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i dont know why this keeps happening
ok i like this boy and we have been going out off and on this entire school year. At first i really like him maybe even love him then we go out and about 2 weeks later i end up not liking him. then we break up and about a week later i decide i like or love him again and it all starts over. i dont know why i cant stay in love with him or why i can stay away from him. please tell me whats going on!!
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dont take this the wrong way, but i dont think you love him if you are feeling this way about him. however, you can certainly like him. what probably happened is you guys went out and you liked him a lot, but then you got bored of being with him. this happens to a lot of people. so you broke up. then, because you werent around each other anymore you probably missed him and wanted to go back out with him. so when youre with him, you dont want to be, and when you arent, you do. its confusing and frustrating, i know. however, if you give it another try and it still doesnt work out i think you should focus on someone else because its obvious that you dont like going out with him. good luck.
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Hmm this seems like a tricky situation. Firstly you cant help your feelings and who/when you fall for someone. I think your problem is that when you first went out you probably spent a bit too much time together and got bored of each other so thats why the relationship stopped, because you were bored. Then if you stopped spending time with this boy all together then you maybe started to miss him..so that meant you wanted to spend time with him again and realised you do still like him. Its like a circle really. I think all you can do is wait and see what happens, if its meant to be then it will happen, wait and see how you feel and if you do realise you do like him overall make sure you spend days together AND days apart so you dont get bored with each other. But if yo dont like him maybe you could just stay good friends? I hope this helped =] If you have anything you want to say dont be afraid to ask =] x Good Luck
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