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Right so I'm 13 and my boyfriend is 16, we have so much respect for each other and he's the one I want to lose my virginity to, i know you are all going to say "you way too young" but I know I'm ready! Nothing's going to change my mind... I've discussed the topic with him and he said its up to me, he would never push me into anything I wasn't ready for. I was just wondering where the best place to do this would be? Ehm also, I've done everything but sex with him... I might be staying at his sisters with him soon, should I do it then? I know I'm ready so no nasty comments thank you... I'm American so we're both under-age...
Please don't call me a 'slut', 'whore' ect... Because I'm not I'm mad for this boy so before you judge think?!
Thanks:'-)! (link)
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I am going to answer this in a way you arent going to like: but in NO way should a 13 year old be having sex (or even dating) a 16 year old. I realize that 3 years isn't a huge age gap, but it is when you are that young. I"m sorry, my only advice is to not sleep with him. You will regret it later.
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can you get pregnant if your mate comes in your mouth (link)
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If you do not know the answer to that question, then you are probably not ready to be having sex of any kind.
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i'm not looking for any ole' high waisted jeans, i'm looking for the ones with the buttons on top (they look like sailor pants) i hope i'm explaining this the best way. i've tried looking everywhere and i don't know where else to look, they pretty much look like this: http://www.grooveeffect.com/post/122007-lust-or-less---high-waisted-skinny-jeans.php thank you all in advance (link)
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These are a little different than the ones in your picture, but I think they are super cute: http://www.macys.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=565414&cm_mmc=Google_Feed-_-4-_-46-_-MP446
These are a little more similar to your photos:
http://www.dhstyles.com/hine-7328-indigo-high-waisted-stretch-skinny-jeans-p/machine-7328-indigo.htm?Click=65030
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I am SO sorry its so long bear with me!
ok so its almost mine and my bfs one year anniversary, and for his gift I wrote down 365 reasons why i love him. i got 52 sheets of paper (52 weeks in a year) and wrote 7 reasons down on each sheet. then I did some insane origami and folded all 52 pages into paper hearts. i put ALOT of work into it, and im ver proud of myself.
The only problem; now I have no idea how to present them to him. i want to give them to him all at once, and i dont wanna just put them in a plastic bag and say "here". If I had my way, i would get a really fancy box to put them all in. Like the ones that you see at the furniture tore. but the thing is, the second i went to a furniture store, no one knew what the crap I was talking about. im not dead set on a fancy box, I just want a cute container just for the sake of presentation. all I need is to know what to put these hearts in, and where i can find said container.
I REALLY appreciate reading my stupidly long question! (link)
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I would look in antique shops because they always have random thing like that, or even like a good-will type store. I think you are going to have to do a littler searching because unfortunately there probably isn't a "fancy box" store (although I do know exactly what you are talking about). Also, did you try looking online? (i'm not sure how much time you have) because i bet you cold google like "Antique box" or something to that extent and find one.
Good luck and I hope this helped!
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I am 20 years old. Never missed a period since i've gotten it. There is a great possibility i could be pregnant, I haven't had my period since march 27th 2010, but last week i was bleeding very lightly, i have taken 5 pregnancy tests and they are all negative, i haven't been able to go to the doctors yet due to not having insurance .. ahhhhhh! what could it be? (link)
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I HIGHLY doubt you are pregnant...your missed period could be caused by a change in your eating habits, exercise habits, excess stress...
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I am looking for a job for the summer, I am 13 and I need money. I have nothing to do over the summer. I need help finding the right job for me so I can have something to do over the summer and get some money. So what jobs are out there in Kansas City,KS that hires 13 year olds? (link)
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Your best bet would be to "work" independently. Like babysitting, or mowing lawns or cleaning out somebody's attic- anything of that sort. Ask your parents friends if they have little jobs around the house that you can do for them. I'm sure somebody will have something that they need help with.
Good luck!
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hi(: well my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 months and I love him dearly (link)
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babysit...its the best/easiest money ever!
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so in 8th grade i was always doing stuff with friends and going on dates ahd stuff, and ever since i left my school and went to another school in the area, i hav been completely disconnected from my friends i talk to this one girl almost everyday but mostly online and on the phone and like not too many other ppl, i havnt done anything with them either, but i was really good friends with my friends from my old school. i was wondering how to get back in touch with them and to ask them to go out and do some stuff w/o being real awkward about it since i havnt talked to them or done anytihng with them in a long time. (link)
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yeahh i went through the same thing when i switched from a public school to a private school (for high school) i still hung out with all my public school friends until about end of sophomore/ begining of junior year b/c i woudl be going out with my school friends. Its hard b/c i dont see them a lot...but what i would do is go throught the one friend you do talk to a lot. Like talk to him/her online and be like hwat are you up to this weekend...lets do something, and chances are he'll bring you to hang out with all your old friends, and then you can just like "buddy up" to everyone and then be like hey guys lets do this again nextweekend.
