okay, i'm looking for a DEAD honest answer. and i promise i will rate you really high if you do truly give me your honest answer & back it up.
i have a guyfriend, 'z' & i just got his sn like yesterday and we started talking last night. i guess you could say we're 'friends.' but i'm not really sure. def. not close enough for me to tell him who i like. well, i really want my crush (s) 's sn. well 's' i'm pretty sure likes me, but i can't just ask 's' straight up what his sn is. so i was thinking of maybe 'z' could put me a chatroom with him. but idk if i can trust 'z' enough. should i just ask, 'hey, z, do you have s's screen name?" wouldn't that be super awkward? wouldn't 'z' know that i like 's'?
please help! & don't just say, "JUST ASK HIM! WHAT COULD HURT?" tell me WHY i should ask 'z' what s's sn is.
Additional info, added Thursday June 7 2007, 3:42 pm: Z is actually kinda popular, so i can't just ask him for S's sn like some of you suggested... and i don't wanna risk that he will find out that i like S and tell S or worse, other people. please help?. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? SomeoneSpecial answered Thursday June 7 2007, 1:21 pm: ok i am being honest when i say that is you are friends enough to talk and talk then you shoudl be able to ask him. one day talk to him say like yes school was so gay...can you belive what s did today then say ineed to talk to him and make fun of something he did and then say do you havee his sn so i can talk to him about it. hope i helped...is this helps even more i did exactky this and now we talk and we both like eachother but we are not going out. <><Alli [ SomeoneSpecial's advice column | Ask SomeoneSpecial A Question ]
BrenaBopps answered Wednesday June 6 2007, 4:46 pm: hmm..
next time you talk to 'z'
just talk to him for a little bit like you did that night
and then "casually" bring up 's'
and ask for his screen name
what could it hurt? [ BrenaBopps's advice column | Ask BrenaBopps A Question ]
pree011 answered Wednesday June 6 2007, 4:18 pm: Honestly i think that you should tell him little harmless things and see if he can keep them a secret and if he can then ask him and no im not going to say what could it hurt because that doesn't help at all trust me well the reason you should ask 'z'is because you must really lyk this guy i see that you really wanna talk to him so be a go getta and get what you want that helps in life [ pree011's advice column | Ask pree011 A Question ]
sizzlinmandolin answered Wednesday June 6 2007, 4:05 pm: Well, if you like 's' and you want to date him sometime, 'z' is going to find out that you like 's' eventually, as is everyone else when you start dating. If you want it to be less awkward, make up some sort of reason why you would need to talk to 's'. A homework question, a joke that he told that you can't remember the punch line to that you thought was really funny and you wanted to use, a rumor that you wanted to confirm or disprove...just basically something that 'z' couldn't answer for you. It doesn't matter if you actually talk to 's' about it or not. It's just a way to make asking 'z' for (s)'s sn a little easier. Good luck. :) [ sizzlinmandolin's advice column | Ask sizzlinmandolin A Question ]
darkXhearted676 answered Wednesday June 6 2007, 4:01 pm: just ask him for it i say. if he would start a chat room hed probly think u like S because if you said 'can you start a chat room with me and S' if hes smart he should know you like S he probly will. so ask him for S's s/n i always ask people for other people s/n it doesnt matter at all before i asked my best friend(a guy) for all the guys s/n's and some particular he didnt notice. but if you ask him to start a chatroom hee would know. or one day your both on ask him what S's s/n is you need to ask him something. he wont find out. everyone knows me and my best friend liked eachother although we never went out. i told my other guy friend i liked my bestfriend and to casually drop hints and if he flat out tould him he would regret it, hehe so nice. but i ended up telling my friend i liked him then he told me he liked me. if thats enough reason ask for the s/n if not ill add more ikf i can think of any more. [ darkXhearted676's advice column | Ask darkXhearted676 A Question ]
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