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what am i feeling?? ( sorry if its long )
16/f
ok so me and this guy hooked up for like a week mabye 2 right after me and this other guy ( who i really really really liked ) stop talking to each other. so obviously i was a little depressed and everything and a few days ago the new guy kept asking me like what do you want out of this and im like give me time and hes like ill wait as long as it takes blah blah blah he tells everyone he really likes me.well yesterday i found out hes calling me a slut and he found out that the last boy was an asshole to me so he was like mabye if i treat her like an ass hole shell like me more. so i comfronted him about it last night and hes like i dont want to deal with your drama and walked away. i cried for like a minute and then i was just really mad at him for thinking he could get away with what he said. what should i do? and do you think im sad about loosing him or just mad at him??
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It was totally wrong for him to say those things! It doesn't matter what a girl does, no one should ever say those things about someone, even if it was out of anger. And if they do make sure no one with a big mouth is around to hear it and pass it along like some dumb game of telephone! What you should do is forget about him! I know harsh, but why do you want to be with a guy who will say those things about you? You shouldn't it was uncalled for there are better ways to handle your feelings then to take them out on someone in that manner. What you should do is take a step back from the all the drama and sort your feelings out. You probably didn't get over the last guy that you really, really liked and you do need time. So give yourself time, write down how you feel get it out of you and when you're ready move on, go for it. I think you are sad and mad about loosing him. A part of you wanted to start things yet you are still on the last guy. Yet you shouldn't be angry with yourself, you told him how you felt and he got angry and took it out in the wrong way. Yet maybe without knowing maybe to get over the first guy you hooked up with him. Of course that's not how things work, but you maybe tried. Next time if you are still in a crush with a guy try not to jump into another relationship.
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Well you hooked up with him & then blew him off for someone you liked even though the guy you liked treated you like shit.
I'd say he had every right to call you a slut. And by the way, posting this question twice won't get you more answers, so please stop posting it.
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No offense, but you really deserve everything you get from him for treating him so terribly. You used him and kept him hanging it probably hurt him really bad. What you should do is tell him that what happened was a mistake and that you don't want to date him. If you did want to date him you would have already so don't tell me that you still haven't made up your mind. Stop "hooking up" with guys and you won't have these problems. He was actually very warranted in calling you a slut. Stop acting like one and people won't call you one. What you're feeling is guilt because you know he's right. You really need to rethink your life and how you're running it or you're going to create a really bad rep for yourself that's going to stick with you forever. Think about what you do before you do it. You're not the only person involved in your decisions.
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