Good lUck!
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i have no idea how to apply make-up or anything and i need a make-over. how can i give myself a make-over or get a free or cheap make-over? (link)
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Yeahh, I know this is kind of what the other person said, but if you go to like a Nordstroms, or bloomingdales, or any kind of makeup store, they will give you a makeover for free (sometimes its only free if you buy some sort of makeup after, and sometimes its just compeletly free and they just hope you buy stuff). But if you are looking to give yourself a makeover then you'll probably want to buy some makeup anyway...you can just call the store and like ask about thier "policy" for makeovers.
Good Luck!
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i like the brown moccasins with the tan ties and i was wondering where i can get them...does anyone know? (link)
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The picture you attached are uggs, and idk if you want uggs necessarily but if you do, they don't amke that color...this is the closest thing i could find:
http://www.uggaustralia.com/ProductDetails.aspx?gID=w&categoryID=181&productID=5131&model=Dakota
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i really like that song perfect day, by mozingo. i searched it on itunes, and google. and i cant seem to find it so i can listen to it. any ideas? (link)
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Try Youtube...they have a lot of videos of songs on there. Also, idk if you have limewire, but if you do, then i'm sure tey would have it on there (i don't personally have it, but a lot of my freinds say that it has every song imaginable.)
Hope this helped.
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I went shopping at the Gap yesterday with my best friend. We did our normal routine and checked out a few places in the mall before heading over to the Gap, where my best friend spotted a really cute top. She couldn't (and still can't) afford the top at the Gap though so we ended up having to pass it up. We had lunch at Subway after shopping and she started talking about the top at the Gap. Her sweet 16 birthday is coming up and, even though I'm throwing her a party, I think it would be kind of nice to buy the top for my best friend as a birthday present.
The Gap top is actually $48 though.
Do you think it's appropriate for me to give this to her as a birthday gift or do you think it's too expensive? She has no idea that I'm thinking of purchasing the top from the Gap for her so it isn't a big deal if I pass it up. I could always pick her up something from Hollister since she is crazy about Hollister too. My first though was to pick her up a shirt from Hollister actually until she fell in love with this shirt at The Gap. (Anyone have a general preference to The Gap or Hollister anyway?)
I guess what I'm really questioning is: How much should I spend on a birthday gift for my best friend who is turning 16? (link)
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Well...it all really depends. B/c like for some people you throwing the party is preasent enough (and it is)...but like for the shirt I don't think 48 is too much at all...personally i spend more than that on sweet 16 presents...or like usually around 50 but then for my really close friends i spend a little bit more...but at the same time...you are throwing her a party so you should feel obligated to buy her a 50 dollar shirt...so you could always go to hollister...sorry that wasn't very helpful..but you could really go either way...personally, if i were you i would buy the shirt.
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okay so my softball team is going to florida in about a week. i'm due for my period sometime between this week and next week, i really don't want to get it for that because i don't wear tampons and i won't be able to go the beach and pool and stuff with the other girls and i just won't have a good time :[ so my question is, is there any POSSIBLE way for me to either make my period come faster or postpone it until after? and is it also true that when your in the water you don't bleed because i heard one of my friends say that. thanks soo much!
P.S. im not gonna go on birthcontrol because it makes you gain weight and my mom would suspect i'm pregnant or something, which im not.
16/f (link)
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Unfortunalty i don't think so. I don't get my period that often (like once every 3 months) and it used to be longer time in between (i used to get it like once every 5 months) and its very random. And when i asked my doctor about it she said it was due to the fact that i started to exersize more, and i was stressed. So maybe if you excersize- or get stressed out about somethiong- you could delay it but i really doubt it since you've never really been delayed before. GOOD LUCK!! Sorry....
Also about the whole tampons...i never used to wear them, and i JUST started (like literally 3 days ago- and i LOVE them! seriosuly idkk how i did anything without the. So can i suggest trying them again? not only is it 1000 times easier deal with your period but it won't stop you on the beach or at the pool with your friends.
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how do i PERMANENTLY delete soemthing from iphoto. like it foes into the trash album--- how do i delte it form there?
also i uplaoded pictures to iphoto.
i delted the ones i disliked.
i went to upload the pictures onto facebook (not the detled ones)
and the ones i delted sitll show in the folder that i delted them from!!
how do i stop this? (link)
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Once you open up iphoto, click on iphoto, then click "empty trash" and it will be permanently deleted.
