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my boyfriend and i fooled around for the first time back in april. now i havent been on my period since. he never "came" the whole night. but he did ATTEMPT to go in me twice, both barely went in cause it hurt to much. anyway.. i've been stressing out so much over maybe being pregnant. i havent been on my period since.. i've ALWAYS been irregular. my period never comes on time. i wanna see a doctor, to get this sorted out, but i dunno how to tell my mom about it. i highly doubt im pregnant.. i mean could i be just from that?
any ideas on what to do??
theres been no weight gain, im not craving food, i never get sick or anything, im not tired.. i feel as normal as always, but i just keep having that thought.. and i try not to stress out, but i do anyway.. how long can stress delay your period for?
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well girl i honestly doubt your pregnant.. but honestly depending how old you are and mature your mom thinks you are, telling her could be hard.
keep in mind, telling your mom you wanna go to the doctor and be put on birth control would be the RESPONSIBLE thing to do, and when/if you go to the doctor you can have your mom step out at any time.
be confindent and think responsible. okay?
trust me if you stress out, its just harder on you
good luck (:
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I need help! My best friend's birthday is tomorrow, and I don't know what to do with her! I started out thinking a movie, but she doesn't like movies (we don't hang out much, so I wanna do something WITH her) PLEASE HELP! (link)
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wake her up EXTREMELY early with balloons and what not, and take her to breakfast, then go shopping and buy her one thing she wants..
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the haircut that i have now makes my hair thin, cause of all the layers, but whenever its grown out, and its thick again ( my hair is naturally pretty thick..maybe a 6 on a scale of 1-10) would it stay straight longer if i had it long and had long layers..cause now my layers are short and choppy...but when its grown out will it stay straight longer since it will be thicker?
sorry if this is confusing
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i think it should stay just as straight either way, but you need to get a straightener and make sure you go over each piece of hair real good.
if it doesnt work then i guess you're right and maybe you should grow it long if you want to to stay straight (:
hope i helped!
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VERY VERY LONG. but you had to know that whole story.
ok so i went out with this guy. lets call him, jake. ok so i was crushing on jake. really hard. i mean like talking about how much i liked him. then he asked me out and i thought it was a dream.(this happened back in febuary) he asked me out on valinetins day. and im not big on that day. i dont like the 14th of febuary, until that moment. i had to pinch myself to see if it was real. but the problem was, im a mixed, select soccer playing, "beautiful" girl. as most people would say. but under that, i love emo, skater, and that kind of stuff. and thats what he was like. he is an artist, anda skater. and i liked him soooo much. then the next day i went to a dance. and the kind i went to wasnt his kind of dance. (everyone said he wasnt very good look but hew is soo sweet) and when i went there, there was a guy that 5 months before my friends said i had to ask him to go on a ride at the local fair. and i did. well later that night, i saw him and we made eye contact and i guess i got caught in the moment because i almost kissed him and i was like no this isnt righti have a boyfriend. and everyones like come on it is that bad. but it was my first kiss. and i walked away. then later it happened again and i kissed him that time. and i felt sooo bad. and i was scared someone was going to tell "jake" so i broke up with him a few days later. so he wouldnt hate me. then we were texting a that same day and he told me he liked me alot and how i broke his heart. but he didnt know how bad i was hurting. so we became friends. and now i like him. Alot. again. so we were texting the other night and it was 2 or 3 am. and he asked me out of now where all these questions about if we were going out. and i thought we was going to ask me out. but he didnt. then i asked him the next day and he said he has sleeping pills. and it crushed me and i said like ok then he said ya. i was like ya.... and he was like yyaaaa..... so now i want to know what all this means. does he like me, just toying with me, or what? (link)
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alright girl, personally dont waste your time with jake. i truly dont think you like him THAT much since you were able to make that type of connection with that boy you went on a ride with at the fair, and ended up kissing him the 2nd time it happened.. if you reallllly liked jake it wouldn't of be that easy to happen. you really need to think about your feelings here..
stay single for awhile.. if jake talks to you and you insist that you like him that much then take the time to REALLY talk to him when hes not on his meds, or in any other state of mind. okay?
theres plenty of boys out there girl friend (:
hope i helped.. sorry if i was being too honest, but sometimes we think we really like someone, yet truth is we dont and we try so hard to make something work that just cant.
anything else ask away (:
take care!
