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K, what would be your perfect blowjob? Doesn't matter, the more graphic the better ;), my bf is coming to visit me and im really nervous, so help!
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This is horribly late, but better late than never. I'm not real picky about my blowjobs, but here's a few generic tips.
- At first, your goal is not to make him come. First, you want to simply make it pleasurable. Once your mouth gets tired and you want to end it, THAT'S when you can turn it on full blast. It's not a race.
- Build him up. Don't just put your mouth around it and start sucking. Build some anticipation. Kiss his thighs, handle him lightly, slowly flit your tongue across the tip and on his balls. You're in control, you can do whatever YOU want. Don't tease him for TOO long, though. That's just mean.
- The penis is not the only thing your mouth needs to come in contact with. I assume this guy has balls. Play with them. For me, personally, I don't like it rough down there at all. I'm very sensitive, and if you bite me I will jump and probably punch you in the face. Sucking very hard is not recommended either, because if you happen to suck in the testicles proper, it can cause very sharp, sudden pain. Be gentle.
- On that note, the area between the scrotum and the anus (the perenium) is also very sensitive. No, you don't have to stick your tongue in his ass (also personally I do enjoy it, but I would never expect it or DARE ask for it) but the area inbetween is very responsive.
- Keep it moist. Spit is sticky, and if given time to dry, can stick to your face or chin, which may be uncomfortable for the guy. The tip of the penis is sensitive, and if the spit on it dries and you put your hand on it, he will likely shift quickly cause it won't feel very good. No, you don't have to slobber all over him (please don't) but be sure you don't leave it exposed to the air for too long without putting your mouth on it again.
- You want him to be clean, don't you? Nothing's worse than going down on someone, only to find they didn't wipe as well as they should have. If he doesn't expect you to be down there, he probably won't have made any special effort to clean himself. The easiest way around this is to take a shower with him. It's perfect for some foreplay, but it's the best way to make sure he's as clean as you desire. You can do all the scrubbing you like until you're satisfied.
- Not only that, but the kindest thing to do after receiving oral is to reciprocate. If he doesn't at least offer to go down on you, he's a jerk. But you should hold yourself to the same standard of cleanliness you held him to. While you're scrubbing him in that shower, take the time to scrub yourself. Invest in some scented wipes for when you have little to no notice. Do NOT attempt to clean yourself with toilet paper! Small bits of it will get stuck inside, and that's just weird. You don't want to smell like piss, so if you've used the bathroom since you've last showered, you will want to use a scented wipe. It won't smell like flowers, but it won't smell like piss either.
- Grooming is essential, for both of you. A man should keep his nether regions trimmed. If you find he has Don King's head in a leglock and going down on him is going to be a normal occurance, tell him to trim. In your case, shaving is most considerate, however that can be very painful. If that hurts too much, you can trim as well. I've gone down to find more hair than I have on my head. It's not pretty, it's not sexy, and it can kill a mood.
- You're in control. Don't let him push the back of your head. There's a good chance you'll gag and vomit all over him, and let me tell you, nothing kills an erection faster. If he tries it, just flat out stop, and tell him NOT to do that. You're not obligated to give him head in the first place, so he has no right to tell you how to do it.
Wow, I wrote a lot. Can you tell how much I enjoy oral? Good luck!
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uhh. hahahaha. i think i'm answering this a little to late.
am i?
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ight first off im not gnna send images
just be honest with him be like
im really nervous and just ask him what he wants
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You have to grab it but not to hard but let him know you have control.... Take your tongue and start at the bottom by the balls... and work your tongue all the way up to the tip of the head.... lick the head alot and then Suck the HELL OUT OF IT...
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Just stay relaxed, and make him feel relaxed....my perfect bj i would say go nice and slow and then sometimes speed it up for a few seconds. that drives me crazy
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umm, slowly pulling down my pants. then having the girl start licking me....then have her begin giving me a handjob--finally her giving me the blowjob
a little teeth never hurts
faster the girl's head moves the better
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Uh, no thanks.
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