okay.. so im Kate.
people tell me that im good at advice.. so thats what i do.
i hate slang and when poeple type LiiKe3 THiisZ
i make alot of typos... sorry
those three categories are my favorite, but feel free to ask me anything.. ill do my best. Except technology.. haha thats not my shining area.
I laugh at myself alot and i like it that way. when i grow up, ill probably be a phsycologist or a physical therepist. =] oh yeah and smileys are always a good sign from me.
E-mail: katexosays@aim.com
Gender: Female
Location: mass
Occupation: none
Age: 15
AIM: katexosays
Member Since: June 27, 2007
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Is it more likely that you could get pregnant during or after you've had your period (even with protected sex; condom) meaning is it a good time to get pregnant? my bf is coming to visit and i have my period right now, so it should be gone when he arrives, is it really possible to get pregnant even with a condom? thanks guyss (link)
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Well, this is something that i asked my health teacher and she said that it was possible to get pregnant when your have your period. The chances are slim but still there..
here is a website with more on the subject =]
http://www.babyhopes.com/articles/pregnantduringperiod.html
hope it helps :D
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my boyfriend kisses me on the lips a lot; just a peck. its usually spontaneous and I don't mind, I think its sweet. but I'm usually caught off guard so I end up missing his lips or something, and then I feel like an idiot. I've made out and I know I'm not bad but I get clumsy when it comes to that simple peck. any advice for me? (link)
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hhaaha thats typical, dont worry. but alot of times there can be "hints" that its going to happen. Some might be him looking at you a certain way or if he says something before he usually does it.
i think that you shouldn't worry about it, yeah it may be awkward at first.. but just giggle when you miss. im sure that if he hated it.. he wouldnt kiss you anymore like that...
:D oh yeah.. and try doing it to him sometimes ;]
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i have to write my boyfriend a sorry letter for cheating. any good sugestions or help ? (link)
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Okay well.. i think that you need to no be so like... bold..
do something like
[name]-
Look, i really messed things up and i realized that i really really care about you and i would kill for an extra chance.. you mean alot to me and its driving me crazy being with you.. what happened whas a mistake and i dont know why i did it but i promise you.. it wont happen alot.. [name], i jsut dont know what to do without you.. just promise me that you'll think about it.
-[your name]
.. im sorry..
hope it helps yah!
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i just recently got close with my friend jake. i ALSO just broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago. anyways, hes been there all through the break up and everything helping me out and making me feel better. we talk almost everyday, if not twice a day and we really do have an amazing friendship. about a week or two ago, we started talking about relationships (since we both recently got out of one) and we started comparing what we want in one and what we like/dislike. ever since then, we're even closer & i think im starting to like him. im really afraid to tell him though because i'm afraid it'll screw up what we have, and how close we are. i have one of my best friends talking to him trying to get a feel of who he's interested in, but i really want a straight out answer. i mean, if i dont tell him and he really does like me too, i could be missing out on something great you know? sorry its so long, but any advice you can give me would be great. thanks.! (link)
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okay well first off, i think that its a good idea to look at your friendship and weigh it out with a realationship.. like you said, you wouldnt want it to go wrong and wind up ruining it. But i also think that if you did have a relationship it would be really strong because of how close you are. Honestly even though its going to be tough just flat out ask him because if you dont, like you said, you could be missing out.
Just remember that there is a HUGE difference between loving some one as a friend and loving someone as a boyfriend. and sometimes we mix those two feelings up.
hope i helped you!