Good Luck.
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I really hate my screen name and I really have no ideas on what i should make my new screen name. can you help me?
my name is Michelle i like to swim and play basketball.i really love animals, my favorite animals are tigers and dogs (link)
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i'm in the same position (but my problem is that changing it is such a hassle because then you have to notify everyone etc.) BUT what i'm going to do is make it something simple like "Tessa123" or TLE43 (my initials) Because then you are less likely to get sick of it and it will be harder to "grow out of it" because its basic.
Good Luck
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I'm currently a junior in high school- and so i'm begining the whole college search process. I'm an average student...mostly B's...some A's and i usually have 1 C on my report card. I'm decently involved in school (yearbook, Campus minustry, social Life) i volunteer, i've gone on Habitat for Humanity trips. I'm looking for a school that is on the smaller side...but not really small...like somewhere between 2 and 6 thousand undergrads. I really want a pretty campus! And deffinatly not all girls (i got to an all girl private high school).
Any college reccomendations? Please help! (link)
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East Coast only, and suburban.
THanks :)
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I should have been on my period 2 days ago, but the day before I was due to start I had protected sex with my boyfriend (with a condom- that was the only method of contraception we used, too) and it didnt rip. However about 2 hours after that he fingered me - we didn't clean up afer sex (unless you count tissues) due to family coming back home and nearly catching us doing stuff. So by that time everything would have dried off I'm presuming, so if he did have some on his finger could that have made me pregnant (when its dried is it still able to swim around if it gets close enough)? Is there any chance I could be? From a over paranoid but better to be safe than sorry person in need.
BTW, i've been on my period for years now and I'm regular. I wouldn't normally worry about a late period but considering I had sex beforehand I am slightly worrying..
Are there any other factors that can cause periods to stop apart from pregnancy (I've been itchy recently but after already posting a question about that, I believe its nothing to worry about).
Thanks :) (link)
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Well its always possible that you are pregnant (expecially because condems are never 100% efective...so there is always that small chance) and idk about the whole dried up sperm thing...to the best of my knowledge i think that if the sperm was still on his finger, then you could still get prgnant.
I think the best thing to do wopuld be to take a pregnancy test. But Also, you could just be late due to stress or w/e and two days isnt that long so i wouldnt worry just yet.
Hope this helped!
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Ok, well I found out that i had a really old myspace account and now i want it to be deleted to avoid confusion when people try to search me up. But the problem is I don't know what email address i used or the password. I know that you message Tom for this kind of thing but when i was about to his warning thing came up saying something about sending him a message about lost accounts or anythin irrevalant will cause my email address to be removed from myspace. well that part worries me because im scared he might delete ALL of my myspace accounts (only have 2 by the way) by accidnet or something. should i just send him a messafe anyways explaing the details and hope he doesnt cancel my main account also? (link)
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Yeah i would. Because it seems like that would be the only way to get his help (even though he warns agaisnt it) but i think that if you explain to him that you have 2 accounts and lost the information for one of them, i would think that he would be understanding, and not delete all of your accounts.
Good Luck!
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i want to know very cheap prom drses stores.. i dont want online sites but stores. i live in connecticut and im looking for below $90-100 thanks. (link)
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I'm not sure which of these stores you have around you but i know thats Charlotte Russe has a lott of dresses (and they are ususally really cheap) and Forever 21 (like if you really look- sometimes you can find really nice stuff) and that would deffinatly be cheap.
Other than that the only thing i can really say is to look through sale racks...you'd be suprised at what you can find.
Good Luck and I'll keep thinking!
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Prom is coming up and my sister told me that she would buy me a month of tans and she never did, Now prom is like 3 weeks away and she told me that she would buy me a spray on tan.
I need to know:
Do they stink?
Because people tell me that they stink.
Does it come off in spots?
Does it make you look orange?
I need to know basically everything about it because I dont want to go to prom smelling nasty because I had to get a spray on tan.
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its risky...and generally, its pretty obvious its a spray tan- because you tend to look kind of orangy...however, if you do it REALLY well then i have seen them look good. But you need to be careful of your hands (if you don't wash them RIGHT after your finished...they will be VERY orange, and you need to be careful of spreading it evenly, and making sure it doesnt run, because then you will be striped and polka dotted.
If you are careful, take your time, and read all of the instructions- then i think you'll be fine.
What i would reccomend doing, is don't go for a dramatic tan right away...start off by trying to make yourself looking only slightly tanner than you already are...that way you can get a feel for how it works, and if it isn't really working, then at least you arent completly orange :)
Good Luck!
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