Okay my last thing about me thing thing made me seem like a flaming homosexual.
Let me start over. Ha.
My name's Derrek.
I'm turning 16 on June 29, 2007. :]
Yay.
I'm gay; you homophobes can go drink bleach for all I care.
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im horrible at putting on eyeliner.
what is a good eyeliner i could buy that would make wearing it any easier? or any tips on how to make it easier? (not practice makes perfect, haha)
thankss (link)
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Well there's the type of eyeliner that isn't a stick, but it's like a roll-y.
Like you know, with lipstick, how you turn it and the lipstick comes out..
Yeah, it's eyeliner like that.
It's the best creation ever.
Anywyayyayayayy.
Try that. You can buy some cheap one at like Rite-Aid or CVS or something, and just practice with that. The first time I put eyeliner on, it was with a pencil though, I just find that the twisty one is easier. ... I just like the pencil because it comes out thick.
So, try pulling your umm bottom lashes down, but not like tugging on them, ... like tug on the skin, and there's this line that the bottom lashes are attached to, like slide it on there, and then it'll be easier to put it on correctly.
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There is this boy named David that I have known as a babe and longer. He is a year older than me and I really like him and is wonderin if he likes me too. Lats year a the end of the year on the last day I saw him talking ALOT to this girl and I'm kinda jealous. What do I do?
P.S this year he is goin to jr. high I'm in middle school. (link)
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If it makes you feel any better, I'm in high school and the guy I like is in college, haha. He's 3 years older.
Tsktsk.
Okay, so yeah, the main key is to talk to him a lot but you HAVE to flirt or you'll just stay in the friend zone, and the friend zone sucks.
You can't be annoying or clingy, because he's older, and he'll just be like
"Ew. Little kid. How annoying." Like, he'll just be so full of himself and stuff. Boys are like that.
So, yeaaah, talk to him, flirt, don't seem too interested!
Because I know that some guys think that it's pretty attractive when girls seem not too interested, but then other guys think that she needs to get the stick out of her butt.
K,
Hope I helped.
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What's the name of this song, and the artist?
The lyrics go like:
"suckin on them titties
like you wanna be callin me"
It's a rap-ish song. (link)
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yeah that's "F--- the Pain Away" by Peaches
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Well lately, I've kinda been feeling left out by my friends. Like I've been hanging out with them, but I keep getting the vibe that they don't want me there. Like I was talking to one of my friends on the phone this morning, & we tried calling our other friend to see what he was doing, but he didnt answer. So me & the friend i was talking to, decided to get ready & go for a walk. But then our other friend called so we 3-wayed him in. And it ended in, he went to her house & i had to stay home & wait until they called me to hang out. Well that took about 4 hours. And, like the guy friend, hasnt hugged me goodbye in over a week. But he'll hug my other friend. And please don't say that they like each other because i already know exaclty whats goin on in that situation, and they dont like each other. So any ideas to whats going on?? (link)
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Tell them that you're feeling neglected and stuff. I mean, maybe your friends are going through a phrase or something. When my friend did that to me, I just let her cool down for a while and it worked, I mean, maybe they just need a little break or something.
Hopefully you guys will be stronger than ever at the end... my friend and I are so close now it's funny.
So yeah,
talk to them.
If they continue doing it then maybe you should just find some new friends.
Or someone else to hang out with in the meantime.
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I have heard you can buy pills at a health food store and drugstores that make you horny, is there one for women? And how long does it take to work? (link)
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That my friend, is called Ecstasy
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ok so im going vegetarian and i need some recipes or like product suggestions from all you veggie advicenators.like tofu recipes and such.
thanks. (link)
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There are fabulous websites that you can go to just go on Google, and type
Easy Vegetarian Recipes, and you'll get great stuff.
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If you went to the doctors for your vagina, could they tell if you had sex or masterbation.
if they do how and if they don't thanx. (link)
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I think they can tell if you have sex because your vagina will be a little bigger, but not if you masturbate, unless you stick some big stuff up there or something.