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i like this guy i think he like me, i like him to. he is not the most popler boy, but a lot of girls like him, but wont admit it. i am one of those girls what should i do should i make a move (link)
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hmm well yeah, i think that you should totally go for it if thats how you feel. If anyone gives you a hard time about it, screw them. you may find yourself alot happier with him than you would with the acceptence of other people. and its usually the un popular guys that aren't complete buttheads.
ha, no i wouldnt act differently around him because if he is attracted/interested in you already, then that is how he likes it.. just be yourself. =]
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there is this guy "james". he always asks me out and i always say no. i say no mainly becuase i am not looking for someone right now, and happy being single. As much times as i try telling him no and my reason, he still tries to ask me out. he already asked me out about 12 times. what should i do?
much thanks (link)
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I think that next time he does it, dont let him down easy.. firmly say "no" and dont be nice about it. i mean if you dont like him, you dont like him. but hey, if you flirt with him.. (not saying that you do) that could lead him on which would probably not help you right about now.
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anyone that has the new plain white ts cd, whats the guys name in the blue shirt with dark dark brown hair (link)
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i think his name is tom. that cd is amazing, by the way
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ok so say my name is jenna and this kid's name is john. alright well i have to go to summer school which sucks but im getting used to it. one day while i was at school in the morning i walked over to my friend who was talking to this guy. then he turned to me and said "hey you're jenna, i recognized you because you're her top person on her friends list on myspace" when the guy left i asked who it was and she said "john smith(not his real name)" and i recognized him because my friend had talked about him. it was a friend of my friends ex boyfriend. follow that? ok so that was on friday and over the weekend i accepted him over myspace to be my friend and we talked a bit on there but not much. just the simple questions like what school do u go to? why are you in summer school? whats up? that sort of thing. monday(today) im back in school and im walking in and he's standing at this ledge we have outside my school and he says hey and i wave, not really awake enough to say anything. so then i go inside and sit on the window sill in there waiting for my class and he comes in and he's like "hey *jenna* how was your weekend?" and he gives me a hug. and i said it was good but i was surprised that he gave me a hug because we just started talking 2 days ago. then when i was leaving school he stepped right in front of me and said goodbye and gave me another hug...once again i was kind of confused why. the only guy friends that normally give me hugs are guy friends that i've known for a really long time. now normally i would say that he might like me but he has a girlfriend. i know his girlfriend she goes to my school, he goes to the school in the next town. basically i don't know what this guy's thinking. he doesnt hug my friend and he's known her a lot longer. what do you guys think he's thinking? i'm so confused i never had a guy act this way with me before. (link)
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i think that he is interested in you, but at this point, you're kind of jsut a little "crush". I would keep talking to him more and see where it goes... if he keeps flirting/hugging you.. ask him whats up. say something along the lines of "hey. i get the vibe that you like me.. but i also know that you have a girlfriend.."
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ok well theres this really cute guy that i have the BIGGEST crush on. hes two years older than me (im going to be a freshman and hes gonna be a jr)and i dont know what to do. how can i get his attention without being a slut. oh. and im such a bad flirt cause im so shy..
HELP PLEASE
thanks
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well its tough but you gotta gather up the courage to talk to him.. or else you will never get his attention ha, even if its small talk.. it'll help you adjust to getting bolder =]
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what are some cute ways to flirt with a guy? i love to flirt but i want to make it more special with a certain boy. thanks =) (link)
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well, im not a guy but when i try to let a guy know that im interested i always
give direct eye contact
touch his arm..
smile.. ALOT
make fun.. ( not mean..)
be yourself
be cute.. not sexy
have a balance between ditzy and smart
dont always agree with him
DONT SMOTHER HIM
hope that helpss =]
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I want to be sad.
List the best break up songs, please. as many as you can. I don't care about the genre.
Thanks. (link)
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Daphne loves derby - Midnight Highway
Colin Haye - I just dont think
ill ever get over you
Boys Like Girls - Thunder (i like it acoustic)
Copeland - Firefly
Brett Dennen - Nothing lasts forever
Jason Mraz - You and I both
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alllright so my parents will be gone this weekend and my bf is gonna sleep over. im trying to think of some exciting things we could do. we havnt had sex so not that, but anything else is defff possible. so what are some fun ideas that he would like?? id like as many ideas as possible. thanks so much! (link)
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well do you want it intimate?
personally, in order to grow closer to him.. i would go the fun way. like rent a BUNCH of video games for two players.. do like old school... pac man, mario, james bond, and things like that. also.. bake stuff. haha but get him involved. i think that you should also have your own dance party haha it sounds dumb, but being crazy and stuff shows boys taht your cute.. and who knows, you might wind up in the intimate area.. =]
hope it works out!
