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How can I achieve Shailene Woodley's hair and makeup in her May 2010 Seventeen Spread?

What barrel curling iron would I need?
Is here eye makeup liner as well as mascara or just heavy mascara?

http://shailene-woodley.com/gallery/albums/userpics/10003/06.jpg

Thanks :) (link)
According to an interview, shailene has naturally wavy hair. It appears that the fan blowing on her is just making it look "curled". She's definitely wearing some gold eyeshadow, and it's possible that her makeup artist used the same eyeshadow as a "liner" for her lower lashes. I don't think she has anything on her lips.


Okay this is going to be REALLY long, this all started when i was doing my clothes at around 11.... i wanted to clean some of my clothes so i would have something to wear tomorrow.

so i threw 2 pairs of abercrombie pants in the wash and dryer. so my mom was all like throw some of my jeans in! but i was half way threw the cycle to put any thing else in the the wash so i didnt bother.

then we went out and i was all nice to her. very nice. this lasted till about 3?

then i got home around like 3:30, and wow was it hell. i put my jeans in the dryer. so they would be dry for about 4:00. then my mom threw in some of her stuff, so i threw in the whites that were dirty in too. no problem with that right?

Okay this is when the shit started, i threw her stuff in the dryer without looking. [with my whites....] and so i did that so i could wash my so lows. so i did that. no problem right?

okay so my mom SCREAMS AND YELLS. becuase her stuff apparently shrunk 2 sizes. i told her if she wants to fit into them again, [ps their like designer] so she starts a hussy-fit with how everything gets broken left and right. and i dont need this beause i have finals from the 13-20th. do i need peace and quiet. but Apparently i cant get it sence my mom is bitching [sorry but i dont have anything else to say for that]

and i didnt invite her to dinner because i dont allow whiners eat the food i make, [im like a chef and planning to be one] so i made pretty good food. its hard to resist ;]

but like, then i was eating then she said to my dad, ricky, sister, melissa, and i, laura, "i hope you bastards [im quoting the EXACT words] fucking die form that taco shit you call food, and i hope you CHOKE AND DIE"

what should i do? call the cops. HELP! (link)
If you're in high school, talk to your school counselor. That's pretty messed up.


ok i have those white sores in my mouth(cancer sorses or cold sores) How can i get rid of them without medicine and to get the pain to go down
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Put ice cubes on them.


ok so i have a problem...is it normal for your vagina to smell? even when you take showers every other day and wash "down there"??? also...what do gynecologists do cuz i am scared to go to one!!! (link)
You should take one EVERY day. I would smell terrible if I only took showers every other day. Gynecologists don't hurt you. You get on a table, spread your legs. They check your breasts, and they do a few tests on your vagina to make sure you're okay "down there". The only thing that causes a slight amount of pain is the pap smear. It's like a sharp menstrual cramp but it only lasts for a second. Don't worry!


ok i am a teenager and i really need help! so i just got my period and there is one problem...when i tried to put in a tampon>>>i couldn't find the hole it goes in :-*( please dont laugh at me...it is extremely embarassing and i dont know what to do... i know it is there though HELP. (link)
http://www.ubykotex.com.au/assets/0000/0001/vagina-illustration.jpg


The biggest hole where the blood comes out is the correct one. Get a towel, take your panties off, sit down on the towel in front of a mirror and spread your legs. The lowest hole is the WRONG one. That's your anus, where poop comes out. The next one above the anus is the right one. That's your vagina. Good luck!


does sex give u much pleasure? (link)
I hate to break it to you, but no.


Okay , I am getting Braces and I dont know what you were talking about, about that stretching cheek thing?

Please Help! (link)
It's not like they stretch them very hard. You just should wear chapstick anyway, though.


there was this post on craigslist taht i saw, it was a plump woman who was so hott, and i can't stop thinking of her, and i would say something, but she wants and vegghead, and i love meat too much and i would like her to try my meat. so idk, if i should email her or not, my friend said i should post it here so i did. 18/m (link)
woah. i might have considered talking to you if you hadn't thrown such disgusting sexual demands at me. it's gross. and unattractive. kbye.


