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Why are girls...
girls are so complicated cuz when i try to do somethin they always complain and whenever they are sick ill talk to them all night but they say i didnt talk long enough? and whenever they misss me i do whatever i can to get to them but they say i didnt try hard enough even though i got there and i even brought flowers a chocalate? sometimes i dont get girls or should i say some girls?
what should i do?
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Some gurls dont care how hard you try for some reason most gurls want guys to be mean to them i dk why
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You have different types of girls. for some reason guys like those types of girls. however, there are girls who can appreciate you efforts as long as they are genuine.
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Yeah say some girls. I love it when guys come see me when i miss them and if the bring some flowers and chocolate its a huge plus. So those girls that did that to you where probably testing you or they are wayyy too high maintence(sp).
DOnt change your ways at all, if a girl acts like that ur better off without her.
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Yes, say "some girls" because honestly, not all are like that. Only the ones that are either bitchy or insecure. You seem like a very sweet guy, so don't try to change your ways. Just try changing the girl you're doing this cute stuff for.. Honestly, I know tons of girls who would LOVE to have a guy like you and would much more appreciate it. Just forget the girl you're doing this for and get another one. Hopefully, you'll find the right girl who will be grateful for you and the things you do. =]
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Wow! you seem very sweet. Dont let that lil girl get to you. Hon I hate to say this but she doesnt like you at all. Just tell her to give you a break. A guy did all that stuff for me before and yes it was sweet but I didnt feel the same way as he did. That's why I told him I should give him a break. I wasn't really honest with him but he got the idea. She doesnt sound like she's feeling you at all. You need to find another girl. There are a lot of girls that would kill for a guy like you. Really. There are all kinds of girls that want to have a boyfriend like everyone else. You will meet a girl one day and she'll love the fact that you brought here stuff like that. So dont worry. you'll understand one daay.
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ok...the girl your doing this for, needs to give u a break. if a guy did this for me, id be more than greatful!!!!!! way way more. Maybe you can talk to her, (if it is one girl, which it sounds like) not like a sit down discussion, but when she says "you didnt try" say i came and saw you. she cant say your wrong if you did and will realize that you did try.
GooD luck and remember NOT ALL GIRLS ARE LIKE THIS!
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Not every girl is like this.
So, yes, you should say some girls.
Keep doing what you are ding. You seem sweet and generous. If a girl doesn't notice this, she doesn't know what she's missing. One day a girl will see how great you really are.
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hey,
i'd honestly say that all girls are not like that. it's probably just the girl you're talking about, honestly.. because many girls would REALLY appreciate the things you do.
all i can really say is that every girl is different, and will react differently to different things; and happen to complain about different things, too. :(
if this girl seems to complain too much, when you're genuinely trying your hardest, say something to her about it. let her know that most guys don't even try that hard to be so nice to a girl, and that it's not fair to you, when you're doing more than your job.
if she dosen't seem to see the point in that, i'd honestly say to find a more deserving or, appreciative person. :)
never change the way you are, though! you sound like you have some awesome qualities, that some girls ADORE.
XOXO
KAT!
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Well there are many fish in the sea, every girl is different, maybe you are just running into the wrong ones. It sounds like you try your hardest but these girls you talk about dont seem to realise that, maybe you could talk to them and tell them how you feel?
Some girls can be VERY complicated i know but then some can be perfect for you. As long as you know you are doing the best you can do is wait and see what else is out there and who will appreciate you for who you are and what you do.
Hope things go well, Good Luck =] x
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You should say 'some girls'.
Some girls are needy. Some girls like to test your devotion to them. Some girls are demanding and high maintenance.
Some girls aren't.
If you are feeling abused by someone in your life, speak up already. Some girls will just ignore the pain of others until they are forced to acknowledge it. They get what they want easiest that way.
If you don't like being abused, find yourself a girl with more realistic expectations. They exist.
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