Hey. my name is Tess.
im a very calm person i never really get mad, and i can stay calm in a crisis situation. people usually turn to me for an outcome of a problem. ive been told by many that im good at giving advice. i dont like to fight with anyone and i have many friends. i like helping people.
im a pretty crazy person and people say im so fun to be around =D
i believe you should live life to the fullest it can be lived! just have fun!
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somehow... i could've sworn my breasts fitted in 32b perfectly, but somehow.. my breasts got smaller. i don't know how, is it the change of diet? i started noticing the change ever since i had a fever for a week and i couldn'treally do anything. i noticed my breasts got smaller. what happened exactly? and what can i do to make them bigger? please and thank you! (link)
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Breasts are generally muscle and fat. If you lost weight, so did your breasts because you lose weight evenly throughout your body.
also, breasts significantly change in size all the time. During your period they get bigger and grow, and then get smaller after.
Nothing is wrong medically, and the more you think they're smaller the worse it will seem.
Hope this helps :)
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I have an IPod nano and my sister as one too. So anyways she put a video on her's and she was gonna tell me how to do it but she forgot how she did her's LOL
So i was wondering how do I get a video on my IPod nano? (link)
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all you do is...
plug your ipod into iTunes and it appears.
at the top of your iPod page there is categories such as Music, Videos, Photos, ect...
Click on videos and there will be a sync videos check box.
You have to add the video on your computer to iTunes. you may have to check the video too. After that just click sync and it should work
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16/f
for the past six days my head was hurting, but on 4 days my head wasn't hurting as much as it did on the 5th and 6th day (today). i took different medicines because the whole time alot of people just thought it was just stress due to the finals or a migraine because of the cold weather. i took regular tylenol then took a nap before i went to work, it worked for five minutes but started hurting again. then, my manager gave me regular advil which i took seven hours later then went to sleep when i got home, i woke up.. my head was hurting more than it did the day before that. so i called my sister and she bought me advil migraine, i took it the night before i went to sleep and i woke up feeling better my head wasn't hurting as much anymore until i went to the restroom my vision got blurry until i went into my mom's room to lay down. i finally told my mom that my head hurt (usually me and my sister had to take care of ourselves because my mom is usually busy or gone), and it turns out that i have a fever. i just want to know, is this normal? i don't have any other symptoms, my head just hurts and i have a fever. is this serious? help me please! (link)
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Could be potentially serious.
If your diet and lifestyle is normal and you're getting enough sleep, and you havent changed anything drastically recently then you should probably go to a doctor.
If you search online about ongoing headaches you'll see there are many causes, some of them very bad.
In the meantime-try to stay on ONE kind of medication, such as tylenol. and take it as directed on the box. Mixing medications isnt good.
best of luck-you are young so I dont think it's anything drastic.
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18/female. a little background info you should probably know: me and joe have known each other for about 4 years now and i've always had the biggest crush on him but haven't straight out told him, and he's felt me up before but nothing serious. so last night we were talking and this was the last part of our convo:
me: thanks ... you hurt my feelings (kidding around)
joe: sorry. i can pay ya back
me: yes you will ... what are you gonna give me??
joe: what do you want
me: hmmm whatever you want
joe: lol like?
me: oh please you know what i like
joe: sex
me: haha well...yea but i dont think i like it as much as you do
joe: why
me: well i guess i really dont know that do i. but since you just think im a TEASE guess you'll never find out will ya;)
and he never texted back:( the last thing i said i was trying to be flirty. me and joe are both attractive to each other and obviously i'd have sex with him in a second, he's absolutely adorable, hes the only guy i trust, we're actually really close friends but he just didn't seem as into it as he usually is. sometimes when we're talking about things like sexual he will be like wanna have sex? haha and sooo like i thought he would be all into it. maybe he didn't know what to say back? maybe he fell asleep because it was like 2:30 in the morning? but he never texted back today. did the last thing i say make it sound like i didn't want him?? i'm freaking out...
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Chill :)
your only freaking out because you like him and dont want him to be mad or anything.
simply text him and be like 'hey you never text back the other night lol'
You guys are obviously close so that wont be weird or anything to him.
If he doesnt text back to THAT immediately, dont freak out he may be busy.
