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My name is Becca. I wish that I could live in a eutopic world where nothing ever went wrong and smiles could brighten up everyone's day. But life isn't always rainbows and sunshine. All good comes with bad. What makes or breaks a person is their strength through those tough times. I am a simple person with simple ambitions, simple pleasures, and a simple life.



I usually try to find the best in people, ergo, I can be a very forgiving person. Show me respect and treat me nicely, and I can be one of the nicest people you'll ever meet. I am worth $2,886,158 on humanforsale. I change my mind more than I change my underwear, so don't set what I say in stone. I am the biggest procrastinator in the world. I have horrible spelling and typing skills. The person who has changed my life the most would have to be my two year old cousin, Chelsea. She is the most amazing person ever, and I've been blessed to be a part of her life since March 23, 2005. I want to be a positive influence in her life, and guide her to grow up and make a difference in the world. This little girl means the world to me. She is my best friend.



I love to feel loved. Ian makes me feel loved. He is one amazing person. We have been dating since June 28, 2006, and we will stay together for the rest of our lives. We were made for eachother. He calls me his Bibbles and his lady bug and makes me smile my biggest smiles ever. He tickles me until I almost cry. I love every second I am with him.



I am done things in my life that I regret. I wish I was a better person. I am currently trying to find myself and what I want from life. I am currently trying to become who I want to be. Let's just see where that takes me.
The end..

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Do Not Hesitate In Asking Me Anything. I Am Here To Help. You Can Always IM Me On AIM At xAskkMechaBeccax For Privet And Convenient Help.

advice

im 16 and my girlfriend and i went to have sex
and i couldnt hold an erection that long its happened twice not sure why its really embarrassing what can i do?

I really dont think thid is something to worry about. Some guys get erections easier than others. Just make sure you're in the mood and enjoying it. Get your girlfriend to give you a handjob or blowjob first, or get her to wear something sexy for you.

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16\f
me and my bf make out and do stuff alot... and usually when I give him a handjob, he has a boner. But once I went down there on him and he didnt really have a boner.. How does he get one if he doesnt have one?!?
HELP> :)
thanks. lol

there are a lot of things that can turn guys on, it just depends on how far you plan on going with him. showing some skin never hurts hun, ;D. Teasing is also never a bad thing. It keeps a guy interested. also, start by giving him a handjob, then move on to giving him head.

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16 f

okay so me and my ex boyfriend went out for 10 months. and in the begining he cheated on me. i had no idea until he told me. he said that he loves me and that he doesnt deserve me and that he really is sorry hes been feeling gulty since he did that to me. so i broke up with him. i miss him so much everything reminds me of him. i love him so much. i cant find anyone like him and lately ive just been depressed. so he called me at 5 in the morning yesterday and he told me that he was really sorry that he misses me that he loves me that it will never happen again. he said he loves me and cant live without me. i cant either he was even crying threw the phone. i miss him too and i want to go back out with him but i just dont trust him im afraid he might o it again. i love him so much and i need him with me i dont know what to do please help me.

honestly, how often do guys cry? my experience tells not that often. if this guy is crying over you, he's being serious. i would give him another chance. at the beginning of the relationship, he might not've known how much he cares for you yet. i say get your man back sweetie. this guy is for real.

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14/f

well ok, my bf and i have been going out for 10-11 months. Neither of us know what day it was. he thought it was november 5, but i know it wasnt b/c that was a sunday and he asked me out at school. i Know that it was in october. well anyway, we dont kiss much, and we've really only held hands once. so anyway, im going to start holding his hand and kissing him more this school year. (school starts this thursday). well anyway, hes not good at getting me presents... like my christmas present was from the dollar store, so was my easter and valentines presents. my b-day was just a week ago, and he said hes going to get me something, and i guess he will give it to me when school starts, (we dont see each other much in the summer, but we talk on the phone.) well anyway most of that is off subject, what should i get or make him for our year anniversary? and b/c i dont know the exact date, when should i give it to him? like the middle, beggining or end of october??? and i know its a bit early, but i like to plan ahead of everything!

please tell me what you think, and thanks in advance!

well, i have a few ideas for you.

going with the whole dollar store thing, you could get him one present form there a day for the month.

another monthly thing out be favors of the day, like, make him "love coupons" available for one free kiss or a cuddle session.

also, the best way to a man's heart is through his stomache. plan a picnic lunch with your boyfriend any time during the month. i'd suggest the middle of the month. this can be so cute, especially if you do it at night, in the dark, by candlelight. :D

if y'all have pictures together, make him a scrapbook of sutff special to you two. i made one for my boyfriend for valentines day with copies of old movie stubs, concert tickets, tickets from football games we went to together.

there's a lot of stuff you two can do together that'll hopefully bring you two closer together. if they dont, just tell your boyfriend how you feel. if he cares for you, he'd understand.

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whats an orgasim ?
- Bre 14/f

an orgasm is the meaning of life.