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okay. so heres the deal. for the past couple of years, my brother has just been going "down hill". About 2 years ago, my sister was visting and she found pot in my brothers room. He was punished for a while about it and then it was droped, well, i never believed that he had stopped even though he said that he did. So when he was gone i would go in his room, and find pot laying on the floor. He wasnt even trying to hide it anymore. Well i showed it to my dad and basically didnt do anything and everytime something is found he still doesnt. A couple of weaks ago i found some bottles of cough syrup and cough medicine that was all gone. He had been skipping school, quit his job and everything. Now my dad pays for his gas, and anything else he needs, where as i have to buy everything for myself. Up until yesterday, i would go in there and look for things, basically to try and get him in trouble and prove that he hasnt quit, and because im worried about him. Well yesterday, i went into his room, and underneath his chair i found paper bags and air freshener can, so i think he may be "huffing". But then i looked over and saw a notebook, I read some of what he had wrote, saying about the first time he used pot, and then he asked a girl out, they went out for like a week, and she broke up w/ him for no reason, he was crushed, and never told any of us. Thats when i read that he had started also using cocaine, stealing from my parents, his friends, the school, etc. I am scared for him and his life, he wants to do great things, and i dont want him to ruin his life. I havent told my parents, ill prob. tell my mom tonight, even though she cant do anything, because he doesnt live with her, but my dad, i just dont want him to seem like he doesnt care. please. someone. tell me what i should do. i love my brother, and im afraid that hes gonna end up dead.
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confront your brother, but try and just have a heart to heart, dont lecture him.. even if you have to make up a problem so that he can relate to you maybee..then he'll open up.. sounds to me like hes keeping feelings inside and his actions are begging for attention.. by your dad punishing him but then dropping it.. letting him quit his job and what not.. then paying for his gas, stuff like that just isnt going to help your brother learn or realize any type of responsibility.. hes just gunna think.. "shoot dad doesnt care after awhile" type thing..
whatever you do DONT tell him you found that stuff or his journal.. and if the heart to heart doesnt work, and he doesnt let his guard down to clue you in about some of this stuff.. then take the journal.. and any drugs you find and keep it, to show your dad..
but you need to sit down and tell your dad, that hes gotta help your brother out because hes gunna end up all messed up. more than he already is.
i dont doubt your brother has great potential.. and i only hope that he gets through this and it all works out.
good luck girl, let me know how it goes.
take care, and any help feel free to ask away (:
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Soo ive been dating this kid for the past 14 months.. We have been on and off but i think our relationhip is pretty strong.. Anywayz about a week ago i got caught smeakin over to his house for the night and his mom flipped out on me.. She completely cut me down and then kicked me out of her house.. Then she called my parents and told them that me and my boyfriend were on crack! Which is all lies. Since then my boyfriends mom took his car, threatned a restraining order againt me, tryin to get random drugs test on me and him, took his cell and pretty much isnt goin to let us see each other.. So now i cant relle see him and i barely talk to him and i feel liek things are falling apart.. He said he would do anyhting to fix out relationship... but is it relle worht it?
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girl your the only one whos going to know if its really worth it..always try no matter what until theres absolutely nothing left to do. i would have your parents, his parents, you and him all sit down and talk about it.
his mom is definitely over reacting, but your best bet is to sit down with your parents after dinner one night, and let them know "hey look, him and i want to keep seeing eachother, and i'm willing do whatever you guys want me to do to have that privilege earned back.." say something like "if it means only seeing him when you guys are home and we sit in the living room, thats fine." let them know you dont do drugs, and if it comes down to it then tell them they can randomly test you. let them know you realize you make a bad decision but you want to handle it all maturely and responsibly. then see what they say, and have them call his parents to arrange dinner or something at your house, so they can figure out what to do.
im real sorry you got caught, thats a bummer, but just give it some time, dont lose him over something like his mother lol, he'd be so bummed. lol. ahw.
i hope it all works out girl.
anything else please feel free to ask (:
hope i helped!