That could also lead to a conversation maybe to something good :)
godd luck
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okay so ive been like best friends with this kid dylan for a while and he recently told me he liked me and and i said i liked him to cause i always have.
so like when we walk in the hallway he usually puts his arm around me.like around my shoulders.
and i ususally just keep walking not doing anything but i feel like i should be doing something yaknow?
so like next time he does that should i put my arm around his waist? or maybe lean my head closer on his shoulder? or maybe do something else. ahh help! (link)
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around his waist for sure.
the head thing can be a bit too much/maybe weird (i dont know your whole situation so its hard to say) but you cant go wrong with putting your arm around him also
=]
some guys do that to me and its kindof automatic that i do it back. however, I have the problem of walking right. haha
good luck anyway
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well i have this best friend and hes so great! i really want him to like me more than a friend but i dont know why! i kinda think i like him but im not sure. i dont know if i just want him to like me because i crave guy attention or because i like him. i just know hes just what i look for in a guy. but his family is also my familys best friends so i would be very apprehensive of dating because what about when we broke up???? AWKWARD!! his family comes over all the time and he and i are best friends and i would be afraid things would end badly. Anyway! back to the main point: how can i know if i want him to like me because i like him or because i crave guy attention or what? i would rather date a guy like him whos family isnt so close to mine but i dont know any as good as him. please help! i keep debating this and im so confused!! just tell me what you think and how to figure out if i like him because i know you cant tell me if i like him or not but you can help! thanks!!! :)
ps i got jealous because hes been talking to my bff (who lives really far away so i kno they wont ever date or anything but still) because i want him to be interested in ME (link)
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well....:)
do you feel like this about every guy?
cuz if you do it could just be the attention
but it could be hard to tell because not every guy is your best friend.
its like comparing apples and oranges in size when there two different fruits, you get me?
heres what you could do...try flirting with another guy, and get him to like you. if your satisfied with that then you know you just wanted the attention.
heres what you DONT want to do...flirt with him, and get him to like you, then realize it was just the attention and totally shut him down. then he'll feel like hes been played.
you could get him to where he flirts with you back, and then if you realize it was just the attention, slowly go back to just being friends.
if you need to find out if he likes you or not, flirt with someone else, and see if you get a reaction. like if he gets jelous or anything, you know he likes you and it could go somewhere.
and about the whole family break up awkward thing-it doesnt have to be. if you did happen to go out and break up you dont have to break up badly, you could agree to still be friends and go back to how it was before.
hope i helped!!
p.s. (from past experiences....ive come to find that guys i hang around with alot-i thought i might have liked them, but it ended up i just wanted there attention in the end)
good luck!
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Hi, My name is Racquel and Im 14. Ever since i was little i would always be made fun of. I never actually heard the rumours of what was going on, but people always seemed to hate me the next day. In grade 3, the girls would always spy on me and make fun of me. In grade 6 i actually had the courage to go to a teacher and tell them what was going on, because in grade 6 the girls were still doing that, spreading rumours and what not, the principal didn't help much. My parents were fighting and they split up so i went to live with my mom, and i switched schools in grade 7. This time is where it hit me that hardest with everyone in my grade at school. Some girl, spread a rumour about me, not sure what it was, but everyone believe it. They also thought i was weird, but i have no idea why anyone would think that, but absolutely no one would talk to me after that. I think it was just because i was misunderstood. I was really shy when i was in grade school so i wouldnt talk much. Now, im in grade 9 and these past experiences have always been bugging me. I want to learn how to just forget about them so i wont be angry or sad about these experiences anymore. Girls from grade 8 til now still bug me, and spread rumours about me. They call me there friend even if they do things like that, and they get mad when i dont hang out with them and i hang out with my boyfriend's friends. I just want to learn how to deal the past and now and not be sad all the time anymore. Do you think you could help me?
Thanks,
Racquel (link)
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well first i want to start by saying i know how you feel.
people use to pick on me and when i remember it it brings me down, but now im quite popular, i have an amazing boyfriend, and a good life.
i still think about past experiences, but there not so "in the past" if you know what i mean. and they can still bring you down.
all you need to do is tell urself that it IS in the past. if people wanna talk let them, there word mean nothing. true friends would talk to you about these rumors, if there still making them.
you have a boyfriend, so your obviously likeable :)
your doing the right thing by not hanging out with the people who talk about you, and thats probably what there saying about you "shes pretending to be our friend but she doesnt hang out with us" you know.
you have nothing to be sad about though. it is all in the past, and you have to be in that mind set like "im me, im strong, im likeable"
like boasting to youself.
it makes you feel more confident, thats what i do.
so the next time you feel sad, just remind yourself that. and think about the present and how your life is good now.
i really hope i helped you.
xxxxx
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There are voices inside my head. What can i do? (link)
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that all depends on what there saying really.