Derived from the ancient greek orgasmos, from the sanskrit urj (sudden powerful feeling). In women, it is the relaxing of the lower third of the vagina and the sudden onset of immensly powerful burning and tingling sensation. Her clitoris releases cum so the penis will move through her vagina easier.

In men, orgasms can happen without the release of semen. However, the release of semen marks an orgasm for a man.

WAYS TO ACHIEVE ORGASM:
1. On a woman: 1. rub her clitoris, preferably in a circular motion. not up and down too much. that hurts. HARDER IS NOT BETTER.
2. Eat out (first definition of this term is perfect)
3. Sex. HARDER IS NOT BETTER.
*Women tend to moan, gasp, and/or scream during an orgasm.

For men:
1. Blowjob. Harder can be good, though it is best to alternate speeds and deepthroat -it
2. Sex. (Harder is usually better)
*Men tend to be more silent than women during an orgasm, with an occasional muttering.

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My boyfriend's spending the night for the first time saturday, and i was wondering if there is anything special i could do for him? I'm already giving him our first bj (tips for this as well would be very much appreciated), but is there anything else i coudl do to make it more pleasurable or comfortable?

as for blow job tips, here are mine. my boyfriend loves this. it makes him go crazy.

1. Get as much in your mouth as you can without gagging and suck him only to that point. Beat him off with the rest.

2. Instead of moving your head just up and down, move it at different angles while going down on him. My boyfriend REALLY loves this.

3. While giving him head, massage his balls. This can make it really pleasurable for hm and he might cum faster because of this.

4. Different positions or acts can affect it too. If you get more into it, it can feel better for him. One thing tht might feel good and get you going is 69 with him ontop of you.

as for the night in general, one of the best feelings in the world is waking up next to th person you love. cuddle together and just be together. i love spending the night with my boyfriend. i love it when he sings me to sleep.

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would most guys rather be called baby or babe??

baby

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do guys like sex better if the girl is 'tighter' down there? i mean i know they wont care as long as theyre getting some lol... but if they had to choose... would they prefer it?

guys are guys and they just like pussy, lol. but like, there's the whole "tight like asian pussy" expression implying that guys like tighter better. for the most part in the kind of sex you should be having, and i love, guys like the pussy of the girl he likes, doesn't matter what she's like down there.

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how big is ian penis!?

8 1/3 inches

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Tips?
Uh..
How do you give a good one?


Yup..


Cool.

this is my advice, and from how my boyfriend reacts, i would advise trying it. it'll drive your man wild.

1. Get as much in your mouth as you can without gagging and suck him only to that point. Beat him off with the rest.

2. Instead of moving your head just up and down, move it at different angles while going down on him. My boyfriend REALLY loves this.

3. While giving him head, massage his balls. This can make it really pleasurable for hm and he might cum faster because of this.

4. Different positions or acts can affect it too. If you get more into it, it can feel better for him. One thing tht might feel good and get you going is 69 with him ontop of you.

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Does anyone know the formula for a semi-circle?

1/2(pi)(radius)squared

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Is sex really as enjoyable as people say it is? Could it still be enjoyable if the girl cannot receive an orgasm from penetration? For a girl's first time, does it hurt really bad? Is there anything to lessen the pain or make it slightly comfortable? Does the girl bleed once her hymen is broken? Should there be a towel right under the girl? If the guy stretches you out by using 2-3 fingers, would it have any effect on how much pain there will be?
Sorry for so many questions. I'm really curious :]

basically, every girl is different. some girls feel pain, other don't. my personal experience: i was stretched out my first time, but it really didn't make a difference. it hurt for me, pretty bad. sex wasn't enjoyable for me until like, the 3rd time i had it. and sex can still be enjoyable for a girl, even if she cannot recieve an orgasm through penetration, though for me, i can't orgasm through masturbation. tell your partner what you like, don't be afraid to talk about sex, and remember the clit is an amazing thing.

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ok well you know that song...what does it mean? the "rain on them hoes" bit. is it talking about money? or what?
thanks

this has a few meanings.
to make it rain an mean:

1. Term used in strip clubs, it defines when you in da club, with a stack and you throw the money up in the air at the strippers, and the effect is that it seems to be raining money on to the strippers.
2. When a man ejaculates all over a woman
3. n any sport where a projectile is thrown with an arch: when one scores a shot, shoots a basket, throws a touchdown, throws a ping pong ball in a cup etc.

make it rain on dem hoes would be #1

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Does anyone know where I can find a second picture code for myspace ? Like to upload a picture under the default picture on myspace ? Please and thankyouu!

the person below me almost has it right.
upload the picture onto tinypic,
place this into the caption:

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how much does it usually cost to get your hair stripped at a salon? i know that it will vary from salon to salon, but what's the average amount? and if i got my hair stripped, could she color it a different color that same day or would i have to come back later?

(i dyed my hair black, and i want it brown now.)

stripping depends on where you go. i dyed mine black and i'm getting it stripped for $65, but i've seen cheaper. i think it averages $40-60, and they can dye your hair that same day.

