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hey. i'm leigh. i don't even know if people get on this thing anymore haha but i just came back onto this thing after three years and realized how dumb i used to be. i've grown up a lot. i've been through some rough times but some good ones too. if there is anything i can do to help you let me know. any questions you have feel free to ask

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Ok well i go to st simons too and my bf wanted to have sex with me?! I don't know if i should break up with him or should have sex with him (i kinda want to). What should i do!?!

ummmm well if your ready to have sex then do it but honestly i dont think this is a serious question because all the girls i know at st simons dont do that kind of thing

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you need to help me.. i've got hair growing IN my vagina...i'm really scared.. i don' know what to do

i dont really think its like life treatening but if oyur worried about it then talk to your doctor.

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well i have this friend and we both like the same guy and i told her tht neither of us shud go out with him and shes like oh omg good idea and soo we agreed and then i find out tht they went out but only for like a day or so and yea i dont know what i should do so do you have any advice?

yeah well i know who this is so im sorry for what i did but seriously i dont remember to agreeing to that

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this maybe a little confusing but...
well i really liked this one guy and he finaly asked me out but then it wsnt serious and i never saw him so i broke up with him...then i started liking this other guy and my fiends told me he liked me too but i didnt know..so i asked him to the pool and then i saw my ex and all his friends..but i thought my ex was gay ((not seriously)) but like i hatd him and then after a while i went up and tlked to him and all of a sudden i fell for him again..when i first strted liking him it took him forever to ask me out! well i really want to call him but i feel that he doesnt like me so i dont want him to be like uhh hi...bc i really like him and i want him to ask me out again and i just dont know what to do!

I HOPE I MADE SENSE..IF I DIDNT SORRY!

ok first off sorry it took me so long to answer this but it took me like a really long time to figure it out haha. call me him and be act totally normal dont bring up the past be like do yu wanna go to like the movies with me and like name a few other people. when your there flirt with him a little bit not alot. then like ask him to go somewhere another time and flirt a little bit more. keep adding a little more flirt each time yu see him. its hard to get over people. i understand. but if he ends up like not flirting back then maybe hes over you so dont hold onto him. guys are dumb. hot but dumb. sorry i couldnt help more but i guess i was rle confused. haha it took me like 2 weeks to even kind of figure it out. i.m me if you think i could help more

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so i have this boyfriend but its like he doesnt even like he likes his music more then he likes me and like my friends make fun of me and him and stuff and its kind of awkward and he was mean to my best friend but i like him for some weird reason and i dont no wat to do

tell him how pissed your getting because he pays more attention to music than you. if he doesnt cahnge break up with him. and oh my god if hes mean to your best friend then hes not worth it. boys are never worth more than yur best friend. take it from me. i hope i helped and i.m me if you want to know anything else cause ill be more than happy to help.

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Okay so i was at my friends house and this guy was there and we made out and he felt me up and i got fingerd but it turns out he doesnt like me at all and i am trying not to like him but its hard for me...and i wanna tell him that i know he used me but i dont wanna start drama...so wat do i do?
oh btw im 13 and hes 15

well call him or i.m. him and be like i kno you dont really like me so why did you want to do all that stuff with me? see what he says. i know this may sound bad but its ok that you did all that stuff and he ddidnt like you and if you like him then forget about him cause he sound slike an asshole. sorry if this isnt making sense but i.m me and ill explain more

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well im young to start my period but not like 9 or nething im 12 nd everytime i have it its bad :\ i dont know what to DO??
well please helpp!!

thankxx I LOVVEE YOUUU :))



it sok if its heavy just wear a thicker pad. if its like out of control. then tell your mom how bad it is. she'll know what to do. moms are cool like that. =)

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Okay so there this one guy that i think is rel cute and i have a crush on him but i dont think he likes me the same way i like him sometimes he will come up to me and start flirting with me and i flirt back but i rel like him and i dont no if i should ask him out bc he probably say no so wat should i do?

well hang out with him a few more times so you get to know eachother better then ask him out. chances are he'll say yes and if he doesnt tell him that you want to pretend like it never happened so you two can still be close. guys are cool like that. they dont want things between you to get weird. i.m. me if you have any other questions.