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ok my bf suggested we try anal sex, because it can't get me pregnant and we don't really have a way of getting condoms. has anyone on here tried it before? how bad does it actually hurt? can i damage anything inside of me? (link)
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yes it hurts.
you can still get pregnant because of leaks.
you can rip your anus
you can get STD's(not that he has any) and other diseases from it(even if he doesnt have any, not sexually related)
anal sex is very unhealthy.
definitely consider it alot.
if you need anything else write me
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okay so im 15....
and
pregnant! i just found out...
yes i know i am very young to be pregnant.
i will be 16 in 2 months.
so please dont write about how im too young and blah blah blah...i already know....dont need to hear it more. thank you.
anyways....today i was on the laptop and my dad was next to me and i was looking at abortion pictures and saying how horrible it was. and my dad was like so if you got pregnant you would keep it? and i said YES I COULD NEVER KILL A BABY! and then we had this whole argument on how its not a baby at a certain amount of weeks and whatever...so i showed him an article on how they get nerves at 4 weeks so they do feel it and he was like I DONT CARE ID DRAG YOU DOWN TO THE CLINC AND MAKE YOU GET ONE! i just kept saying you cant make me..
REMEMBER....HE DOES NOT KNOW IM PREGNANT!
also when he found out my mom was pregnant with my little brother he yelled and screamed at her and dropped her off at the clinc..she sat there for HOURS crying...finally went in but they said she was too far along to get one...thank god.
so my dad is capable of having the heart to leave me at a clinc.
how do i tell him im pregnant without going through that? im keeping the baby, im still with the father and he is staying with me so i have help.
when i tell my dad should i immediately tell him abortion is out of the question?
can he really force me into an abortion? thats my right though isnt it? its not like since im under 18 he could make it get it by law right?
either way i need to tell him soon because i want this baby to be healthy so regular checkups to the OBGYN and getting put on healthy stuff is needed asap.
i live in florida if that helps?
thank you. (link)
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have you told your mother?
shed understand because shes been through it and knows the feeling of what its like to lose a baby, even though she didnt in the end.
im not sure if by law or anything, but i dont think he can make you. it is the mothers decision i think.
if you havent told your mom tell her first and talk to her baout how you'd tell your dad. if anything, she can help argue your point.
tell him its your decision and you think its wrong to kill a baby, and tell him you'd be depressed afterwards, which will happen, what father would want that for their daughter?!?
best of luck! write me if you need anything.
xxx
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Hey, i'm 13 and I weigh 178 pounds and i'm 5'2, people say I don't look like it, but I do. I've played almost every sport you can name, soccer, volleyball, and basketball. My stomach looks ok, but its just my legs and thighs. I have alot of friends and stuff, but when they joke around about my weight and I get depressed. Especially when my brother jokes on me. I love excersising, but my also overweight mom always doesn't "feel like" taking me to the gym. I also try to eat healthy, but she stops me from it. I eathier eat what she brings home (Macdonald's, KFC, ect.) or I eat nothing scince there's never anything in the fridge. I tried dangerous ways, but I don't have the gag reflex which sucks. What do I do? (link)
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you need to talk to your mom. if shes any mom at all, shed care about you and your health. tell her how you feel about how people make fun of you, and how it'd be better for both of you if you ate healthier.
you're something different. you like to excercise and eat healthy. thats good!!
you could also tell your mom that you'd like to do the grocery shopping, and learn (if you dont know how already) to make healthier meals for both of you.
good luck!
xxx
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In track and field when you use cleats can you use them for long jump? I mean like the sand doesn't bother them ? (link)
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no sand wont do anything to cleats. i use them for cross country and my friends use them for track and field. they can make you not slide on sand...depends on the sand. but it really shouldnt affect anything.
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My iPOD won't play any of my songs...it was for a while and then all of a sudden it just skipped from song to song and won't play. It's happened before and my friend did something to fix it..but it's break and he's not around so I don't know how to fix it...does anyone know what to do? (link)
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wow...person below not helping. dont get a new ipod! not yet anyway! bloody hell! if its still responding its still alive somehow. try resetting it. turn the hold on and off then hold down the menu and centre button until you see an apple on your screen. if it still doesnt work after that, it might be the songs that are the problem. if they play in itunes, its probable not that. but if re-setting it doesnt work i have other solutions so tell me if that works and keep me posted
good luck. i know how frustrating it can be to have ipod problems, especially when you need music as much as i do =b
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Ok so im 13 and i have the most amazing boyfriend ever its been a little more than 3 months now!
We havent kissed yet. Ive never kissed anyone and I know for a fact he hasnt either. I really want to kiss him i like him so much.
so I understand these questions sound wierd but please help!
1:How do i give him the hint i want to kiss him?
