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Boy Troubles
I really like this guy in my class. We’ve had awesome convos on AIM, but barely anything more. Yesterday,at recess, I was sitting with my bff and his ex-gf who is my frend. then him and his frend came over and were talking. We played a little truth or dare, but didnt really do anything. Then we all had to say who we would go out with in the class. Only my bff answered. THen, later, he past me a note saying “u never answered the question at recess” i looked at him and sed “so? i dont hav 2 tell u” and shoved the note back at him. i hate how i handle situations like that. anyway, my bff sed “maybe he likes u” which i doubted because im not skinny or pretty or anything to talk about… so then i was like “neither did u” and he shrugd and sed “i was about to”
today, he totally ignored me.
i feel really bad about being so cold. I never let anyone in because a few ppl asked me out then sed “jk”… this guy is really, well, wanted. hes had so many gfs. iv never had a bf. sm1 else sed he liked me last yr but i thought he was kidding, so i was really mean until a month later wen he was with sm1 else, my bff told me that he had told her he really liked me. GEEEZ
i think i ruined it with this guy. what can i do to show him i care about him>?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
One thing you can do would be to answer the question, and tell him that he's the answer. Then, tell him you were sorry about the way you handled the note, and that it was because he makes you nervous.
Yes, this strategy opens you up for rejection. Love is about taking risks! Sure, your feelings for him are probably not as strong as "love", but the rules still apply.
Don't set yourself up for more regrets. Take a chance! It may pay off, and even if it doesn't, what have you really lost?
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Start being nicer to him & try letting him in. If he's told your friends & his friends that he likes you -- I doubt he's "just kidding." I know people can be mean, but that's no reason to shut everyone out. You end up missing out on dating & meeting really great people.
Try to let him in a little bit & if he denies your trust, then you can virtually slap me. But it's worth a shot. Let me know how it turns out.
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I can tell you from experience that you should IM him and tell him that you are sorry for being a jerk and answer his question
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