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thanks and yeah i understadn i think i'll try and make the move and if it isnt right i'll find someone else until she decides what she wants. do you have a myspace?? (link)
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nah. i use my friends. i have aim though.
if you wanna add her you can. she likes friend requests haahah
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okay i have this friend that went out this guy for 6 months they broke up 2 times in 6 months, first he broke up with my friend because he HEARD a rumor that my friend wanted to break up with him but she couldnt so he broke up with her, so when he found out it wasnt true that my friend wanted to brake up with him so they got back together and 2nd time was he broke up with her again because he doesnt have feelings for my friend because he liked someone else when they were going out but he didnt wanna tell my friend because he was scared that my friend is gonna hate him, so the girl he likes doesnt like him back, after that my friend and her ex are still friends and they would talk to each other a lot at night and her ex asked her if she got over him and she said no and he also said hes not over her too and he was saying that it was all his fault and stuff. the question is what do you think about this situation? they broke up 3-5 months ago but they are still talking and stuff (link)
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She should not let him get back with her, no matter how much she likes him. It's about dignity, he'll def. think that she's just his little toy that he can kick around, but will always be there.
I think he's using her to get a girlfriend because the other chick turned him down or something. Tell her it's about dignity and that she should say no about that kind of stuff.
Being used is a really messed up thing. I had that whole issue happen with me and my exboyfriend. I was the victim.. But with another ex, I was the one kind of pushing him around. It was around April, and he STILL likes me. It's really weird. hahaha. But, Yeah, tell her not to go out with him. Total loss of dignity, k? :]
Oh.
And not saying it's going to be easy.
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this sounds kind of weird but when people say stuff to me i never know what to say back. i read in a magazine that the best way to talk to some one is ask them questions, but i tryed that and i eventually felt like i was interviewing them or something and it was really awkward. like..what are some funny things. or just things in general to say to people when they say something funny to me?> like i know it depends on the situation, but i need good comebacks. like lines lol. any effort is appreciated :) (link)
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Hahaha. You're shy. No worries. Me and my best friend Danny are really outgoing, so when we're stuck in akward conversations we'll be like
"DAAAAANG. THIS IS THE BEST CONVERSATION EVER." Or we'll just act like idiots. Bring a friend. Friends rule.
Danny and I are like always together. I swear he lives at my house, but aaanyywayy, you shouldn't ask too many questions because yeah, you'll look weird, but just try going into detail for something. Or, just be honest, say what's on your mind, be a little sarcastic.
"Hey, let's pretend this isn't akward. haha." I dunno, tis what I do. You may have a different approach, kiddo.
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19/male
It all started when I was away from home at college. One of my friends in my dorm invited me and some other guys to go with her and her friend bowling. Her friend and i got to talking and I decided I really liked her. I guess I had one of those "she's the ONE" moment. Well that's when I got nervous and scared because I have never felt that deep for anyone before. The next day I awkwardly told my friend that I liked her friend and didn't know what to do so she invited her over to hangout with us. I got nervous and didn't talk to her much that night. My friend even gave me her phone number to ask her on date but I didn't have the guts. That's about when I gave up and that was about 10 months ago and yet I still think about her a lot and still believe "she's the one." I have not seen or talked to her since. I am worried that it has gone on too long and it is too creipy and wrong to still have feelings for her. I have been in a relationship with another girl thinking it would help me rid of these feelings but didn't work and had to break up.
That's why I came here, for serious advise to help me get over this crush or maybe it isn't that creepy or maybe I should confront her with my feelings, I don't know. but what ever the advise is I need it badly, so please HELP ME. (link)
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Ha. You think 10 months is long. Try 7 years.
Anyway...
You should really call her up and ask how she's doing. Ask her if she wants to go out and catch up. She obviously had a serious impact on you, kiddo. I think it's because you didn't know her as well as you thought you did, and that made her more mysterious and someone you would want to get to know better. She may not be the person you think she is at the end, so be careful.
