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lonely girl
15/f
I go to an arts boarding school, and so 90% of the guys here are gay. I'm not even kidding. There are a few straight ones, but they're all super hot and taken (by preppy anorexic blonde bitches). They'd never want someone like me- I'm not even thin. I've gained a lot of weight recently so my confidence is at an all-time low. I'm so shy and I can't talk to these guys because they're all preppy and rich and stuck-up. I'm not like that at all.
So I'm pretty much stuck with boys. By the way only about 1/3 of the students here are boys.
How can I meet a boy who will actually ask me out who isn't taken or gay? One who will say I'm beautiful and respect me.
ps: I can never leave campus exept to go to the mall on the weekends.
help.
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That sounds like total dateing hell! First off, I think that all girls have problems with trying to find the right guy. You probably feel very insecure about yourself, but don't! For a girl like you to want a guy to respect her, you must have alot of respect for yourself! Keep that up! Do not lower your standards for anyone. To the weight...REAL WOMAN HAVE CURVES!!! lol. Honey, you should not care what your weight is, what you should care about is staying healthy! Lonely girl, you should change your name to a wise girl. Love a love strong and true it's something you unfortunatly have to wait for, and when it comes (WHICH IT DEFFINITALY WILL) you will be ready, and it will be so deep you will say "WOW! This was so worth waiting for." ALso look at those blonde anorexic bitches and those stuck up pretty boys. Look at their relationships and really LOOK! Do you seriously want a relationship as fake as thiers might be? You girl, should concentrate on yourself because that #1 person is waiting for you, and he may come sooner then you think. You deserve the best! You will get the best! All you have to work on is a bit of patience, and it will all come together. Being Shy is something you have to overcome. Open up! Speak your mind! People will eventually respect you or envy you. One way or another you should be yourself and then you will be content.
P.S. Gay guys can be alot of fun. Plus its practice for what regular guys are like. You get comfortable with them you can overcome your shyness over any guy. You can do it!
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