14/f.
My mom quit her job of 12 years last year; she was a programmer, but they laid her off. Since the arrival of my baby brother, EVERYTHING has changed. We are suddenly needing a lot more money because we moved into a house, and my mom took a job as a waitress at a local restaurant. She comes home and complains about making only $50, and the most she's ever made without working double shifts, would be $80 on a FRIDAY night. I'm so worried to see her like this. She's a very strong woman and I try to help out when I can with my baby brother. Sometimes it's so, so hard, and with going into my freshman year and starting tennis at the school, we had to put my brother in a (home) daycare. Up until now, I've watched him ever since the second that he was born. I'm crying right now, and I know I'm not supposed to worry about these things; yet I still do. My mom tells me that everything will be okay some day.. but when will that day come? We went to Buenos Aires in Argentina this past January, and spent well over $10,000. Not to mention that we have to pay about $1200 a month for our mortgage, on top of that, food, clothes, diapers for my brother, daycare, everything. My stepdad works as a delivery driver, and basically delivers medicine to Walgreens and other pharmacies. I think he makes $600 a week, and works overtime when he shouldn't be. (He's a supervisor). He got a job offer from his old boss, and might be making $1000 a week now. It will help so much, with that extra 400-500 dollars.
Sorry that this is so long. It also doesn't help that my mom's twin sister (my aunt), and her 2 boys get everything they want and live in a very decent home, are caught up with their credit card bills, and pay everything in cash.
I just needed some place to vent. I really want to do tennis, but it's hard to see my mom struggle to find someone to watch my brother. It seems like ever since he was born, my life has completely turned around.
It's totally and complelty normal to feel this way. You are having a hard time, but I don't think you should give up tennis,you are still a young girl, and though you have grown up problems they shouldn't stop you from doing what you want! This will only make you stronger. You will work harder and not take things for granted. Sooner or later things will fall into place. Your baby brother may soemtimes feel to you almost like a burden, but it wasn't his fault to be born. He's so inocent and has no ides what's going on. That's why you have to set an example for him. SHow him it doesn't matter where you come from. If you want something you go for it! No matter what. If some days you see that you really can't stay after for tennis. Talk to your coach. They will understand, and admire you for your maturity. If you feel pitied in any way if people ask to help DON'T! They only ask to help because they care for you, and don't want to see you struggeling. If you have problems and need to vent write it all down and put it soemwhere where no one will fing it. Give some time for yourself. Your parents only want whats best for you. They are the adults let them handel things, and if you feel you need to do something, sit back relax and say. I am fourteen, I am not a supoer heroe and my parents want what's best for me. I will work hard in school and concentrate on me. That's all you can do. It won't be easy, but I have faith that you will look back on this and say, "Wow! I over came that! I am really strong." Remember if you can overcome this you can overcome anything.
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i lost my virginity to my ex boyfriend a few months ago. and we had sex one night, and then the next, and then about three days later. i bled everytime. i havent had sex since a few months ago. ive heard that its okay and that it sometimes happens because it never had time to heal. and ive also heard that its alright for you to bleed your first few times. is it? and if so, how long will it keep bleeding for?
Don't worry this is normal!! You are ok nothing's wrong.You were most likely having alot of sex and not giving your body enough time to heal. Even though the passion may be overwhelming, relax and take a cold shower. Your body does need time to heal. Since you haven't had sex since a few months ago it prbably has had time to heal. But remeber everyone's body is different. USE LUBRICATION!!! KY Jelly. A life saver. If you are then good keep using it. If you haven't you can get some at a local drug store. Apply it on your body as well as the outside of his, and go easy...if anything is uncomfortable, don't feel shy to say "Whoa! Hold on feeling a little pain." Relax and use the moement to cuddle. When you feel ready again go for it. Do not push yourfself and remeber your body sometimes needs some breaks. Its ok to wait it just makes next time even better.
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18/m
okay well about 7 months ago i got out of a 8 month relationship and with that girl i found myself always trying to pick a fight just so i could be mad and angry with her
and i hated it but i figured it was just because our personalitys clashed or something because it seemed like she did the same thing sometimes (that wasent what ended our relatinship tho)
oh and i never loved her only liked
but now i have a girlfriend that i absolutly love more than anything and i have been with her for about 5 months but i have been good friends with her for a cpl years
but anyways im finding myself starting to do the same thing i did with my ex. where im starting a fight for no reason
and im hating this so much because i dont want to hurt my girlfriend.
is there something wrong with me?
is this normal?
please help!!!
Hav you ever felt little relationship scared? Though some people may say "No way! I have had tones of relationships!" that might not be the case. You can have a million relationships, but if pattern begins to form its a reason that goes way deeper into you. Think, are you soemtimes afriad of commitment? Have you seen a relationship that ended badly? Maybe not, maybe life was pretty perfect in seeing love and feeling love. If that's the case then great! Yet your subconcious mind is pushing these girls away. That's why you keep picking fights. NO nothing is worng with you! This is normal in cases of fear. If something was wrong with you you wouldn't be screaming HELP! This may take some time, but when you find yourself beginning to pick fights with your girlfriend stop! Breath! And tell yourself, look at her, you love her she's beautifule, and you don't want to hurt her. Think of a good memories, or inside joke. If she notices and asks what's worng? Why are you acting strange, an easy way to cover that up with a girl is a mind boggeling kiss, and saying "You just make me feel so great! I love you." That will put all her suspicions to bed. Yet this is easier said then done. Sometimes you won't catch yourself, but this is trial and error, and the best thing you can do is reason with yourself.