2:where do i put my hands!
3:what way do i tilt my head?
4:how long do we kiss?
5:open or close my eyes?
Please help me i really like him
Thank you so much in advance!
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1. look at him for a long time and get close to him. dont stop looking at him, maybe look at his lips. you might have to make the first move since hes never kissed anyone before he may be nervous.
2. put your hands round his neck or on his chest, he should put his on your waste.
3. dont tilt too much. just work with him, if he tilts slightly to the left, you tilt right.
4. as long as you want. theres no set time for kissing? but a realy "kiss" is longer than...like 10 seconds lol
5. CLOSE EYES!!! i hate guys who dont close there eyes lol but definitely close yours!! dont get into the habit of not closing them because then its just awkward!
hope i helped some
xxx
good luck hunni
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Okay so I had NO IDEA what to get my boyfriend of almost a year for Christmas. But he's really religious, so i got him a little $10 woven braclet with a cross (its not girly, or anything. haha). But, he keeps dropping hints that he's getting me some really expensive jewelry. Should i get him something more?
My dad said guys dont take that personally. They just think its the thought that counts, and he wont mind at all. But, I still feel really bad about it. Do you think i should spend a little more?
thank you for ANY help.
xoxo. (:
ps. he's not materialistic at ALLLL. just fyi. (link)
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maybe just get him something small like...a hat or shirt
and if you have a bit more money...cologne or a jacket. bells has cologne on sale =b
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People laugh in my face when i say that being a kid isnt as easy as you think it is. Yes theyre the ones with all the bills and taxes, but we have to deal with all of their problems: for example devorce. Grades. Gossip. Teachers. Caring if what your wearing out of the house one day will make you cool. I know they were one kids themselves too, but they weren't kids in the 21st century. I mean, if you dont have the right phone, you not consisdered cool. I just need to know people have my back on this. We have to deal with everything they throw on us. They take advantage of the fact that they do everything, like "I worked my tail off" then when i say "So did i" they laugh in my face. being a kid (im 14) isnt that easy!!!!
I just need to know someone has my back on this
xoxo
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AHHH I TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU!!
its completley different being a kid now that "back then"
they can never understand...
:)
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im 13/f. im straigt but i always look up porn on the interrnet and love looking at naked girls. but im not a lesbian. im not even bi. but why do i like looking at it so much. like i get wet when i even think about it. i dont know why!
help!
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your 13...its probably just hormones. everyone goes through a phase when they question their sexuality. your young and it'll pass...and if it doesn't, theres nothing wrong with being bi or lesbian. :)
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My daughter has a my space account that someone changed her password and she has not been able to get on it in 2-3 weeks. we have written my space several times and have not recieved a response. She doen't want to create a new account because she will lose all of account information. What should we do? (link)
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you click forgot my password and it will send it to your e-mail. then log in and change it asap. if you didnt use a valid e-mail account, then your pretty much stuck unless you can use a friends and right to tom or something
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This is really werid but I really need some advice. When I play sports I dont sweat under my armpits but I sweat really bad on my back down to my butt (mostly my butt). The problem is that I have basketball now and I sweat very easily and I dont want to get up from the bench after playing and have a disgusting wet butt. That is why I mostly wear black shorts when I play sports (but the uniformed basketball shorts are a light blue). This is a truly embarrasing problem. PLEASE SOMEONE HELP! (link)
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you could put talk or corn starch in the places you sweat. ive heard it works for people, and my friends dad works in a kitchen and gets rashes in his butt if he doesnt put corn starch in there =b lol
but thats an alternative :)
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Hey. well, the last night i was talking to my boyfriend on the phone and we decided to hang out tomorrow (November 14th.) and he asked me to go uptown with him, and then back to his house.
I really, really want to becuase I really like him alot. The thing is, i'm not gunna lie, i have no experience.
Chances are going to his house will lead to stuff like him fingering me adn stuff.
I know this is really embarassing and gross and stuff but like i don't know what to do while he does it.
i mean like, is he gunna leave my pants on and just go down them, or take them completely off? and when he's fingering me do i look at him?! or do i like makeout with him while he's doing it?!
i need help becuase i really like him and want this to go smoothly, i don';t want to embarass myself. please help, i do rate. (link)
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i hope this gets to you in time! no dont look at him! what is she telling you oh my gee...that could be awkward...pants dont always come completely off, and probably wont. sometimes you can make out with him depends how hes positioned. thats all i need to tell you. but dont just be like blah, he wants to feel like your enjoying it. it didnt hurt the first time i got fingered, but it might if your not wet. lube can fix that if its available
good luck xxx
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