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Always touching my stomach
So I have a really great boyfriend, like he's amazing, very cute,sweet and everything.
Just that whenever we cuddle on the couch, he always places his band under my shirt, and just plays with my stomach rubs it, and jiggles it and stuff.
He says stuff like "Ah, you're little belly is so cute."
But I feel weird, because I'm not chubby or anything, quite average, but I do have a tiny bit of a tummy. And he's skelatal.
It just makes me akward, but since he likes to I won't stop him, I just don't know why he likes it so much.
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my boyfriend does this to me too. and he's skinny like your boyfriend sounds. it doesn't bother me much, and if he says your tummy is cute, maybe he just likes it? guys are fascinated by our females bodies, since they feel like their bodies have to be perfect.
you might just hint that you dont like it by moving around or turning over or just simply moving his hand when it moves in that direction.
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Ok.
One of the most absolute basic classifications that differs women from men is hard vs soft.
Think about the idealized images. Men with hard bodies and women with soft curves.
When he touches your stomach, he is enjoying the feminine-ness inherent in you being softer than he is. Hes not thinking that you're fat, hes loving the fact that he gets to touch some part of you. I do it to my girlfriend too even though we've been together 3 years. Its fun sometimes to just be able to touch the girl you're with, just because shes there and shes soft, and we guys love that.
Also, most guys dont want a stick. Down the hall from me is a guy named Johnny. Johnny's girlfriend probably outweighs him by 25 lbs . Theyre the same height and hes skinny as hell (shes not overweight, shes probably about 130-135 and 5'7). He loves her because shes got genuine curves so when hes with her its not like rubbing two sticks together.
He thinks you're sexy. And hes enjoying it.
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omg same here! well not really. i always hook up with this one guy that dik we have like a little thing together but were not dateing or anything but everytime we hook up he always rubs my stomach and he like cant take his hands off it. it makes me feel so uncomfertable cuz i feel like i cant move becasue if i do i feel really fat. and i constintly have to suck it in. well hahahah sry i didn't answer your question but i can relate.
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He just likes your tummy- it's just his thing. :)
You feel awkward because you find flaws in your tummy. He obviously doesn't see flaws in it.
ygs-29/f
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Hun if your man loves your body, thats the only persons opinion that should matter to you besides your own. This should make you feel beautiful. Think about this. He cares about you for you and he likes your body too. Also, he is being very respectful to you, assuming he is only satisfying one of his desires (to tickle your belly). Smile, relax, accept and enjoy that you have a good man who thinks you are great and your body too.
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yeah my boyfriend does it too. i cant stand it because not only is it weird to me, but i'm so ticklish and he does it to try and tickle me.
i just told him i dont like it, but not being rude, i said it like in a funny tone, so he laughed and was like "im sorry love lol"
its allll better (:
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try talking to him and ask him why, and then tell
him how you feel about it my bf does the same its
really weird and it sort of makes me feel insecure
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