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im lost...
15/f
aight so like there are a lot of things going on in my life right now that i really need advice on so if you have even just a lilttle input that would be awesome. I have 2 problems((this could be long))
Anywho...((friend problem)) me and my best friend are like really close but sometimes she gets annoying. Like she tries to flirt with guys and they'll be nice nice to her n stuff, but then they will like totally talk behind her back and say shes annyoing n stuff. Also a lot of other girls say shes annyoing and they dont want to be friends with her. This girl is like one of my closest friends ever and i cannot justr stop being friends with her and i dont want to! She gets mad over little things and gets her feelings hurt easily so i have no idea what to do!!!
((boy problem))
so me and this one guy have had like a thing goin on for a lil while. But we arent and havent been going out. He is known for being a player and i know not to trust him but i like him a lot. I cant stop my feelings! Its not i get to choose them. Im obviously not the only girl in his life but hes the only guy in mine :(
Please dont tell me there are are "other fish in the sea and whatever because there is like no one good at my school. All the guys just want sex and they dont care about your feelings like your not even a person. I know im about to get screwed over(for like the millionth time) but i cant let go of him i donno what to do!!
I dont feel happy with myself anymore like nothing is going right for me and i know it souds lkie im just sitting here feeling sorry for myself but theres nothing for me to be happy for anymore!! i hate it.
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friend problem
Well on this subject let me stop actin old an let me tell you
If you are her friend her good friend it is there problem that they don't want to be her friend not yours because you are your own person and they are not your masters so if she did something wrong to you then that gives you a reason not to like her and if you loose friends over that then tha jux means that they were never truly your friend and if se gets offended easily jux don't tell her things that will offend her
Boy Problem
Been through it cant help you going through it i need advice on that subject too sorry plz don't give me low scores for that one
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friend problem :: i know exactly how you feel but you shouldnt care what others think about it...i know it seems hard but it sound shallow if you just stop being friends with her because other people dont accept it. maybe just try talking to her about calming down w/ guys and stuff but i'd suggest not to be mean about it just explain to her how to hang out with others in a more relaxed way.
boy problem :: it sounds stupid but there are other guys..if you dont let go of him soon, eventually you're going to get hurt.
as for everything else...its summer! turn off the computer and take a jog around the neighborhood or call some friends to hang out at the park or pool!
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Well for your friend problem...ino it sounds si ple but you shud just talk to her. I know u said her feeling urt easily but your only being a good friend by telling her. If she is a good friend to you..she will listen to you :)
As for the boy..it sounds like you like him alot and most people would just tell you to leave him alone because he's a player..which is a good idea but obv u dont want to do that. So if i were you i would just go with the flow for abit..like flirt with him ect. but dont get to serious and dont show him your that bothered about him! You never know..he might realise that he likes you alot more than the other girls ;) Good Luck x x x
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