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breakup..im so sad
15 f
ok so me and my bf were so great. everything was perfect. we were together for 9 months. so suddently he started being mean to me. like calling me corney or just like wheneevr i asked him something he wouldnt want to tell me. like if i would ask him what are you doing? he would say "something". that would just get annoying. so i was really depressed and i asked him if he wanted a break and he sed no. and i sed i do. and he said ok. and then he put a smily face. this was all through aim. why would he put a smily?. and i asked him why he put a smily and he sed idk. i told him it was jsut a break for a while and he sed ok as long as its for a while. so my best friend has classes with him and she asked him if he wanted to get backtogether and he sed no.i was so sad. and he doesnt have his cell anymore and he barely goes online and i dont go to the same school as he does. also, my other friend was telling me about some girl he used to like. she used to cut herself for him. that made me feel worse. i dont know what to do anymore. i really miss him and cant contact him i wanted to hang out with him this saturday. what should i do? is it too soon the breakup was 2 days ago and we havent talked since. thanks. i rate!
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this jerk does not deserve your time. when youre sad, think about how he treated you. you dont deserve to be treated that way.
if he wanted to apologize, he would have called you. forget about him. he doesnt deserve you.
good luck!
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cant you call his house phone? first off.. dont have your friends ask him questions.. it puts pressure on guys and SOMETIMES they will just say whatever they want to make the friend go away. howeverr DO NOTT and i mean DO NOTT cut yourself! no guy is EVER worth pain or any other harm to yourself.. there are so many guys in this world its insane, so one guy isnt worth all that trouble. but if you want to hang out with him then just tell that girl to simply give him your number and ask that he call you to talk. if he doesnt call you then i honestly dont think hes worth any of the trouble because if he really likes you he will go through the trouble of being able to call you and work things out. so if he doesnt then i think you should take it as a learning experience.. and find someone else that will truly care about you(not saying he doesnt but you know)..dont let him know your upset about all of it. it might give him some satisfaction of knowing your hurt there are guys who are like that, epecially around your age. your young girlfriennn live it up (: be happy (:(:
just remember.. if your really that important to him he will do what he can to make you happy and make things work out, together. (:
best of luck my dear, and feel better.
let me know how it goes okay?!
l0veee alwayss-♥;
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I'm so sorry =[
It sounds like he was ready to end the relationship. Perhaps it was too difficult on him since you were going to different schools. He may have been afraid to break up because he didn't want to hurt you, so maybe that's why he put the smiley... because he was glad you did it so he didn't have to. Or maybe he put the smiley to show that he still wanted to be friends? I don't know. But anyway, since he told your friend that he didn't want to get back together, talking to him probably won't change things. I know you miss him, and breakups are never easy, but I would try to put him out of your mind and aim towards moving on. I know this doesn't help now, but in time you'll feel better and meet someone new.
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When you do get a hold of him tell him how you feel but don't go with alot of different boys because that only makes it worse don't make yourself obsessed with him and i always thought that corney was supposed to be a playful word i don't think that he ws trying to be mean by sayin' that
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