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16/f..My dad (47) lashes out at me for sometimes no reason or just the tiniest things. If something MINISCULE drops on the floor, he starts yelling at me, calling me a pig, an idiot..whatever. Today, I wore the wrong type of pants for my volunteer job...and he lashed out at me like never before, blaming me that he's gonna be late to work (when he wasn't even ready himself, he can't keep track of time and blames it on me at the last minute) and on the way there, he kept on mumbling to himself about what an idiot I was..what a bloodsucker I was...how I was a failure in life...And I just think it's completely irrational. If it was my sister's turn to walk the dog, he'd make ME do it...because he just wants to poke fun at it..the fact that I seemingly never do anything around the house. He controls what I eat and, unaware that I can contain myself, yells at me when I eat something extra or when I get a yogurt past 8 o'clock at night.
After all this yelling and screaming and driving me to tears and hysterical fits...he apologizes, acting like..oh, it was your fault..but I'm sorry I yelled at you. I'm sick of forgiving him and I hate him sometimes. I'm actually so used to his yelling everyday, that I'm beginning to hate him like forever. I know I COULD live without this stress...the nerves. He drives me up the wall with his screams. Only with HIM do I throw tantrums. I'm a very calm person and I can stay quiet for days. But he just makes me shout, yell and bawl my eyes out. He doesn't even respect the fact that I'm on a serious depressing medication (Accutane).
What can I do about this? Anyone who can relate? (link)
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alright girl, heres the deal, my dad is my best friend, my hero, and he is the same way with me.. he ALWAYS gives me the lecture about life and how it isnt always fun and how i make bad decisions.. but i'm about to be leaving and doing things on my own in the military. as much as it hurt me, i never let him know that he got to me. he didn't deserve the satisfaction to know he was getting through to me, and neither does your father. lucky for you, your mom sticks up for you sometimes.. mine NEVER did.. she would sit back and let it happen, and a lot of the times i got yelled at by him because of her.
i wanted to run away.. there was times i thought key word THOUGHT it was so bad that i'd rather be dead.. and one day i was wtf am i thinking.. this is my dad who simply tries to protect me, and who thinks hes getting to me by doing this, i'm done, he cant have this effect on me.
every parent handles their child differently.. but you know what..in the end, everything they did will make you the person you are, and one day you'll be like "dang he was such a jerk, but look how i turned out?" (:
my brother never and i mean NEVER gets in trouble for ANYTHING.. he got a ticket for not wearing a seatbelt, and i was the one driving (hes over 16, in CA the driver doesnt get the ticket) and guess who got the lecture? ME! because i should've reminded him.. uhm hes 16 its his own responsibility.. you know? my brothers been caught drinking.. he bought stuff online with my moms card and didnt tell her.. you name it.. but for me.. if i did those things i would've been punished like no other..and he just walks free.
my point is.. my parents know im doing something with my life, they know i have potential.. and my brother eh not so much. hes careless hes rude, you name it...so they push me around so much, becuase they want me to make something of myself.. they want me to reach my goals.. your parents do too. i promise.
they love you. really they do, and you know what you CANT choose your family, but you CAN choose how you're going to handle yourself and go about things they say and do. (:
be strong girl. let it go in one ear and out the other. sooner or later you'll be out doing good things for yourself with no parent constantly complaining. (:
you dad could have a lot of stress at work..parents too tend to take it out on us kids when things are getting tough at work, or with money, or bills you know?
i really hope i helped. (:
anything else please honestly, feel free to ask!
and as for the person below me.. honey that was a tad bit much about being neglected.. they give her a roof over her head, food on the table, shes got clothes on her back and education.
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you know those necklaces that are a simple circle of diamonds? and sometimes, they have three circles dangeling off of one another? well, i wanted to know, where can i got those necklaces? and what are they called? the real necklaces, haha. also the earings that go with it? ah, i wish i knew what they were called =/. thanks for any help (link)
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is it something like this?
http://www1.macys.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=301533&CategoryID=21247&LinkType=EverGreen
look at places like macys, kohls, target, mervyns... macys will probably be the most expensive place to go. i dunno how much you're wanting to spend.