But, call her up:]
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hey people,
im a young male and im talkin about my girlfriend
i had just had my girlfriend break up with me a couple of days ago and it was really hard on me. I was the cause of the breakup because i wasn't being open enough to her and when she said "i feel like im neglecting you," and just said no and she asked if something was wrong and i said no. when we hung up i had decided that i needed to tell her what i felt so i messaged her and said honestly i do feel neglected and she got mad because i didnt talk to her on the phone when i had the chance. so she got mad and later said you no i'm mad at you and im fed up with your shit. so she had ended it and she said i just havent felt like we are close like we were at first. this all hurt me bad and she wouldn't talk to me because i wanted to talk to her and explain to her how i felt.
so the next day she ignored me and i couldnt talk to her and the next day i tried to get her off my mind but it didnt work so i went to my dad and brother to talk to them about it. i had listened to them and they had the same points.
so what i did was go to her house the next day with out her knowing and had a bunch of nice flowers. She had a smile on her face and didnt seem mad at me so i take that as being good?. i gave her the flowers and went into her room to talk to her. i told her that i really like her and i really care for her. i said you no every relationship has rough patches and you have to try to get through them instead of just quitting on the relationship. (she promised herself that she would never give a guy a second chance by the way.) i just asked her if she could promise me that she will think about a second chance while she was in colorado (this was later in the talk that i had asked her if she would think about a second chance). she said i will and i said the way u had ended it really hurt me alot and i just wanted her to think about the second chance for more than just one day. just please think about it because the idea of being without you really hurts because i care for you and i want to be there for you. she said she would think about it while she was there. the next thing i said was you know this is my first true relationship and im goin to make mistakes and i will admit when i do and im willing to try to work on that and i really want to be open with you and try to stop arguing about little things. just promise me you will think about the second chance and get back to me when you get back. i really care for you and we gave each other a huge hug and i told her in her ear that i really care for you and i said i need to go because i just wanted to say this and be on my way and not get in ur way. and oh yeah i told her the reasons why i felt why we were growing apart earlier. and i also said im not goin to beg or force you for the second chance and i wont talk to you or text you while you're up there so that gives you your freedom to think. then came the hug and leaving part. some of this wasn't in the right order but you get the idea. so can ya'll tell me if i did the right thing?
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Wow. That is seriously really sweet. Kay, so listen, you did the right thing completely. Guys are so not open. With all my ex-boyfriends, they would never tell me ANYTHING, I would get really fed up, I mean, I still do, but when guys are ready to open up, they will. You need to tell her about the whole "I'll talk to you when I'm ready" type thing. Girls feel like they're not trusted, and it's a pretty bad feeling when it comes from someone you really care about. You can tell her that you DO trust her, it's just hard to say, and such.
I hope I was of some help.
If she doesn't come back to you then she's psycho.:]
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a crush on my friend and the subject said friends and love, well you said you agreedwith anwser one, for me to make the first move only problem me and my friend have been through all this stuff before where i was the first one to hold her hand and kiss her on the lips not make ou tthough, but thats where we are aming at. and me andher talked about it and i said well your the one that wants to start thisu p again you want something to happen you said it so yourself so you be the first one to make the move cause im not. so she already thinks that. i dnt want to be the first one to make the move just because everyone thinks im obsest wit hher already. sop i want her to prove to me she wanst this to. nut how? i have the tendancy to bring it up around her and she doesn twant to after cause she wanst to do it un expectly. but i alwasy think about it help? (link)
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Yeah, I understand. It's a hassle to have to wait for someone. Especially for something like that. I still think that she's shy and doesn't like KNOW how to just go in for it. Remember, kisses are pretty hard to do when the other person doesn't expect them, so give her a break. But, then again, you have waited a while. Maybe, if she doesn't come up with something soon you should try with someone else. I understand that you like or love this girl a lot, but you don't have to stop. You should just get a friends with benefits or someone to preoccupy your mind in the meantime. It's your friend's fault if you end up falling for someone else...
