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Q: okay. my school has alot of guys that think of sex ALL DAY LONG. every school does. well i was wondering why arent they scared? why am i so scared? i want to have sex but way to scared of anything to happen. does it hurt? need help with this!
if you've never done it before, being scared is totally normal. i promise.
it's something different than what you're used to.
just make sure you can really trust the person and they really have the same feelings for you.
sex does hurt girls for the first time.
but not so much after that.

Q: I have a new skirt that I love dearly. It's a sort of pencil skirt with a slit in the back. I was getting out of my car and I suppose I bent a strange way and the slit tore a lot farther up than it's supposed to be...

Just curious, is this fixable - I can't sew, but if I brought it somewhere would they fix it for me? Any ideas where I could go and the price. It's a black skirt and I got it at Maurices...

We have a Hancock's fabric about 20 minutes away but I don't know if they fix things or if they just sell fabric... any ideas?
well, first, Hancock's Fabric does not do repairs or alterations or anything like that.
they just sell sewing necessities.
but you could just take it to a seamtress.
it sounds fixable to me.
if you don't have one around you,
you could also take it to the dry cleaners and see if they would do it, more then likely they could
or you could ask them if they know of a good one maybe in the next city over or something that you could take it to. :]

Q: so i am 15f and i get car sick REALLY easily...which is inconvienient because i am on a regional volleyball team in Arizona,and i have to travel by bus ALOT...I dont know what to do! Is there a pill i can take...that maybe doesnt make me tired? (even if it will make me tired...ill take anything) Please Help!!!
thanks
i know what you mean,
my family drives a lot and me and my mother both get car sick real easy.
but there is a pill you can get over the counter from a regular drug store.
it's called Bonine.
it's chewable [[ really nasty flavor, sorry ]],
but it doesn't make you drowsy or anything.
i hope this helps :]

Q: http://i167.photobucket.com/albums/u140/bumarse/eyeliner.jpg

The Pic above...
How can I do my eyeliner like that girl has...
I mean I'm not a stupid 10 year old asking how to USE eyeliner..
I've just been trying but can't achieve those eyes :(

So generally...just how to do that :)

Thanks.
i do this all the time,
it's not hard at all. :]
first you put eyeliner on the top of your bottom lid and then a thin line underneath your bottom lash line.
and then you do the same thing to the top.
when you're finished with both eyes, just smudge the eyeliner on the top lid up and the eyeliner on the bottom down with your finger.
you might need to put on more eyeliner afterward,
it depends on what you like.
and the reason i tell you to smude after is so you don't have the eyeliner on your fingers and you won't get it on your face.

Q: http://img2.timeinc.net/people/i/2006/celebdatabase/jenniferaniston/jennifer_aniston300x400.jpg


how do i get my hair like this? its not really the color i just like the waves because whenever i try that with my curler it comes out curly and i want it more wavy. thankss.
well you could use really big curlers and blow dry damp hair in them
or a really big curling iron and run your fingers through it afterward [[ for both options ]]
and i'd recommend thermasilk hairspray
it holds really well
hope this helps :]

Q: well a few minutes ago my mom went to go get a mri and she came back with the results and something was weird on her neck and i jokingly said it was throat cancer and she said and what if i found out it as and i said i would be on top of the world because i meant it as oh wow im smart you know like wow what a guess. but she took it thge wrong way and then i relized what i had said wrong and now she wont talk to me or do anytihng for me n she said you don't want me as a mother and don't ever say that again i said i was sorry and what i meant but she is acting like she hates me what can i do for her to stop hateing me
you could sit her down and tell her what you really meant.
then explain to her how much you really didn't mean it and how much that would hurt you
if anything like that were to happen to her.
give her some hugs. :]

Q: Anybody know where to get black lace tights/leggings? I know it's vague, so I'm open to all different sorts of suggestions :).

TIA
you could go to HotTopic, Forever 21, JCPenny, DEB, even WalMart has them.
there's a ton of stores that do.
it just depends on what stores are near you. :]

Q: i want to post a blog with pictures in it
but after i uploaded the picture on photobucket
none on the links seem too work
how do i put pictures in a blog then?
and dont tell me tinypic cause i just resized and uploaded 36 pictures(:
haha
go to www.tinypic.com
upload your picture
copy the URL code
and then paste it into the quotes of
this code ------>

Q: whats normal within the first month or so of pregnancy, whats too early or too late? just wondering...
well divorces effect everyone differently.
my parents have been divorced since ive been
about 6 or so and they fought ALL OF THE TIME.
and since the divorce i think things have been a lot better, id rather see my father a lot less then have my parents fighting and everyone unhappy and pissed off all the time.
so maybe it could turn out for the better.
you could try talking to your parents about it.
i was too young to so im not exactly suer how that would turn out.
but they should know how you feel about it and what you can do to make it work.
i hope ive helped a little.
anymore questions feel free to ask. :]

Q: I want to take the test to be certified as a lifeguard. I only want to spend 1 day or 1 week doing this, not like a whole month, and I don't want to pay alot. Is this possible? and where can I get information and stuff. I tried googling it but it was hard and I didn't understand anything. Thank you soo much.

