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is this just how guys act?
ok so say my name is jenna and this kid's name is john. alright well i have to go to summer school which sucks but im getting used to it. one day while i was at school in the morning i walked over to my friend who was talking to this guy. then he turned to me and said "hey you're jenna, i recognized you because you're her top person on her friends list on myspace" when the guy left i asked who it was and she said "john smith(not his real name)" and i recognized him because my friend had talked about him. it was a friend of my friends ex boyfriend. follow that? ok so that was on friday and over the weekend i accepted him over myspace to be my friend and we talked a bit on there but not much. just the simple questions like what school do u go to? why are you in summer school? whats up? that sort of thing. monday(today) im back in school and im walking in and he's standing at this ledge we have outside my school and he says hey and i wave, not really awake enough to say anything. so then i go inside and sit on the window sill in there waiting for my class and he comes in and he's like "hey *jenna* how was your weekend?" and he gives me a hug. and i said it was good but i was surprised that he gave me a hug because we just started talking 2 days ago. then when i was leaving school he stepped right in front of me and said goodbye and gave me another hug...once again i was kind of confused why. the only guy friends that normally give me hugs are guy friends that i've known for a really long time. now normally i would say that he might like me but he has a girlfriend. i know his girlfriend she goes to my school, he goes to the school in the next town. basically i don't know what this guy's thinking. he doesnt hug my friend and he's known her a lot longer. what do you guys think he's thinking? i'm so confused i never had a guy act this way with me before.
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i think that he is interested in you, but at this point, you're kind of jsut a little "crush". I would keep talking to him more and see where it goes... if he keeps flirting/hugging you.. ask him whats up. say something along the lines of "hey. i get the vibe that you like me.. but i also know that you have a girlfriend.."
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He thinks you're hot, that's what he's thinking. And he's thinking if you express an interest in him, too, he can dump his girlfriend for you.
If you return his advances, he might be a sweet boyfriend for a while, but he'll eventually do the same to you. Your choice if you want to take that chance. If you aren't interested in him, don't hug back or try to avoid the hugs, or call him out on it--"John! You have a girlfriend! You can't hug me like that!" And see how he responds.
Sounds like he's interested in a little summer fling to me.
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