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I know how to make an animated picture, but when i put it on my photography site, it gets all fuzzy with ugly little dots when it does the animation. Heres the link if you want to check it out http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=163442625.But when i clicked on the picture to look at it the fuzzy things were gone, so its only on the viewing page. If its not like that im sorry for asking this question, and maybe its just my computer, but if it does can someone help me out?

use http://www.lunapic.com/editor/

i use that all the time.
it's easy to do and doesnt get that purplely stuff.

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Okay so ive been dating the same guy for two months and everything is great, we rarely fight and if we do its a stupid little arguement. But anyways hes a sweetheart and he does anything for me. Well, to the point we've done "things" and i feel like he does things for me but i dont really do it in return. I would i just dont know what to do. Im new with this kind of stuff i havent really done it before and hes really experienced(hes 2.5 years older than me.) I dont want him to think that im a little kid and not ready for it. But then again he hasnt said anything to me really or asked for anything.

So advice please.....

if your talking about oral sex then i have advice for you. my boyfriend is 3 years older and i was a virgin when i met him. he was cool and understanding about it, considering he was highly experienced. test things out and see what he likes. if it helps, watch porn. these are some things tha my boyfriend likes:

1. Get as much in your mouth as you can without gagging and suck him only to that point. Beat him off with the rest.

2. Instead of moving your head just up and down, move it at different angles while going down on him. My boyfriend REALLY loves this.

3. While giving him head, massage his balls. This can make it really pleasurable for him and he might cum faster because of this. this drives my boyfriend wild.

4. Use your tounge. When you get as much as you can in your mouth, lick him.or if your jaw starts to get tired, give it a break by licking his shaft or even just the tip of the head. the area that connects the sfaft to the head is the area is the place that will give him the most pleasure.

5. two numbers- 6 and 9. 69 with him. this will make it more enjoyable for you and might get your sexual energy going to give better head. 69ing is very fun.

hope i helped at all.need any more, my AIM is xaskkmechabeccax don't hesitate to IM.

try some of those things, look up some others. relax and have fun with it.

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17/f

My 1 year anniversary is coming up and I have no idea what to get/make my boyfriend. I can't make a scrapbook because we really don't like taking pictures. I've already written reasons why I love him for our 7 month anniversary, there was 1 reason for every day we we've been together. I'm really good with making things, but I hav a bit of a mental block right now.

So... what should I make him? Or should I buy him something? A list of ideas would be awesome.

(a little about him- he doesn't drink or do drugs, he's really into his car, and he's a "computer nerd")


HELP!

i can help you with this one. my boyfriend and i celebrated out 1 year anniversary in june, and my boyfriend sounds like yours, no alcohol, no drugs, computer nerd, loves music.

i put together a gift basket with tons of small things that i knew that he'd love and some stuff i thought were cute. i got him a new cd that he wanted, time for world of warcraft, a framed picture of us, love coupons, and a man necklace. i laminated the love coupons to make them look cute and last. you can find some http://cards.lovingyou.com/gallery.cgi?mdb=gallery&cat=coupons or make your own.

other gifts i have givin him were gift cards to game stores, a viking build-a-bear with customized sound box that says "i love you ian" in my voice, i made a scrapbook with pictures of us, copies of old movie stubs from our first date and concert tickets and other stuff like that, i've made him a romantic candle light dinner.

lovingyou.com has other amazing gift ideas. i go there so much.

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i've been molested, as a child. it happened often and i've tried so hard to block it out but now i feel like it defines me. nobody knows, i can't say anything nobody will believe me. everybody will hate me. he ruined me. i picture how my life would be if it never happened, the way i am now is horrible. i make so many mistakes just trying to make myself feel better but nothing works. i dont know what to do, i cant talk to anybody. im 16, this happened the summer going into 5th grade then into the year.

nothing makes it go away i don't know what to do i want to die so badly.

i was molested the last april, and it was hard for me to get over at first too. the guy was a cose friend of mine who had a girlfriend, i knew her, she was close friends with my boyfriend, but he did it anyway.

in the end, i felt like it was my fault that i was molested. but i was very wrong

you dont have to tell anyone that you dont want to. i ended up going to a counsilor and talking to her about it and my boyfriend was a major help. yours was a long time ago, but the pain is still there. i wiah i could sit down and talk to you, if you ever want to talk to me, dont hesitate to AIM me at xAskkMechaBeccax, but if you dont want to, that's fine too.

hun, none of that was your fault, you are a great person, and nobosy should have done what they did to you. you deserve the best and the person that did it is damned to hell. sweetie, stay strong and dont do anything you'll regret, dont kill yourself or cut or anything.

you are an amazing and strong person.

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Okay, so I wanted to date sombody so I went to this site, but the problem is, I don't know how to use it! It doesn't have any directions or anything! Could somebody help me with this?! PLZ?!

this website is hard to figure out at first, but this was how i met my boyfriend of over a year so i highly love it.

you set up your profile, entering anything you want to say, making it your personal about me. then, to look at people, use the "spin" option towards the top of the page. click on someone in your area that you are interested in, and leave them a message. hopefully they respond back and you find the certain someone you've been looking for.

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