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Well im like madly in love with my friends boyfriend. Theyve only been going out for like 5 days, but ive liked him since the beginning of the year. And so two weeks ago right after he broke up with his girlfriend i told him i liked him and that i was going to ask him out, but i knew he would say no, because he just broke up with his girlfriend, and i kinda had a hunch that he sorta of liked shannon. And he said he kinda did, but that didnt mean he liked me, and that he promised he wouldnt go out with her. And so i was all happy. But he never talked to me about it again. And so finally i was just like is it because you dont like me and hes like no i really like you i just have to think about stuff. BUT HE TOLD SHANNON THE EXACT SAME THING. And hes not that kind of person. And i yelled at him, and im really mad at him right now, but i cant get him off my mind, and everytime i think about him and shannon together, i start crying, because it just doesnt feel right. And dont tell me to just stop liking him. Its not that easy. And i dont care if you say im not in love, because i am, i cant stop thinking about him and ive never felt like this with a guy before. Hes really not the kind of person to be like that, and he just didnt stop and think, and i cried myself to sleep last night because i cant stop thinking about him, and i love him sooooo much, and hes so sweet, and i just dont know what to do. (link)
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okay.. it sounds to me like this guy has no idea what he wants. which isnt exactly good boyfriend material. and i know that you say you love him, and im not saying that you dont.. but sometimes you have to get over the ones you love..
i think that you should do two things to help you
- poke around for new options
- keep yourself busy
He also could have just said he liked you because he didnt want to hurt your feelings. i've been there before.
let him decide what he wants. stay away from him for a while and kind of stop talking to him and if he is constantly trying to see/talk to you then you know that he has feelings for you. plus, think of your friend.. how do you think she would feel if you just stole her boyfriend?
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Okay so I have been going out with this girl for a little less than a year. I am COMPLETELY in love with her, she is literally my life. I dont get along with my family anymore and I'm now 18 so they keep threatening to kick me out, but my girlfriend says it would be okay with her dad if i moved in (i'm just setting up for the question i like to explain stuff.) I am convinced she loves me but ,heres the problem, I dont know if she truly loves me. I completely trust her sometime and others I dont. She knows how i feel about her talking to other guys about having sex and she stil does. She says it a joke, its always over texts or AIM (which i now hate AIM because when shes onine i am scared of losing her). Well needless to say after a few time of catching her talking about it she has started hiding it, ALL OF IT. But not very well and i see her hinding it. She says another guy wouldnt go through what i do go through with her, becaseu she has an Eating Disorder, since theres no names i think she would mind me sharing. But then I think well if its sex no guy will care becaseu its just sex.
Well she hides shit all the time and today i cought her big time. After she fell asleep. Everyone please dont get mad at me for this. But i logged on to her AIM and started talking to a guy i saw the words "well we could do it for SEX...)" then she closed the window and tihs was earlier. Nows shes asleep and i talked to this guy again. Apperantly he has everything planned out. He says he wants her to come party with no strings attached so the BF doesnt get mad. Then i said something about partying and what they would do (i'm impersinating her) he said they would drink, she gets really horny when she drinks and doesnt hide it but she only drinks around me so far, during the day then go back to his house and nap and/or shower. then go out and party all night and who know what else might happen after we shower... He plans on it and just hiding it but i dont know her plan. She has blown him off several time and most of the otehr guys she talks about sex with, but it scares me that the guys plan on just a good time and hidind it so the BF doesnt get mad...