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im fourteen female, and soo many people in my family have lived through or died of cancer, nineteen died that i know about. my mom thinks i have cancer but shes not freakin out or anything, is she just tryin to keep me calm. im leaving on vacation in two days and i really dont wana get it checked out before i leave so i worry about it all vacation, im going through alot, and when i go im getting checked out for bipolar, depression, restless leg syndrom,stomach problems notjustlilproblems and i say adhd but my mom says i dont but every possible thing leads up to it. plus im trying to help two of my best friends out their both suicideal n iv been through it everyone else is makin it worse, and iv been getting heartbroken by the same jerk so many times, we were bffs, and everyone i love dies when i get close to them D:
i just dont wana ruin my vacation, im loosing it i dont feel good at all so many things are happening to me and i cant even cry, i might sound stupid but i just wana go somewhere with my family if its the last time. sooo should i get checked out about cancer, its a very big mole that was a speck when i was a baby but it has grown so fing big and it looks cancerous?
but what else could i do for the rest of the stuff typed up there too? please help me on any of it or all. i refuse a phsycologist or any of thoes people. iv had a very hard life mainly the mental side of it. but i just wana live happy and forget all this, im also leaving alll my friends for highschool next year, i can be the friendliest person ever if im ina good modd but im such a botch if im not. please help me, i need many opinions (link)
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okay girl, bipolar, depression, RLS are NOT cancer.. so if thats what you're being tested for dont stress so much. theres medicines that you can take that help regulate all of that. As for the mole you have, truthfully, it could be cancerous, however those types of things can be removed and you'll be all better (:
Its good to know you're trying to be a great friend, but let your friends know, that no one/nothing is worth taking their own life. NOTHING AND NO ONE. honestly, life is hard at times, but everything happens for a reason and just know that everything too is okay in the end, if its not okay, is not the end. you can do it (:
as for any boy issues, girlfriend theres so many boys in the world (: (: your young and still have high school ahead of you, and truthfully live life to the fullest, have lots of friends (going to a new school= a fresh new start), enjoy yourself and be that friendly person you know you can be.
smiles are free so give them away (:
anything, feel free to ask me!
hope i helped you out. good luck and take care girl (:
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alright so far i've madeout and been felt up underneath the bra. i've been at this step for about a year and a couple monthes. i've been waiting to get fingered but im unsure because its really a big step to me. i'm dating this guy and we've dated before but then it didnt work out at the time.we've went out for about a month the first time and now this time its just about a month coming up. i was thinking about letting him finger me but i dont know. im just afraid of a few things. like what will people say? and what if hes bad at doing it because hes only did it with one other girl. im also afraid its gunna hurt. i dont know what to do while hes doing that to me lol. when you get fingered do they take off your pants or just go down them? please help me out with this. :]thankss (link)
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okay personally if your this worked up over it then chances are your not ready for it.. how long you've known him/been dating him, doesnt matter.. its when your comfortable and ready.. most people tend to think they are then they do it.. and later on feel weird about it that they wish they could take it back. if he cares enough about you hes not going to trip out about it, he'll be kind enough to wait, if not, hes not for you.
it truly shouldn't hurt that bad.. and in all honesty, hes your boyfriend, so if he doesnt it "bad" to you.. then tell him as hes doing what to fix.. like i said if your ready for it you'll be comfortable enough to tell him and he wont care. another thing, dont worry about other people.. they always talk but in reality it comes down to just you and your man.
alright hope i helped (:
good luck girl. (:
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is blow job considered as cheating? doesnt that depend on a couple's thinking? it isnt the same for everyone...but i mean in general, would it be cheating? (link)
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it may depend on the couple, but truly cheating is cheating.. a kiss is cheating, and having sex is cheating.. as well as everything in between is well, cheating. no excuses for me (:
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so i like this guy 4 bout 2 years now...we talk lots on my space we play games like truth or dare but we keep um short at times we talk every day at least once hes so slow but cute hes smart but i mean he acts slow...hes real shy when we talk in person hes always smilin like an idiot y?