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ok so this is it, my fian lstraw! please help. me bestfriend and i, we are close, super close, and we like eachother, alot. only problems we are both girls.i of course like her more then she likes me she goes on and off but me i stick with it because i actually am in love with her. and you never forget your first love right?? well im just done imm well aware of whats goin on i keep getting hurt my heart keeps getting broken. like she opens the door and brings me closer but when i take my own step in she shuts it! and im just tired of it! the thing that makes me so upset is she is the one who brings this together every time. the 1st time the only reason we got so close was beacause she told me friend she wanted to go to winter formal with me , more then a friend. so we did that after a while we started holding hands at school and everything not caring what people thought. one day she stpped likin gme i said ok and stoped going after it we stayed bestfriends. but then about 3 weeks ago she told me after not likeing me for a month or two taht she liked me again, i said ok but she was like its diffrent i want something to happen this time. so once again she started. but we have this bet that she has to be the first one to make the move and make out with me before the end of summer, she has had so many oppertunitys but wont do it! why?? is she scarred she doesnt want to what? i eman she is the one taht wantes something to happen and trus tme so do i, i mean i like her alot! but i asked her toda ywhy last night(the lasnt night i'll see her before summer) she didnt do it and she was like becasue if it was ment to happen we will see and it will happen on its own, but i mean you have to put some effort into it! gosh i dont know please help. she likes to flir tand its wierd you think she would flirt with the ppl she likes more then ppl she doenst but its not. its the oppeset. is she teaasin gme what? plese help
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Maybe she's confused. About her sexuality that is. I've had problems like that. Like, I think that I liked one of my guy friends but I couldn't say ANYTHING, I mean for all I know, he's straight, so that wouldn't work out too well. But he kind of does these things that hints that he's into me and all but I just think he's being friendly and such. It's really frustrating because deep down, you really do want something to happen... I agree with Answer 1, try making the first move. It's really hard, I know, but just try, kay?
You'll get something out of it. Even if that something isn't good...
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K, what would be your perfect blowjob? Doesn't matter, the more graphic the better ;), my bf is coming to visit me and im really nervous, so help! (link)
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uhh. hahahaha. i think i'm answering this a little to late.
am i?
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i got my ear 2nd pierced and the 2nd hole is right above the first one the first one on the bottom part of my ear. i got it pierced like 2 or 3 months ago, and it started bleeding a few days ago, so i took the earrings out, and i hadnt changed the earrings at all or taken them out before then. so i took it out and it was bleeding, so i left it out for a few days, and i tried putting them black but it started bleeding again. its been a couple of days since i had them out, and do you think the hole will close up? what should i do and whats wrong with it? (link)
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I have 7 ear piercings so I'm sure I can help you out. I did my third piercing on my left ear once, and it just hurt so bad, so I took it out and it felt a lot better, but I put it in like a few minutes later, but I cleaned my ear with some Purell [sp?] and the stuff they give you to clean your ears with. So, I put it back in and it totally wasn't irrated and it was fine again. Since you just got it pierced, I don't really suggest keeping it out that long, just clean the earring with some alchohal and clean your ear up. I hope it helps, if not go get it checked out by a doctor it might be infected
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So, I'm basically banned from my best friend but I still love her very, very much. I can't buy her any gifts so I was planning on making her a CD and two other things.
I had few songs in mind:
My Best Friend by Weezer
Emily by From First To Last
Demolition Lovers, I'm Not Okay, Headfirst For Halos, Our Lady of Sorrows, Vampires Will Never Hurt You, All I Want For Christmas [Sang by MCR], and basically several songs by My Chem
There For You by Flyleaf
We're Not Gonna Take It [Twisted Sister]
Andy You're A Star by The Killers
Um,I can't think of any others that can relate. Basically, we're both MCR fanatics, but MCR songs are covered by me.
I love her very much b/c she's still here for me even though I'm a 24/7 emotional roller coster ride. I'm banned from her but we still sneak out to see each other & we would die for each other and we're just really close. I need songs that can relate to us, whether it's for best friends or going against parents and meeting each other. Or something like that...do you guys have any other suggestions other than the ones I listed up there?? We both like rock and such. She likes country, I don't. But it's for her so. Erm, yeah. No pop or hip hop or anything like that, please. No offense...
Oh, and she has a twin sister. We're friends & I should make something for her, too. Any suggestions on that? Thanks very much!!!!! (link)
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Well if you like Rise Against then you HAVE to put the acoustic version of Swing Life Away, haha, it's a classic, what can I say? I like Addicted by Blink182 because I just think it's a cheery song that makes me happy, and it's fun to sing along to. I don't really listen to P!ATD. I honestly know like 3 songs. Haha. The Used? Nothing. Green Day? I like Novicaine [sp?]. Linkin Park? Just the old familiar stuff. Maybe Dashboard Confessional? They have this really good rock version of Hands Down, it's a good song. My favorite:] They also have an acoustic Hands Down. They have Carry This Picture, Stolen [popular, I guess], Vindicated, Bend and Not Break.
