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i HATE my mom.
Okay this is going to be REALLY long, this all started when i was doing my clothes at around 11.... i wanted to clean some of my clothes so i would have something to wear tomorrow.
so i threw 2 pairs of abercrombie pants in the wash and dryer. so my mom was all like throw some of my jeans in! but i was half way threw the cycle to put any thing else in the the wash so i didnt bother.
then we went out and i was all nice to her. very nice. this lasted till about 3?
then i got home around like 3:30, and wow was it hell. i put my jeans in the dryer. so they would be dry for about 4:00. then my mom threw in some of her stuff, so i threw in the whites that were dirty in too. no problem with that right?
Okay this is when the shit started, i threw her stuff in the dryer without looking. [with my whites....] and so i did that so i could wash my so lows. so i did that. no problem right?
okay so my mom SCREAMS AND YELLS. becuase her stuff apparently shrunk 2 sizes. i told her if she wants to fit into them again, [ps their like designer] so she starts a hussy-fit with how everything gets broken left and right. and i dont need this beause i have finals from the 13-20th. do i need peace and quiet. but Apparently i cant get it sence my mom is bitching [sorry but i dont have anything else to say for that]
and i didnt invite her to dinner because i dont allow whiners eat the food i make, [im like a chef and planning to be one] so i made pretty good food. its hard to resist ;]
but like, then i was eating then she said to my dad, ricky, sister, melissa, and i, laura, "i hope you bastards [im quoting the EXACT words] fucking die form that taco shit you call food, and i hope you CHOKE AND DIE"
what should i do? call the cops. HELP!
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Well I agree that your mom shouldn't have said she "hopes your choke and die," HOWEVER, I don't agree with everything else. Listen my friend, I know sometimes at a young age we can get a little more aggravated about the little things than we should -- you need to recognize this. I understand this may seem to be a big deal, but let me tell you this isn't a reason to "hate" your mom. You should never hate your mother. You need to have respect and you should have let her eat your "pretty good" food, she is your mother.
I know, I know...you're ready to throw tomatoes at me, but please listen to what I have to say friend. I am only saying this to help you because you will only continue to have problems if you continue this kind of behavior/feelings.
You are only have one mother, and you can never get her back once she's gone. So why not enjoy her while she is here? So many times I see teenagers whining and crying over the little things because they take for granted that their parents will always be around. This is not true.
My dad died when I was eleven and I cherished every moment I had with him. Yes, we had out spats as all kids do, however, I never hated him and I'm glad I didn't. But I did take him for granted. Please don't take your mother for granted, we never know how much time we will be given.
Love your mother, be kind to her, talk to her and always communicate with her -- and yes, let her eat your food. If it's that good, don't let her miss it! :)
Sincerely,
LagunaBabe
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If you call the cops and tell them, "I shrunk mommy's jeans and she got mad and yelled at me".
And then you tell them, "I'm a chef and I
was mad at mom and wouldn't let her eat my famous food" They are going to get their laugh for the day.
Just because your mom threw a fit and swore at you
isn't going to get her thrown in jail. We know though where you get the spoiled behavior.
Get over yourself. If this is all it takes to rattle your cage you are going to have a miserable life.
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If you're in high school, talk to your school counselor. That's pretty messed up.
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WHOH!!!! i dont think that calling the cops would help, because she didnt break the law. Also, it depends on how old you are. I would say to her that your sorry for shrinking her clothes, but she doesnt have to be such a brat about it, because you didnt mean it. Also, maybe she had an especially bad day, and everything was just piling up on her and she couldnt handle it. Talk to her (eaiser said than done, i know).
Hope everything works out for you!
Hope i helped! And let me know how it ends up.
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no you shouldn't call the cops just cause your mom is cussing out you guys. i mean you should only call the cops if your mother is physically abusing you. not emotionally abusing you. maybe your mom is doing this stuff because she's under alot of stress from work or something. see your mom is just like my mom. all you hav to do is give her some space. maybe do something for her. like buy her flowers or something. or maybe just apologize for accidentally shrinking her clothes 2 sizes down even though it wasn't your fault. hope you 2 find peace with eachother and good luck. have a great and fantastic summer! bye
-.christina*
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Woah. If you're telling the truth about your mom, which I'm sure you are, well then your mom got issues. I thought my mom gets mad over little things, but apparently, she doesn't. Calling the police won't do any good, they don't arrest moms for cursing, only for physical abuse, or threats. Talk to your mom when she is in a good mood, and tell her how you feel. If not that, talk to your school counselor. Study in a library, or at school during free time. Your mom sounds bad. I feel for you. I wish you good luck. :-b
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omg! that's inexcusable! your dad isn't gonna saying anything against your mom if he's like most dads. talk to some kind of guidance counselor and if that doesn't work try to stay clear of your mom but appologize to her for shrinking her clothes. if she gets violent or says anything else of that same sort. consult an official ANONYMOUSLY at first and tell him things TO NOT BE REPEATED unless need be.
xoxoxoxo, i hope i helped!
Jessie
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hey. sorry about that. the best thing to do tight now is to just talk to her. apoligize to her that you shrunk her clothes and tell her that she owes you an apoligy for saying tht stuff to you. she is just mad and she needs some time to cool off. write her a note saying im sorry. that always works for me. i wouldnt call the cops unless she physically attacks you, because then that would be an assult. you could also talk to your dad about some of the problems that you are having with your mom, maybe he could help. just be patient. good luck!! hope this helps:: :] ♥-X-♥
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