does he like me or wah? im not sure how 2 tell him that i like him i also shy bout him and crap..so if you help me out ill realy apreciate it! give me some ideas bout how i can find out how he feels bout me or how i can tell him i like him...:/
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look at it this way.. whats the worst that could really happen? that he doesnt like you back? well yeah that would be a bummer, but guess who'd be the one working up the nerve to find out? YOU! and you can do it (: just hang out in person more not so much talking on myspace.. its hard to be yourself around people you dont spend a whole lot of time in person with.. but one day just ask him in PERSON and just be like "so question.. how do you feel about me.. just curious" and see what he says.. then you'll know. if you cant work up the nerve to ask him in person (which is understandable lol (:) then when you play you're truth or dare game you ask him like that.. but i'm assuming you play that over myspace correct? thats a way to ask him and still find out its just not as personal.
orrrr when you guys are having a random conversation.. talk about like past relationships, or what you look for in a boyfriend/girlfriend.. and then tell him.. be like "you know i've had a crush on you..i do have a crush on you lol" and if some reason he just doesnt feel the same then be like "no its cool, honestly, we're good at just being friends now that i think about it" that way he thinks its cool to still talk to you and he wont have to worry about whether or not he might be leading you on.. you know what i mean?
good luck girl. i hope i helped (:
ask away if you need anything else!
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Well my ex - boyfriend like broke up with me a few months ago and his friend told me tht he hated me and i didnt do anything to him and i dont believe his friend . uhm well i think i may be starting to like him again but i dont know if i should like talk to him becuz it'll be pretty weird so i dont know wht to do but i really wanna be friends with him . (link)
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well before you start deciding whether or not you have feelings.. i would call him up and be like "dude whats this i hear about you hating me.." and then just tell him "look i didnt do anything.. i just want to be cool with you and be friends at least.." and see how he reacts.. it is hard for people to be friends once they broke up.. it depends on the reasons why it ended.. and what not.
good luck girl. (: hope i helped
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Im 18 he's 22 and my bosses son.
When were together were constntly flirting, but neither of us have ever mentioned how we feel, i know i like him and im sure he likes me. The problem is he's leaving town to start his new job as of monday. Tomorow i'm going to see him before he leaves so i can say goodbye and all.
All my friends all telling me i should kiss him when i tell him goodbye.
Should I?
Nothing big... dont wanna pounce on him.lol
I also dont want to leave things feeling wierd...
WHAT DO I DO?
PLZ ANSWER FAST! TAHNKS (link)
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personally kiss him on the cheek as he goes to give you a hug bye. then see what his reaction is. if he wants to kiss you too then he'll know he can since you went for the cheek.. its sort of a hint. worked for me, i'll keep my fingers crossed for youu (:
take care girl (:
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ok so there's this boy i really like and he knows i like him. he's a real quiet boy. like he wont talk 2 me unless i say somethin 2 him but he talks my bro and my sis, like if my sis sends him a text message or a message on myspace he answers but when i do it he dont answer back. and im to shy and nervous 2 talk 2 him. we dont really talk so it'll be kinda weird if i call him so wat do i do??? (link)
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okay girl, personally, since he knows you like him and he may not feel the same way back so he doesnt really want to lead you on. and he may think by talking to you as in responding to your messages and texts could make you think hes into you. Dont call, dont message, dont text. if your brother and sisters talk to him its cool, dont tell them anymore about liking him..just keep your feelings to yourself for the time being to see if maybe that may make him come around and talk to you. if he still doesnt come around.. then forget it. theres a ton of boys in this world that wont be all quiet. besides its rude of him to not respond to you, but to your sisters.
hang in there girl (: hope i helped!
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So I have a really great boyfriend, like he's amazing, very cute,sweet and everything.
Just that whenever we cuddle on the couch, he always places his band under my shirt, and just plays with my stomach rubs it, and jiggles it and stuff.
He says stuff like "Ah, you're little belly is so cute."
But I feel weird, because I'm not chubby or anything, quite average, but I do have a tiny bit of a tummy. And he's skelatal.