Does anyone know a song about a girl who really likes a boy and he likes her too but neither of them will say anything?

Thanks. (link)
sally's song by evanescence

um, a lot of alanis morissette songs are like that


um, i think her "ironic" fits that


I've been wearing my contacts a lot lately and i dont usually take them out before i go to sleep. now i'm just starting to notice these red veins appearing in the white area of my eye(sorry, i dont know the technical term for it) i know its normal to have just a few but i have a lot. my eyes always look bloodshot when i leave them in longer than a week.
(i know, i know, i shouldnt be leaving them in at night and im trying to improve that my making it a daily habit.)
also, ive noticed when i give my eyes a break from the contacts, some of the lines/veins disappear. but not all of them.
i would like to know if there is any way to make these veins go away or if they are permanent.
thanks a lot :) (link)
WOAH BAD EYE AWARD!!

take em out and dont put em back in for like, 3 days.

...good god, you're guna die if u keep doing this


after that only wear them for a max of 12 hours a day

and use some rewetting drops



i want tips on how to give a good handjob. (link)
watch a guy jack himself off,

then do it like that.

you get better with practice

some guys like it squeezed hard, others like it slow and soft... i've done both


depends on if they're cut or uncut too!


What do people mean when they say "Don't do too many mind-stimulating activities before bedtime. That's the reason you're having trouble sleeping."

Isn't THINKING a mind-stimulating activity? Because you're like...using your mind?
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video games, internet stimulates your brain majorly, tv, um, reading does...

pretty much everything does, other than like taking a bath and sleeping in it

or getting a massage
or listening to relaxing music

...thats just how it is


I like this guy in my school and he might like me too but not completely sure. But whether or not he likes me, what are some things I can do or say to get him to like me/like me more while still being myself and not being too obvious? (link)
talk to him!!!

get interested in what he's into,

like if he likes skateboarding talk about that

look it up online or something

he will notice you, and he'll like you.


hey i am 17/f and im having some problems with these girls. well one of them, her name A was in my class last year. and her other friend b sits with her at lunch well one day i smiled at B b/c i thought me and her were still cool. but then she and her friends including A started talking about me. i got really angry and upset. well i ended up going on facebook yesterday and i messaged her and i said "hey you and your friends need to stop talking about me" and then she messaged me calling me a dumb bitch saying that im not the center of attention and im the last thing that she and her friends would talk about me and said i was ugly, and we went back and forth saying things to each other. and she said that im too scared to say stuff to her face. and today i didn't b/c i didn't want to instigate a fight. and she never came up to me. so im wondering did i do the right thing by telling her nicely online for and her friends not talk about me? and also should i show the school the conversation she had with me? b/c im really mad at her and i really don't know what to do.. help! (link)
if you said bad stuff too, then you'll get in just as much trouble.

and that was b*tchy to say "hey you need to stop talking about me"

you could have been like "hey, sometimes i feel like you guys might be talking about me behind my back. am i right?"

be really nice, that way she wont lash out at you

just forget her, they prolly weren't talkin about u anyway


Last thursday I did a hair straightening japanese treatment. Its where they put some med on your hair and then wash it, then use a hair straightener to straighten it. After not washing my hair for 3 days(thats what the stylist said), i washed it on the fourth day. After i washed it its already quite curly and wavy. Then i wore my headgear and the next day its super wavy, like i haven't done the hair straightening treatment at all. I'm naturally curly and wavy, so does the headgear have anything to do with it? and apparently i should tie my hair for a week after the treatment, so maybe i shouldn't have worn the headgear so early? Well, now my mom says I can do it again, but it really hurts your hair even though i really want to know what i've done wrong. I'm just scared that it will turn out bad again and it will hurt my hair a lot. I'm just really sad and mad that my hair is hurt AND dry because of the treatment, and it was really expensive. Does anyone know what i should do? Should I wait for another year to do it? Please answer me, I'm really mad. (link)
sue the salon...

wtf, contact them- they're the b*stards that took your money.

