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Q: Does this peom sound to lovey dovey? (be honset)

will be there for you
When you fall
When you cry
When you think life has no meaning

Where ever I am
Where ever you are
Who ever you are with
Who ever I am with
I will still think of you

I will protect you
I will help you
I always have your back
Because you are my friend,

I love you forever…


i wrote this to my best friend that i know for 8 years and i like her more than a friend.
i told that i had feelings for her. and she said she not ready for a realtionship right now and she not sure what gender she is intersed into.
but my guy friend called me and that he told her how he felt about her. he said that he like her but wants to be friends. she reasponed "well Tammy played a song for me that is repeteing over my head about friends" (im tammy) well i try to remember what song i played for her.....but i never played a song for her. i wrote that poem for her after i told her how i felt about her. was she qouating the peom? is she repeteing that over and over her head????
if you have to ask another person then in your heart you know that the answer is yes you are just in denial

Q: I really like this guy in my class. We’ve had awesome convos on AIM, but barely anything more. Yesterday,at recess, I was sitting with my bff and his ex-gf who is my frend. then him and his frend came over and were talking. We played a little truth or dare, but didnt really do anything. Then we all had to say who we would go out with in the class. Only my bff answered. THen, later, he past me a note saying “u never answered the question at recess” i looked at him and sed “so? i dont hav 2 tell u” and shoved the note back at him. i hate how i handle situations like that. anyway, my bff sed “maybe he likes u” which i doubted because im not skinny or pretty or anything to talk about… so then i was like “neither did u” and he shrugd and sed “i was about to”
today, he totally ignored me.
i feel really bad about being so cold. I never let anyone in because a few ppl asked me out then sed “jk”… this guy is really, well, wanted. hes had so many gfs. iv never had a bf. sm1 else sed he liked me last yr but i thought he was kidding, so i was really mean until a month later wen he was with sm1 else, my bff told me that he had told her he really liked me. GEEEZ
i think i ruined it with this guy. what can i do to show him i care about him>?
I can tell you from experience that you should IM him and tell him that you are sorry for being a jerk and answer his question

Q: okay, i'm looking for a DEAD honest answer. and i promise i will rate you really high if you do truly give me your honest answer & back it up.

i have a guyfriend, 'z' & i just got his sn like yesterday and we started talking last night. i guess you could say we're 'friends.' but i'm not really sure. def. not close enough for me to tell him who i like. well, i really want my crush (s) 's sn. well 's' i'm pretty sure likes me, but i can't just ask 's' straight up what his sn is. so i was thinking of maybe 'z' could put me a chatroom with him. but idk if i can trust 'z' enough. should i just ask, 'hey, z, do you have s's screen name?" wouldn't that be super awkward? wouldn't 'z' know that i like 's'?

please help! & don't just say, "JUST ASK HIM! WHAT COULD HURT?" tell me WHY i should ask 'z' what s's sn is.
Honestly i think that you should tell him little harmless things and see if he can keep them a secret and if he can then ask him and no im not going to say what could it hurt because that doesn't help at all trust me well the reason you should ask 'z'is because you must really lyk this guy i see that you really wanna talk to him so be a go getta and get what you want that helps in life

Q: what does it mean if your feces is green? like a dark green. i havent been eating differently or anything. its just green??
it doesn't mean anything

Q: how do you curl your hair?!
my hair is super thick and blonde,but my curls are always tight ringlets or just a tangled mess..
i just want simple curls!! how do you do that?
well i am the same way becuse my hair is very thick
Step1: wash and blow-dry your hair
Step2:after its nice and completly dry flat iron your hair
Step3:Take at most a big curling iron and just curl it over

Step4: enjoy:)

