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My Physical Relationship i guess...
Okay so ive been dating the same guy for two months and everything is great, we rarely fight and if we do its a stupid little arguement. But anyways hes a sweetheart and he does anything for me. Well, to the point we've done "things" and i feel like he does things for me but i dont really do it in return. I would i just dont know what to do. Im new with this kind of stuff i havent really done it before and hes really experienced(hes 2.5 years older than me.) I dont want him to think that im a little kid and not ready for it. But then again he hasnt said anything to me really or asked for anything.
So advice please.....
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We arent allowed to give out specific advice on techniques. The post below me will probably get deleted and banned, but thats life.
Google for "_________ instructions"
_______ being filled with the sex act of your choice.
There are a ton of resources out there.
My only other advice is to communicate. Ask him.
Tell him you want to do something for him and tell him what you are curious about and might like to try. Be willing to accept suggestions, and just be open to new ideas.
I am in a long term relationship and we discuss sex very matter-of-fact-ly and pretty regularly. It gives us a way to gauge things outside of the heat of the moment and figure out if we should alter what we're doing for the other person (because sex is really more about learning what your partner likes than learning standard techniques)
Also, guys love having their heads scratched and necks rubbbed. Theres something about a good scalp massage, its not sexual but my GF can turn me into a puddle of jello with both hands on my head.
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if your talking about oral sex then i have advice for you. my boyfriend is 3 years older and i was a virgin when i met him. he was cool and understanding about it, considering he was highly experienced. test things out and see what he likes. if it helps, watch porn. these are some things tha my boyfriend likes:
1. Get as much in your mouth as you can without gagging and suck him only to that point. Beat him off with the rest.
2. Instead of moving your head just up and down, move it at different angles while going down on him. My boyfriend REALLY loves this.
3. While giving him head, massage his balls. This can make it really pleasurable for him and he might cum faster because of this. this drives my boyfriend wild.
4. Use your tounge. When you get as much as you can in your mouth, lick him.or if your jaw starts to get tired, give it a break by licking his shaft or even just the tip of the head. the area that connects the sfaft to the head is the area is the place that will give him the most pleasure.
5. two numbers- 6 and 9. 69 with him. this will make it more enjoyable for you and might get your sexual energy going to give better head. 69ing is very fun.
hope i helped at all.need any more, my AIM is xaskkmechabeccax don't hesitate to IM.
try some of those things, look up some others. relax and have fun with it.
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If you're still at the point where you're speaking of sexual acts in terms of "things" and "stuff", then I tend to think you are NOT actually ready. just as an example, if you can't come right out and say "oral sex", then you aren't really ready to have it.
As long as you use words like "things" and "stuff", I have no idea what you're actually talking about, and cannot give you reasonable advice - and neither can anyone else.
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