I cant say how much she means to me though and now i have to get a job and that means she will ahve more alone time to do whatever. She is incredibly gorgeous and is hit on all the time and i know how guys are with you know just sex, they dont care. I'm terrified and I am actually planning on jumping this guy sometime soon because of how he just blown me off and it would all be hidden with SEX!!! I cant lose her, it would crush me. When i think of losing her i think of bad thought but they all seem so easy and a quick way out of pain. I cant do that. Does she intend on doing anythign with them or is she just leading them on and screwing with them thats why she blows them off? She told me she wouldnt do anythign like that and swore on my life she never would. Please help anyone, you dont have to answer you could jsut give advice or something. I cant function and all i can think of is the fucking asshole (sorry) dude who i would love to jsut puch right now. That was probably really jumpy and probably many typos. But i need someone to help just a little bit i cant deal with this alone all i think of is jumping that fucking klfashdl;fashgj;. It just pisses me off so much. (sorry again i'm just so mad right now, i already broke my punching bag.)
you can even email me at VTA_bum@yahoo.com
i can give you more info there and more of what is going on.
thanks in advance, i'm just so confused.
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okay... so you obviously REALLY care about this girl, and i bet that she's great... but, you've already talked to her about his and its not stopping. you need to take her some place quiet, solitary and reserved.. like go to the beach at night or a picnic somewhere where the two of you guys can talk about this stuff. Tell he that you talked to the guy.. and tell her that you're sorry, because in doing that you betrayed HER trust. and yeah, i agree with the advice below me because you really dont know if it was a joke, and you turned it into reality. If she is blowing the guys off, she probably isnt planning on doing anything with them.. and she just wants to flirt. all girls flirt.. regardless of whether or not they have a boyfriend. its just something that we do. if she's offering you to move in with her.. than she obv. dosnt plan on letting go of you. but sneaking around her back is most likely going to make her feel violated and that you dont trust her. which will push her away. ESPECIALLY if she catches you. so once again.. talk to her.. and make sure it sinks in to her how much it REALLY effects you, but when you talk to her, dont approach her with the whole you did this and you did that.. use the term "I" such as I feel like...
hope it helped..
Kate
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what is masturbation and how do you do it? (link)
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that depends if you are a girl or a boy but basically for either gender it is self-induced sexual pleasure.
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how do you get away with wearing black nail polish without coming off as 'goth' ? (link)
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dress cute with it! haha. or use like a sparkly black.
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i have a 2nd degree burn on my hand from touching a hot grill. there is a line of white blisters across my hand. ive had cold water on it for a few hours but the pain still will not stop unless i keep icy water on it.
does any know how i can realive the pain? (link)
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go to the doctors and get cream for it... i think? thats never happened to me before
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well, i've been in love with this boy, Drew, for about a year. I'm 14 and he's 17. Our relationship is perfect minus the fact that he doesn't really open up. He knows everything about me and my child hood and everything. but now that i think about it, i really don't know anything about him. i just need some help on how to get him to open up to me. he said he's always had a rough time opening up to anyone but i want to get him out of that. does anyone have any suggestions? i'd really really appreciate it. (link)
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get him somewhere calm and quiet and liek solitary and just let him know that he can trust you and you'll ge ton the subject...
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Does anybody know how i could try to go up to my crush and talk to him??? We've never talked before but hes at my bus stop and i will catch him staring at me every once in a while. I'm really shy at school and ever shyer when it comes to him!!!! Can anybody help me??? (link)
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ha, well first i would just smile at him .. in that cute/bashful way.. your basically batting your eyelashes at him. and then, he'll probably smile back at you.. and then after a day or two... see where it goes, ha.. you'll most likely end up talking somehow.. just dont be afraid to bring up conversation somehow..
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i want to turn part of my hair that platinum blonde. i hear you can only do it by bleaching.
how do you bleach it? im not going to buy a kit or dye so dont tell me that its safer or whatever.
my hair is dark brown right now.
HOW DO YOU BLEACH YOUR HAIR?
please know what your talking about.
thankyou (link)
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you only can with a kit of hair bleaching.
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