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tonite my stepdad was really drunk [[nothing new]] but im on vacation in south america with family and everyone was drunk too [[again nothing new]] and they were saying stuff about how i wasnt talking to the adults only the people my age and its soo stupid..but my sdadand me are alone
and my moms back in the u.s. working...
tonite he got mad and said i was acting bad the whole time which he didnt get mad at me once.
then he started to ask my cousin to dance with him and she said no and he started yelling at her and shes younger than me so i told him ''hey be cool theres other people to dance with and she said no, no means no '' yah know and he started telling me i didnt know anything and calling me stupid and stuff which IS new
and then i walked away to avoid anything and he pulled me by the hair and shoved me against a wall and hit me .. i fell to the floor and then ran upstairs before he could come back
.. the question is should i tell my mom ??
or let it go cuz he was drunk??
cuz i mean when hes sane hes fine and hes soo great
but i dont want to cause more problems between them .. sorry for it being too long
♥christina
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Drunk or not, physically/mentally/emotionally abusing someone, regardless of their age or gender, is not acceptable in any case. Tell your mom right away because once he does that, there are no guarentees he won't do that again in the futurre, drunk or not.
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Yes, you need to tell your mom. I don't care how drunk he was, there is no excuse for the way he was acting. Your on vacation, so the reality of it is, he is going to be drunk again... probably a lot. You could be in danger. First, try talking to him when he is sober and see what he says. If it happens again, call your mom.
Good Luck.
Sarah
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Yes you should definitely tell your mom. Drunk or not, what he did to you was unexecptable and ILLEGAL (child abuse). And if he gets that out of control when he's drunk, he has no business getting drunk in front of you or your cousin (or anyone for that matter). Don't worry about his relationship with your mom, I'm sure she would always put you before any guy in her life!
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oh, that sounds terrible... I think it would be best to tell your mom...
They may fight... but he should be responsible for his actions, drunk or not. It's not fair to you or anyone else that he may of been acting that way towards. Don't allow yourself to be treated like that, hun. You have to do something about it.
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