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Okay so I had to go swimming with my period yesterday. I never tried a tampon before. I wasn't scared when trying to put it in. I just don't get how!! I read the directions and stuff but I just don't get it. Does it like, slide in? I kept pushing in all different spots but it's like it wouldn't go in. I want to start using tampons but I'm just not sure. When I thought I had it in, like 1/4 of a cm of it was hanging out along with the string, but it took soo long to do that, so I just left it in there and went swimming. It felt SO weird swimming, maybe cause it was my first time with a tampon, or it wasn't in right. When I took it out about 3-3 1/2 hours later, it sort of unfolded at the top, and there was like a very very tiny amount of blood on my underwear. I just need help in how to put it in the right way!!
Yeah! Though some people won't admit it, every girl goes through this. Unfortunatly everyones body is different so they can't really give you a step by step map of how it "should" be. First off and this might be to detailed but the first time you have it in and really have it in it will fell akward!!! But the most important thing to do IS RELAX!!!! Becuase everyones body is differnt. The Vagina can either slope up, or down, or stay stright. Given that information... try every way. It may hurt, and it may take a while, but this is just practice! The first time you said you hade it 1/4 of a cm, go for that spot again. If it begins to come in keep pushing it in until you almost get to the end of the tampon and you fingers have no where else to go, then insert the tampon. It will feel akward, but the best and easiest ones I think to use are Tampax pearl. Since they're plastic, its easier. Remeber this is practice, and don't get scared. Remeber woman are built to give births to things the size of WATERMELONS! A little tampon isn't going to hurt you. Practice and get comfortable with your body.
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15/f
I go to an arts boarding school, and so 90% of the guys here are gay. I'm not even kidding. There are a few straight ones, but they're all super hot and taken (by preppy anorexic blonde bitches). They'd never want someone like me- I'm not even thin. I've gained a lot of weight recently so my confidence is at an all-time low. I'm so shy and I can't talk to these guys because they're all preppy and rich and stuck-up. I'm not like that at all.
So I'm pretty much stuck with boys. By the way only about 1/3 of the students here are boys.
How can I meet a boy who will actually ask me out who isn't taken or gay? One who will say I'm beautiful and respect me.
ps: I can never leave campus exept to go to the mall on the weekends.
help.
That sounds like total dateing hell! First off, I think that all girls have problems with trying to find the right guy. You probably feel very insecure about yourself, but don't! For a girl like you to want a guy to respect her, you must have alot of respect for yourself! Keep that up! Do not lower your standards for anyone. To the weight...REAL WOMAN HAVE CURVES!!! lol. Honey, you should not care what your weight is, what you should care about is staying healthy! Lonely girl, you should change your name to a wise girl. Love a love strong and true it's something you unfortunatly have to wait for, and when it comes (WHICH IT DEFFINITALY WILL) you will be ready, and it will be so deep you will say "WOW! This was so worth waiting for." ALso look at those blonde anorexic bitches and those stuck up pretty boys. Look at their relationships and really LOOK! Do you seriously want a relationship as fake as thiers might be? You girl, should concentrate on yourself because that #1 person is waiting for you, and he may come sooner then you think. You deserve the best! You will get the best! All you have to work on is a bit of patience, and it will all come together. Being Shy is something you have to overcome. Open up! Speak your mind! People will eventually respect you or envy you. One way or another you should be yourself and then you will be content.
P.S. Gay guys can be alot of fun. Plus its practice for what regular guys are like. You get comfortable with them you can overcome your shyness over any guy. You can do it!
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hey everyone dis will be pretty long but i justreally need a answer quick.. please.. ok
well i really like this boy and all and last year he always used to look at me always used to talk to me and stuff and i really started ot like him i mean badly anyway he went to amerrica and stuff and then he came back
and asked for me and stuff and my sis told him when i ws comin to skool anyway this year you kno when you first go to skool and stuff and you havnt seen people in a long tmie and you get nervouse and scared and you kno what im saying anyway i was like to him heeey then i saw my friends behind him i was soo dammn exited to see them and stuff and so then BY MISTAKE honest mistake i just ran away from him and hese like why are you runnin and i totally ignored him but i swear i so did not mean it i just didnt think anwyay i told him i was sorry and now we talk and stuff and whatever happend happend lol but i duno man.. i feel that he doesnt like talk to me as much as he used to everyone finds him the same somehow i find him diffrent and like i find him we dont talk as much andhe never looks at me alot like he used to we shake hands everytime we walk buy and stuff but i duno please dont tell me hese prolly still mad that u ignored him cause i kno hese not i mean we talked today normal laughing and stuff and he told me he wasnt mad and stuff.
But what do i do to get him to talk to me more i dont wanna always come up to im cause he will find me annoying any suggestings?? please?? thanks
OK! Boys are weird! Weirder then us sometimes. You may feel that he acts differnetly twards you becuase he might still be mad. If you think thats it the best thing to do about it is keep talking. Keep being friendly keep opening up to him. Sooner or later time will heal his anger. Also it sounds like you still like him, and you seem maybe even a little nervous around him, becuase he went away. Maybe you're a little afriad of feeling rejected by him, which is probably how you feel. If he felt rejected, or if you felt rejected the only way to get over that is continue to talk and play around act like nothing! If he still continues to act weird it may be stress. School, parents, work, friends, family...all can be stressfull. Give him some time. It might not be you that has him acting weird. Try to open up as much as possible, and don't be afraid to feel rejected.
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