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what am i feeling?? ( sorry if its long )
ok so me and this guy hooked up for like a week mabye 2 right after me and this other guy ( who i really really really liked ) stop talking to each other. so obviously i was a little depressed and everything and a few days ago the new guy kept asking me like what do you want out of this and im like give me time and hes like ill wait as long as it takes blah blah blah he tells everyone he really likes me.well yesterday i found out hes calling me a slut and he found out that the last boy was an asshole to me so he was like mabye if i treat her like an ass hole shell like me more. so i comfronted him about it last night and hes like i dont want to deal with them drama and walkway
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being called a slut is sexual harassment, which is illegal. He is an asshole! both of these guys are. You should never waste your time with scum like these kinds of boys.
Plus, hooking up (if you mean it in the sexual sense, which i think you do) is always going to make you feel worthless. So from now on I'd suggest only having intercourse with people you are truly IN LOVE with and have been with for a really long time-(1+ years i'd say) like someone you would want to marry. never do it only for the pleasure. you can masturbate instead. or just stop at 3rd.
on the other hand, your hooking up with him was a very slutty thing to do- so I can see why he would want call you a slut but that still doesn't make it okay for him to call you one.
i hope you overcome this and i hope i helped you.
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Ok. First of all. Dont let a guy stomp all over you. You are just as Important as they are. And second, If this guy is calling you a slut and is being a asshole to you, then think of him as an asshole. Not just that he is fronting as one. If you still like that first guy then don't give up. Just try to talk to more guys and be more outgoing. Thinks will look up if you do. Stand up for yourself. Tell that guy that he needs to get a life.
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