I'm also 14, turning 15 in 3 weeks.
you could try calling your towns community center
or public pool and maybe talk to the life guards there.
i think different towns might have different age standards for that. im not totally sure.
sometimes schools would have information like that too.
my friend did a lifeguarding program through my school. she took classes there and it took a couple weeks.
but thats about all i know about that.
i really hoped i helped.
if theres anything else..dont hesitate to ask. :]








you could try. i mean one week shouldnt be that big of a deal. they should let you do it.
but thats my opinion.
if they dont let you i guess the only other option is to wait a week, then do the course and by the end of it, youll be 15.

Q: Hi. before i start I want to say thanks. :) If your a guy answering this then all I want to know is if you think I'll be too skinny so thats it unattractive after you read the info. Ok so for the summer Im trying to lose weight and get in good shape. Im normal, meaning im not skinnny and im not fat. I'm a girl, 14 and 5'7 and 138 pounds. I'm a size 7 in jeans and by the end of the summer I want to be a size 3 or 5? Which would be better considering my height? Would I be too skinny a 3? Would I be normal a 5? What is the average weight for a person 5'7 that is a size 5? I want to lose about 1.5 lbs per week. I have 10 weeks of vaca so 1.5 x 10 is 15 lbs. Whats a good plan of exercise that I could do everyday to lose 1.5 lbs in 7days ? srry for it being long. Thanks.
well normal body weight for a girl 5' 7"
is about 125
but being a size 3 - 5 at your height is fine
im 5' 7" and im under that weight
and i get told i look healthy
and you can do just basic exercises like
crunches, lifting weights etc.
on top of eating a lot of fruits and veggies
and also yogurt and drinking water more than anything
i hope ive helped..anymore questions get at me on myspace :]

Q: My computer speaker is making this weird noise.
It's a mixture of clicking and static.
Anybody know what it is and how to make it stop?
It's driving me more than insane!
that usually happens when you have a cell phone around the television

Q: Where can i find the script/lyrics to the "Can i have your number" skit?
Thanks.

ohh and google searching it didnt work.
www.letssingit.com

Q: I wanted to try a tampon so my sister got me two tampons form her friends but i forgot how to use it and don't want to bother her.

Like I know you stick it up but I don't know if you do an angle and if there's something you're supposed to pull out.

Someone told me to read the box (which I don't have) because it really helps? but i don't have one so if you got one cna you please scan it or if you can find it in the internet for me?

thanks, If I get it, you know what rate you get.
hmm well..
to put it simply..
sit comfortably [[ or stand..which ever you prefer ]]
with your leg spread and put it in
pointing to your lower back
and when you need to change
pull the string and repeat :]

Q: okay so on myspace sometimes people have like a word that starts with the same letter as their name like...
SALLY;SWEETHEART orr
KAYLEE KALAMITY
can anyone think of some for bailey =]]
Bailey Brutality™

Q: okay, i'm looking for a DEAD honest answer. and i promise i will rate you really high if you do truly give me your honest answer & back it up.

i have a guyfriend, 'z' & i just got his sn like yesterday and we started talking last night. i guess you could say we're 'friends.' but i'm not really sure. def. not close enough for me to tell him who i like. well, i really want my crush (s) 's sn. well 's' i'm pretty sure likes me, but i can't just ask 's' straight up what his sn is. so i was thinking of maybe 'z' could put me a chatroom with him. but idk if i can trust 'z' enough. should i just ask, 'hey, z, do you have s's screen name?" wouldn't that be super awkward? wouldn't 'z' know that i like 's'?

please help! & don't just say, "JUST ASK HIM! WHAT COULD HURT?" tell me WHY i should ask 'z' what s's sn is.
hmm..
next time you talk to 'z'
just talk to him for a little bit like you did that night
and then "casually" bring up 's'
and ask for his screen name
what could it hurt?

Q: me 16/ bf 17

well me and my boyfriend have been to dying to have sex for a while, but we don't know when we should. and i'm afraid to get pregnant and he's afraid of getting me that way.

we have protection, but does it really help? would we have nothing to worry about if we did use it?

and without protection, when would be the absolute best time to have sex without getting me pregnant?

thanks in advance.

note: i don't want ppl saying we shouldn't do it. i know we probably shouldn't, but it's our choice.
the only time you really should do it
is if youre ready
and yes your right is it your choice
so if youre ready then by all means
no one can really tell you not to
but usually you wont get pregnant if you use a condom
and theres always birth control
there isnt really a good time or a bad time to do it
just when you want to basically

Q: For our adviventor site,
can we get a layout?
If so,
How.
find a picture you like
upload it to tinypic.com
and copy and paste the URL into the
"background image" box :]

Q: http://i78.photobucket.com/albums/j115/jackiebendeth/angelsis8.jpg



if you know what this pic is from, please tell me
those are the Victoria's Secret angels [[ top models for Victoria's Secret ]]

bio
BrenaBopps
My birth certificate states that my name is Sabrena.
I have been breathing for sixteen years and
I've been told that i give good advice by friends..so i figured, why not help other people too?
I get along with most anyone.
So ask me anything. :]
You can space me or Aim me too by the way.


and i have the most amazing boyfriend Davey.
Just so you all know. aha

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