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Left out
Well lately, I've kinda been feeling left out by my friends. Like I've been hanging out with them, but I keep getting the vibe that they don't want me there. Like I was talking to one of my friends on the phone this morning, & we tried calling our other friend to see what he was doing, but he didnt answer. So me & the friend i was talking to, decided to get ready & go for a walk. But then our other friend called so we 3-wayed him in. And it ended in, he went to her house & i had to stay home & wait until they called me to hang out. Well that took about 4 hours. And, like the guy friend, hasnt hugged me goodbye in over a week. But he'll hug my other friend. And please don't say that they like each other because i already know exaclty whats goin on in that situation, and they dont like each other. So any ideas to whats going on??
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Tell them that you're feeling neglected and stuff. I mean, maybe your friends are going through a phrase or something. When my friend did that to me, I just let her cool down for a while and it worked, I mean, maybe they just need a little break or something.
Hopefully you guys will be stronger than ever at the end... my friend and I are so close now it's funny.
So yeah,
talk to them.
If they continue doing it then maybe you should just find some new friends.
Or someone else to hang out with in the meantime.
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Honestly, the best thing to do would be just to talk to your friends about it. Because you'll never know how they feel until you ask, and nothing can ever be fixed unless it's out in the open.
Hope that helps :]
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