okay i have this friend that went out this guy for 6 months they broke up 2 times in 6 months, first he broke up with my friend because he HEARD a rumor that my friend wanted to break up with him but she couldnt so he broke up with her, so when he found out it wasnt true that my friend wanted to brake up with him so they got back together and 2nd time was he broke up with her again because he doesnt have feelings for my friend because he liked someone else when they were going out but he didnt wanna tell my friend because he was scared that my friend is gonna hate him, so the girl he likes doesnt like him back, after that my friend and her ex are still friends and they would talk to each other a lot at night and her ex asked her if she got over him and she said no and he also said hes not over her too and he was saying that it was all his fault and stuff. the question is what do you think about this situation? they broke up 3-5 months ago but they are still talking and stuff
I think he's using her to get a girlfriend because the other chick turned him down or something. Tell her it's about dignity and that she should say no about that kind of stuff.
Being used is a really messed up thing. I had that whole issue happen with me and my exboyfriend. I was the victim.. But with another ex, I was the one kind of pushing him around. It was around April, and he STILL likes me. It's really weird. hahaha. But, Yeah, tell her not to go out with him. Total loss of dignity, k? :]
NikkiM answered Monday August 6 2007, 11:20 am: Well it sounds like they both still like each other..unless they wouldnt make that much effort to speak to each other all the time. But just because they like eachother doesn't mean they have to get back together, maybe they are just enjoying talking if you get me lol. Im sure if they both wanna get back together they will sort it out =] x x [ NikkiM's advice column | Ask NikkiM A Question ]
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