It just makes me akward, but since he likes to I won't stop him, I just don't know why he likes it so much. (link)
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yeah my boyfriend does it too. i cant stand it because not only is it weird to me, but i'm so ticklish and he does it to try and tickle me.
i just told him i dont like it, but not being rude, i said it like in a funny tone, so he laughed and was like "im sorry love lol"
its allll better (:
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i dont think this goes under this catigory
anyways
whats the diff betwenn shaving and waxing and hair removal
which is that best
i use hair removal because i heard that shaving makes hair gro thicker
is this true cause hair removal is kinda time consuming
could you give me the positves and negitives of each
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i've done all three several times.
shaving, personally is the best way for when you shave your arms (i'm not sure where your from but here in cali we do it lol) your legs and armpits.. and the reason why is, after awhile the hair removal just doesnt make your legs and stuff smooth enough. The creams are good for your other body parts like back face. Waxing, will work for awhile, but it just makes you sore for a few days and then after you do it for awhile you end up getting ingrown hairs and black heads or like little zits. So creams or shaving is the best way, shaving it does grow thicker but it doesnt continue to constantly grow, it doesnt end up like REALLY thick thats real gross.
just my thoughts. take care girl (:
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So, my best friend about 6 months ago moved down to her dad's house.
But she still visits her mom. Which when she does, we planned to hang out.
But when she first moved, she didn't even tell me. I found out from a teacher at school. And she talked to me on myspace, called me, etc. like everything was normal. And then I confronted her about her moving. And she just said "Sorry, I meant to tell you." =/ But I forgave her for that. But she came down to her mom's this weekend. She promised to call me and to hang out. And my friend, Hannah (also her friend), started telling me about the amazing weekend her and Haley (my "best friend") had and how I should have been there. O.o Which is what we planned at first. But I never got the call. And lately she's been telling me she's going to visit and call me, but she never does. I've canceled plans once thinking we were going to hang out, but she never called.
And it's not only that she's not keeping to her word, it's that I feel we are growing apart. And I still at least want to stay friends with her, but I don't know how. Should I try talking to her? Or just forget about it? =/ (link)
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Well girl, either shes afraid to hurt your feelings and she just makes plans with you to make you think you guys are still close (trying to make it easier for herself that is..) OR she just keeps you around enough so when she gets sick of hanging with hannah or any of her new friends she can come to you knowing that your just waiting there for her. Go out and hang with the girls who wont let you down. Cause honey that isnt a best friend if isnt honest with you. A true friend will always be there be completely honest, help you in any situation no matter how far apart you are.
when i was younger, my "best friend" from elementary school (who i thought was gunna be my best friend forever) was only my friend til freshman year of high school. She started flaking on me, always said she could hang out but then never called me back like an hour before the plans we made, so i basically would wait. And the minute she was hanging out with other people when she said she was gunna hang out with me, i knew she was no longer a true friend. And it was so hard to find new friends, yet alone a best friend. I now have several good girl friends, and a best friend as guy friend. My ex best friend still calls but its random and like months apart, but i never count on her. If she wants to hang with me she will call me. i dont EVER rely on her.
Enjoy your life, make amazing friends, and party it up because you only live once, and you "best friend" is holding back alittle bit.
good luckkk. cheer up, you to me seem like a true friend and i know that because you cancelled plans for ones that she flaked out on in the end.
take care, hope i helped (:
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OK this guy has dumped me but still wants to remain friends. We text back and forth like everyday and both of us has remained single since we broke up. He says he wants to still think about it and we broke up like two months ago. Is there any hope of the two of us getting back together? (link)
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well i honestly think they person you should ask is him. if you both discuss why you broke up to begin with, maybe change a few things then yes its quite likely that you'd get back together. but it takes work from the two of you so make sure he wants it as bad as you may want it too.
good luckkk, hope it all works out (:
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I'm 19 female. Do you still get that clear stuff in your underwear if you are pregnant? My stomache has been acting very weird lately. I do take birth control and my boyfriend who I live with generally uses a condom or pulls out, but like I said only generally. I'm just a little worried and good prego tests are expensive I think. (link)
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the clear stuff comes any time, and your stomach may feel weird because your worrying. Worrying/stressing can even cause your period to take even longer and then you'll REALLY stress out. Try and change the generally to all the time, that way you save yourself from this being worried. Its going to be on your mind and before you know it you'll think you have the symtoms, trust me i did it to my self for 3 months and didnt have my period until 6 months after i started to worry myself. It was horrible.
hope everything works out. and you know what, go by a cheap test, it may help you convice yourself that your not and kinda help you forget about it.
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