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friend && love
ok so this is it, my fian lstraw! please help. me bestfriend and i, we are close, super close, and we like eachother, alot. only problems we are both girls.i of course like her more then she likes me she goes on and off but me i stick with it because i actually am in love with her. and you never forget your first love right?? well im just done imm well aware of whats goin on i keep getting hurt my heart keeps getting broken. like she opens the door and brings me closer but when i take my own step in she shuts it! and im just tired of it! the thing that makes me so upset is she is the one who brings this together every time. the 1st time the only reason we got so close was beacause she told me friend she wanted to go to winter formal with me , more then a friend. so we did that after a while we started holding hands at school and everything not caring what people thought. one day she stpped likin gme i said ok and stoped going after it we stayed bestfriends. but then about 3 weeks ago she told me after not likeing me for a month or two taht she liked me again, i said ok but she was like its diffrent i want something to happen this time. so once again she started. but we have this bet that she has to be the first one to make the move and make out with me before the end of summer, she has had so many oppertunitys but wont do it! why?? is she scarred she doesnt want to what? i eman she is the one taht wantes something to happen and trus tme so do i, i mean i like her alot! but i asked her toda ywhy last night(the lasnt night i'll see her before summer) she didnt do it and she was like becasue if it was ment to happen we will see and it will happen on its own, but i mean you have to put some effort into it! gosh i dont know please help. she likes to flir tand its wierd you think she would flirt with the ppl she likes more then ppl she doenst but its not. its the oppeset. is she teaasin gme what? plese help
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Maybe she's confused. About her sexuality that is. I've had problems like that. Like, I think that I liked one of my guy friends but I couldn't say ANYTHING, I mean for all I know, he's straight, so that wouldn't work out too well. But he kind of does these things that hints that he's into me and all but I just think he's being friendly and such. It's really frustrating because deep down, you really do want something to happen... I agree with Answer 1, try making the first move. It's really hard, I know, but just try, kay?
You'll get something out of it. Even if that something isn't good...
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Let's see! Well maybe she wants you to make the first move. When it's happening you should probably in a room or something with out anyone staring cause if not it might be a little awkward! But go some where where you girls are alone and then maybe if she doesn't start then maybe you try a little peck on the lips and see where it goes from there! Best of Luck though!
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