but yeah nothing will make your hair perfectly straight- you will need to um, straighten it some yourself... :( sorry hair sucks.

but hey, curly hair is pretty

i have wavy poofy wild hair, and i don't want to dry it out with a jap treatment... take care of your locks!


i want to make my boyfriend cookies for valentines day. what else can i do for him? nothing sexual please. by then itll barely be almost 2 months. and i want to make valentines special for the both of us. please and thankyou! in advance (link)
aw :) by the time v-day rolls around it'll be 3 and a half months for my boo and me.

well his school has a v-day dance, and we'll go to that... and uh, i'll probably make him cookies or cupcakes or something like that, and maybe give him a bear or something plus a cute card that says something super cute that only we would understand.... we're just that kind of couple :)

look super sexy and stuff, and like make him melt haha
however you can
you know your bf better than we do!!! follow your heart! :D what's right for my boyfriend may not be right for yours, etc. everyone's different.


i'm 16 years old & i've pretty much been the same bra size my whole life. in 7th grade i was a 32a and then went up to a 34a in 8th grade.. but that's it. i've tried on a 32b and even a 36a and i can't fit into them. i just feel like i'm growing out of puberty but my breasts arent. they have been the same for the past 4 years and i feel really weird about it. my family is not known for small breasts.. they range from large b's to mostly c's and d's. i dont know what is wrong with me. ive been getting my period since i was about 11 and it has always been irregular. most of the time i get it between a week or two late. i dont know if this has anything to do with it but regardless of that i just feel like my breasts should have grown into at least a size or two larger by now .. helppp? (link)
some women wait really really late to get big boobs.

what size are your moms breasts? her mom's? your dad's mom?

you will likely be like the other women in your family...

i started out as a 36A and am now a 40DD. :)

i'm 16 too.


The smallest things make me cry. I am an emotional wreck even watching movies I BAWL! I don't want to be like this, When thinking of how much I love my bf I cry, When thinking of Lonelinee I cry. I like my life and where it is going I don't knwo why I am like this. Of coarse there are things that could be better and things I wish for but who doesnt? How do I control these tears and feelings. I don't want to cover it because It is healthy to ezpress yourself but how do i control it? (link)
i'm like this too, you're probably just hormonal like pmsing or something

you should notice that at some times during the month it's not as bad as others....

i understand, girl, about the bf thing especially.

but it's okay.


Hello

To the point, I can't orgasm. Well, I don't mean can't - but it just seems I never do! I get to the point where my boyfriend moves across my clitoris and it feels unbearably good - absolutely torturous; and either I can't let go of the energy, or I tell myself to relax and let it happen so much that I relax and just lose it, instead of climaxing. (This is while he's multitasking and doing all the mind-blowing things I could ever want, and pulling new tricks out of the hat all the time 'cus he wants me to so badly - and all the time afterwards he says - "was I close?" and I have to say yes, but I didn't have one this time... It's beginning to sound so fake even though its the truth. More than that, I really want to share the experience with my boyfriend of the moment, as he is the first person I have ever loved in both an emotional and physical way.

My question is, from the information of what it feels like - am I close when it becomes that unbearable? If so, is there anything you could suggest me to do (maybe out of experience or something), or to think about that might stop me concentrating so much and hence let the orgasm come?

Thanks! (link)
he has to make a sudden change in the pressure when you're about to orgasm, keep going but MORE INTENSE- right then- when you get to the unbearably good point.

and it's not about "relaxing" it's about building the feeling up... the edge of orgasm!

feel free to masturbate with a vibrator to experiment with this

i had my first big O at 14... through self-pleasure.
so yeah!


Hi im 17/f. I recently had unprotected sex with my boyfriend. I forgot to take my birth control for two days when we did it. I have no appetite, really bad headache, and whenever i eat i get sick to my stomach. Could i be pregnant??? (link)
what the heck... how recently was this?

because if it isn't stress you're deff preggers!

it could very well be just stress from thinking you're pregant

if your period doesn't come within a month.... you know what to do :(




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