Try My Paper Heart by All American Rejects, I like it... Cue the Sun by Daphne Loves Derby, hell, anything by Daphne Loves Derby. Haha. Try something from The Strokes like Whatever Happened, or something. Maybe something from The Academy Is... ? Like Classifieds, is my favorite. Their popular ones are The Phrase That Pays, Neighbors, and We've Got A Big Mess on Our Hands though. There is this song called In Transit by Albert Hammond Jr. It's slow and repetitive, but it's catchy. Here We Stand by Amber Pacific, the vocals suck in this song, but it's really fun to sing along to. Hey There Delilah by The Plain White Tees. Anything by the Postal Service: like... Such Great Heights and The District Sleeps alone, maybe? Flavor of the Week by American Hi-Fi just because. I'll Follow You Into the Dark by Death Cab for Cutie. The First Single by The Format is good, along with The Compromise. The Levy by From First to Last. Bad Day by Fuel? Beating Heart Baby by Head Automatica? Miss Delaney and Dark Blue by Jack's Mannequin. When You're Around by Motion City Soundtrack. Serious by Crash Romeo. Hurt and Closer by Nine Inch Nails. Hahah. Little Razorblade by The Pink Spiders. Decipher Reflections From Reality + Let It Shine + I'm A Pirate You're A Princess by Playradioplay! Reflections and Pirate are kinda alike though. My favorite is Let It Shine. Finding Home by Saosin. The beginning is fabulous. Come On Eileen by Dexy's Midnight Runners or Save Ferris, which ever you like more. Lazy Eye by Silver-sun Pick-ups. Tainted Love by Soft Cell. Melt the Sugar by the Summer Obsession is so good. Echo by Trapt. Everchanging by Rise Against too. Haha, Sorry if you don't like any of these. Some are kind of slow.. But if you're going to rate me terribly, just don't rate me at all. Thanks :]
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I am in Grade 12 now and will have to leave for another city in a few months. I'm in a very serious relation with my guy since an year. he's gonna be staying in our hometown after he's done with Grade 12. He doesn't want me to leave but it is very important for me to do so because I am lookin forward to become a fashion designer for which i have to be away for 4 years...I'm in a statew of dilemme because I dont know what to choose : My career or My love...! (link)
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Yes, love is a wonderous thing, but if it is true love, then you two will find your way to each other. Keep in mind that you will have vacations. The career will always be there for you and even though you are sure that he will always be there for you, the reality is, that he might not be. We don't know that, but I personally think that you should go with your career choice because it's successful, and like I said, if it really is love, then it'll find its way back slowly but surely. I hope this advice helps some. :]
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So; ive been talking with this girl since April; and duh its now July. Well lately; the past week and a half ive barely talked too her and ive noticed she's been on the phone & hanging out with my so called "bestfriend" and me and this girl have veryy strong feelings for each other;this i know for a fact. but her & my so called bestfriend are now supposibly talking. and it all happend sooo quickly. what am i supposed to do w/ the feelings that are just THERE? (link)
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Well you should have talked to your best friend about it earlier, because best friends don't do that to one another. You said they were just talking, talking is okay, maybe he wants to get to know her, eh? You also said that you and the girl have strong feelings for one another. They don't just go away one night. They're probably still there, but you HAVE to talk to her soon because some girls loose interest quick. Kthx.Bye.
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okay im in a group of friends of like 12 they all have their best friends and im the only that dosnt!! im really loud like wen i say really like i cnt whisper loud and i guess im obnoxious sometimes and im ussually best friends with boys like the ppl im friends with that r guys make up this one group called the invinsible 7 and like i love theese guuys as friends but i think my girl friends r using me to get to them cause i guess u can say the invinsible 7 is pretty known byh my school so im scared my girl friends might be using me! what do i do!
thanks :) hugs and kisses!
p.s. sorry its long! (link)
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Yee. Okay, so if they're using you, you should not be friends with them. Try making new friends and hang out with your guy friends a little more. Telling the boys about this "using" problem might either like the girls more because they're flattered or dislike the girls for using you because that's just how guys are. Just try to make other friends, maybe... and try to be a little quiter, it's alright though, I'm pretty loud, but I have loud friends so we don't care. Make some loud, obnoxious friends. They're the best. :]
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