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Orgasms. Silly, wonderful things!
Hello
To the point, I can't orgasm. Well, I don't mean can't - but it just seems I never do! I get to the point where my boyfriend moves across my clitoris and it feels unbearably good - absolutely torturous; and either I can't let go of the energy, or I tell myself to relax and let it happen so much that I relax and just lose it, instead of climaxing. (This is while he's multitasking and doing all the mind-blowing things I could ever want, and pulling new tricks out of the hat all the time 'cus he wants me to so badly - and all the time afterwards he says - "was I close?" and I have to say yes, but I didn't have one this time... It's beginning to sound so fake even though its the truth. More than that, I really want to share the experience with my boyfriend of the moment, as he is the first person I have ever loved in both an emotional and physical way.
My question is, from the information of what it feels like - am I close when it becomes that unbearable? If so, is there anything you could suggest me to do (maybe out of experience or something), or to think about that might stop me concentrating so much and hence let the orgasm come?
Thanks!
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I very much in the line with you, because i think you need to know you first before, your partner could.
They say, the best sex is when your partner know your pleasure spot, but you need to tell him, so if you don't know he will never know, so enjoy.
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he has to make a sudden change in the pressure when you're about to orgasm, keep going but MORE INTENSE- right then- when you get to the unbearably good point.
and it's not about "relaxing" it's about building the feeling up... the edge of orgasm!
feel free to masturbate with a vibrator to experiment with this
i had my first big O at 14... through self-pleasure.
so yeah!
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