Q: Well I am kinda seeing someone long distance ( havent really made it offical) but it has been iffy since he hasnt come to my town yet.( we live 2 hrs apartWell Last week I was mentioned online to everyone what I wanted to go out on the lake for memorial Day and whoever wanted to come was invited. I was shocked hearing from him saying that he might come up for it since he was going to only be an hour away that day. I was not going to get my hopes up till that day just in case there was any cancellations on his part. Well He showed up at the right time and went creek hopping ( hiking along the creek) all day. I found it quite funny because he had never been there but was up to going on up ahead to make the trail and rocks were safe enough for the rest of us to get across. We sorta made him our guide that in reality never been there. later After I took everyone else home we went out to eat and then walked down my main st. Showed him my high school and stuff like that. we talked forever and he even took my hand which I thought was funny. Then I took him back to his car and we ended up talking for 3 hours (well mostly talking).about everything To government(which I never really talk about) to childhood memories. one point we were talking about goals in life. he asked me what I wanted to do with my life. I am still not completely sure. which is what I said. and he said kinda jokingly I could always come and keep him company in Sacramento. I just laughed out loud and said “funny" and then later on he made the comment again little bit more serious adding" Like I said before you can always come stay with me.. there are lots of job opportunities up there and my rent is only this much etc. To let him be at ease I told him I would keep him in mind. I don’t know if I were to do something like that. I never lived with anyone besides my own family. Plus I don’t know if he would be able to handle the kind of relationship I want. I am the kind of person waiting for marriage if you know what I mean.( my own personal standards not religious standards) And I think it would drive him nuts that I wouldn’t be wanting to go that far because it is only a one bedroom apt. He doesn’t know about my standards which I know I need to discuss with him before he make suggestions like that before he can handle it. The next time I am going to see him is next week at the club we met him at for my friend's birthday. found it quite funny before because my friend told me before when I was a little hurt by him to not tell him about her birthday thing at the club. So I didn’t. But one of the first things she tells him to come to her party at the club. I was sitting right there too. it made me scratch my head like "what??" I asked that to her tonight, and she said " Oh I got over that after he made the effort to come up here and plus I invited him for you" and my friend is not young either. she is 36 but great fun to be around. Just makes me wonder some time. So if he does bring it up again( like at the party) How do you think is the best way to put it? it is a tricky topic to discuss don’t you think? please help me
im not going to go into detail like most ppl do im just going to keep it real;

The next time he asks you just say that i wouldn't mind staying with you i just have standards i would really like to wait until im married before we do "you know" since you have a one bedroom apt. you can see that i have a reason to explain this to you and keep the conversation going from there.

Q: me and my boyfriend were talking and he said that him and his ex gf had a scare where she was pregnant.. She wasn't but they got that scare so they had to take a test for her. Anyways he said "we thought she was pregnant but that was before we had sex" He said its possible to get pregnant wtihout really having sex. Am I really confused can someone help me out please.
how would she be preganant if they hadn't had sex the only way she could get pregnant without him having sex with her is like if he was masterbating and then fingerrdd her or something or if she was having sex w/ someone else so u shouldn't be confused he's the one thats confused

Q: 15 f
ok so me and my bf were so great. everything was perfect. we were together for 9 months. so suddently he started being mean to me. like calling me corney or just like wheneevr i asked him something he wouldnt want to tell me. like if i would ask him what are you doing? he would say "something". that would just get annoying. so i was really depressed and i asked him if he wanted a break and he sed no. and i sed i do. and he said ok. and then he put a smily face. this was all through aim. why would he put a smily?. and i asked him why he put a smily and he sed idk. i told him it was jsut a break for a while and he sed ok as long as its for a while. so my best friend has classes with him and she asked him if he wanted to get backtogether and he sed no.i was so sad. and he doesnt have his cell anymore and he barely goes online and i dont go to the same school as he does. also, my other friend was telling me about some girl he used to like. she used to cut herself for him. that made me feel worse. i dont know what to do anymore. i really miss him and cant contact him i wanted to hang out with him this saturday. what should i do? is it too soon the breakup was 2 days ago and we havent talked since. thanks. i rate!
When you do get a hold of him tell him how you feel but don't go with alot of different boys because that only makes it worse don't make yourself obsessed with him and i always thought that corney was supposed to be a playful word i don't think that he ws trying to be mean by sayin' that