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hi leigh im 13 and i like this guy. we only have hung out liek 2 times but the last time we hung out he was rele nice and funny. one of my rele good friends lieked him and he liked her but then he broke her heart bc she acted all stupid and whatever. i dont want to tell her i like him and i know he wont like me back but i cant help it. (( my friend got a new boyfriend but i dont think shes over this guy yet)). help!

ask your friend if shes over the guy. dont tell her that you like him thought unless she says shes over him. talk to the guy and flirt with him and stuff. you never know what will happen. he could like you too. dont ever doubt it. my friend liked this guy and i liked him too and i thought oh he'll never like me. but i got a suprise. =)

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im fat!! what do i do to loose weight?????

cut your calories in half. eat smaller portions. and im sure your not fat you may just be a little over weight. thats how it is for me. well anyways exercise on a regular basis. dont do anything hard just little things at first and then work your way up. i.m. mefor more help.

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i havnt pooped in a week.. isnt that unhealthy? what should i do?

its called constipation. drink alot of juice and then it should come out. haha sorry this is kind of a weird question.

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im a slut and now i think i have and std wat should i do?

ok i doubt this is serious but if it is go to a doctor duh

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okay well i had this boyfriend and we went out for a long time and we were totally serious and did alot together but then he broke up with me and its been about a month since and he has a new girlfriend and im totally jealous and whenever we go out and they are together i get TOTALLY jealous and i just dont no wat to do

i know how you feel. thats happened to me. it takes yu half the time to get over an ex like compared to the length yu went out. sorry if that doesnt make sense but i dont kno how to put it. ok so liek if you wen tout for 6 months it should take you 3 months to get over him. well just try and get a new boyfriend go out with your friends and do fun stuff your obviously not going to forget about what you did together but it will help. there will be other boys. hes just another one. he may have been something special but hes not the only guy out there

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Okay, so me and my boyfriend were foolin around and we had sex and his condom slipped off and is stuck "up there", anyway how the fuck do i get it out, i already tried with my hand????????

i have no clue

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ok so me and my best friend and 13 and we have boyfriends that are best friends too..when we go to the movies all they do is makeout and are all over each other.. and im not jelous because me and mine do too but like he sticks his hands down her pants and grabs her boobs.. she doesnt like it, but she doesnt want him to think shes prude so she doesnt tell him to stop.. when i try to talk to her she always thinks im yelling at her.. and im not, im her friend, im just trying to help.. he tells her things like that hes gonna finger her and asks her what flavor condom she wants and stuff like that all the time, i just dont know what to do please help me.

maybe your friend should just tell her bf that shes not ready for all of that. and if he doesnt listen then she needs to break up with him. your only 13 you shouldnt be having sex already i mean i kno plenty of people that have gotten fingered and stuff and i mean i guess therye ready but your friends not

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leigh, i love you!

cool

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alright well i really like this guy but he really likes my best friend and i think she likes him but i like him too so i dont no if i should just stay away or wat so i need help

ask your friend who she likes. and see what she says if she says the guy you like be like oh haha really i like him too. and act casual about it so then she knows and she'll probably back off. if not then maybe you should find a new guy. :/

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Okay so i have a huge wiener and it hurts girls a lot, and i was just wonderin what i should do about that? Cuz im really sensitive and dont like hurtin them

i dont kno ask a guy hun. i havent had sex before. im not a slut.

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do babies come from the stork (this is a serios question)?

no its not

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ok so i got my period already but i havent had it in like 3 months~

i swear to god i didnt have sex wit ne 1

~plz help me
u probably no who it is so
SOS

sometimes periods can be irregular. its ok tho i mean if it doesnt happen next month then you really need to talk to your mom about it.

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