Q: 13/f
ok well there is this popular girl in the 7th grade lets call her erin. well we went on a field trip today and after we went to dairy queen and then one of my best guy friends lets call him billy got his hand stuck in this mailbox thing and i tried to get it out and erin passed by and was like ok you guys stop flirting and holding hands and i was thinking wtf and i walked away so she went out the door and there was a bunch of 6th and 7th graders sitting out there and then erin was like omg you guys samantha (lets call myself that) and billy are going out and they were laughing and stuff i heard from inside then one of my BFF's came inside and was like omg samantha your going out with billy and all that stuff and i told her no and every1's coming up to me and asking me that and i DO NOT like billy, not now nor everr and im soo sick of it this girl erin starts so much shit i hate her soooo effin much and i wanna get even, i DONT CARE if its wrong and its the end of the school year i wanna do something to get her back, she has a boyfriend if that helps thanks guyss
don't hurt her is all i have to say is don't get her back because it think that is what she wants and she is just jealous of wut ever

Q: have you ever been cheated on or anything to do with cheating?

I just have a small situation. My friend Sam cheated on her bf Allan with my bf's best friend and his brother. She made out with both of the guys and gave on of them head. Her bf allan is good friends with me and my bf and we decided we should tell him-- so we did the next day.

Sam and I weren't completely good friends but we were close somewhat. But if he did this to her, I would probably tell her too. So she's pissed and she has all my friends against me. Even my bffl. But i know i did the rite thing. All this time, past 2 weeks I've been there for Allan; even pickig him up at midnite because he was so depressed and taking him 2 parties to help him get his mind off her. And she does everything she can like for example- she cuts hereself- for attention. Allan and her are supposed to talk 2morrow and i want to kick her ass so bad but I'm not going to be there.

there's only one lil thing that i messed up on. at the party i told her to go for--to cheat. and when i told my bffl the story i admitted i told her to go for it.....and allan doesnt kno that. i told him i never said that and he believes me. but now sam and kayla my best friend have this against but my bf was there but will tell alan that it never happened, but im still afraid he'll beloieve her. he want to be with her but knows he shouldn't.

what do u think i should do now? kayla keeps telling me to back off when sam from the beggining said she was gonna break up with him.kayla and sam never even liked each other? everyone feels sorry for her because all she does it cry and they give me stuff like "you have no idea how much she has been thru" blah blah when this is all for attention and i'm not stupid.

now i really don't know what do or even say?

All i can say is that you did the right thing for the most part and don't worry about her b/cuz she shouldn't have done it in the first place and she brought that on herself

Q: 15/f
aight so like there are a lot of things going on in my life right now that i really need advice on so if you have even just a lilttle input that would be awesome. I have 2 problems((this could be long))

Anywho...((friend problem)) me and my best friend are like really close but sometimes she gets annoying. Like she tries to flirt with guys and they'll be nice nice to her n stuff, but then they will like totally talk behind her back and say shes annyoing n stuff. Also a lot of other girls say shes annyoing and they dont want to be friends with her. This girl is like one of my closest friends ever and i cannot justr stop being friends with her and i dont want to! She gets mad over little things and gets her feelings hurt easily so i have no idea what to do!!!
((boy problem))
so me and this one guy have had like a thing goin on for a lil while. But we arent and havent been going out. He is known for being a player and i know not to trust him but i like him a lot. I cant stop my feelings! Its not i get to choose them. Im obviously not the only girl in his life but hes the only guy in mine :(
Please dont tell me there are are "other fish in the sea and whatever because there is like no one good at my school. All the guys just want sex and they dont care about your feelings like your not even a person. I know im about to get screwed over(for like the millionth time) but i cant let go of him i donno what to do!!

I dont feel happy with myself anymore like nothing is going right for me and i know it souds lkie im just sitting here feeling sorry for myself but theres nothing for me to be happy for anymore!! i hate it.

friend problem
Well on this subject let me stop actin old an let me tell you
If you are her friend her good friend it is there problem that they don't want to be her friend not yours because you are your own person and they are not your masters so if she did something wrong to you then that gives you a reason not to like her and if you loose friends over that then tha jux means that they were never truly your friend and if se gets offended easily jux don't tell her things that will offend her

Boy Problem
Been through it cant help you going through it i need advice on that subject too sorry plz don't give me low scores for that one

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i love pink and purple i am curently on the step team i love to help ppl i am a real ppl person i love love to shop i wont give advice when i really don't have the answer i am a pisces so i don't take mess i don't let ppl influence my opinion so some ppl say that makes me a bitch but i am not going to cuss you out if i don't agree with you

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