Member Since: August 28, 2007
Answers: 23
Last Update: July 19, 2008
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my mom grounded me for having sex...im 16...wtf...i can do what i want, im almost an adult...sex doesnt have to be about love...how can i make my mom get me out of the house, i want to continue having sex and doing fun shit while i still can...*jer* (link)
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ew i know my moms kinda the same way
when i was in 7th grade i got grounded for a month for getting a hicky on my neck..what a bitch right
but if you think your mature enough and responsible to have sex then thats your decition (i cant spell that) not hers
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me and my boyfriend have had sex like 5 times and i havent told my mom but she wants to take me to the gyno just to get on birth controll. if ur under the age of 18 do the gynos tell your parents if ur not a virgin? (link)
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well if your moms taking you to get birth control she most likely already knows and theres also no reason to tell her if shes already getting you b.c so if she found out she wouldnt be mad...
but anyway no they dont tell your parents
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16/f
hey so i have been hooking up with this guy for a couple weeks, who is alot more experenced than me, hes has fingered me a couple times and i know i should give him a hand job, im ready and everything just a little nervous. Do you think i should tell him i have never gave a hand job before or just go for it and hope for the best haha. Thanks 4 your advice in advance!!! (link)
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i actually think you shouldnt tell him causethats kinda weird and he might be turned off by that
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Ok, so for one, i think i know how to give blow job, but please give me something on how to so i know for sure.
and 2, for people that have done it, isnt it kinda weird and disgusting? what do you do if the guy cums while its in your mouth?!?!?!
please just give me all you knw about blowjobs. Thank you! (link)
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hey okay yeah i've done it before and its totaly different then what you expect. it doesnt taste bad but it will if he finshes. it kinda feels weird in your mouth at first but you'll get used to it. its really not that bad
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((15/f))okay so there is this guy named christian, hes a senior and im a sophomore. we have liked eachother b4 and we started a realtionsip....kinda sorta....it was "complicated" and then one day he decided that it would be better if we stayed friends. so i went out with another guy for two months. i went out with him at first cause i really liked him, but then i realized that i was thinking more about christian then my current boyfriend. so i used him to get christian jelouse.....follow me? well i recently found out that he likes me back, and i really like him. and we got close over the break when we went paintballing with a bunch of people. he like held me when iw as cold and he flirted with me ALOT. i feel like it was my fault that the realtionship ended last time, so i dont know if i want to do anything about it this time. hes going off to college in state, but i can't help but wonder if i should see what we could be. what should i do? (link)
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well he obv likes and since you ended it last time i think you should talk to his about your relationship and say how you have feelings for him again and im pretty sure things will work out. you guys sound really cute together!
hope i helped =D
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So I have a really great boyfriend, like he's amazing, very cute,sweet and everything.
Just that whenever we cuddle on the couch, he always places his band under my shirt, and just plays with my stomach rubs it, and jiggles it and stuff.
He says stuff like "Ah, you're little belly is so cute."
But I feel weird, because I'm not chubby or anything, quite average, but I do have a tiny bit of a tummy. And he's skelatal.
It just makes me akward, but since he likes to I won't stop him, I just don't know why he likes it so much. (link)
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omg same here! well not really. i always hook up with this one guy that dik we have like a little thing together but were not dateing or anything but everytime we hook up he always rubs my stomach and he like cant take his hands off it. it makes me feel so uncomfertable cuz i feel like i cant move becasue if i do i feel really fat. and i constintly have to suck it in. well hahahah sry i didn't answer your question but i can relate.
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16/m
ive been hookin up with my bestfriend and im starting to become really into her.so i need some songs (guys singing!) about being into her or starting to like her. and how i cant tell her.. so far the only song i have is why dont you and i by santana.. thanks! please gimme some (link)
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kay coming from a girl, the whole song thing is cute and all but hun dont do it. its pretty corny. write her a letter or better yet tell her to her face. try to stay away from aim or texting. sorry but just tryin to help!!
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i been dating this girl named mariah thomas going on 7 months and we are really serious we are both juniors at the same highschool we have all the same classes except for 6th hour i take graphic arts and she takes home ec ... why is it when ever im around her i feel as though im floating and for some strange reason i lose my breath and get light headed and lose my balence but it only happens when im with her whats wrong with me (link)
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omg thats the cutest thing i've heard in a long time! your probably in love
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has anyone had one before?
do they hurt?
what kind do you get...?
like has anyone had all of it taken off and how much does it hurt and what do they do?
is it like worth it?
i try to shave but i can never seem to get off all the hair like it is always prickly and there are red bumps. any tips?
whats better shaving or waxing?
THANKS (link)
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well i've never had a wax before but i hear its hurts like a bitch. if your going to go get one then take an ib profen an hour before. that will reduce the pain. i've been shaving for a while now and yeah those bumps are sooooo annoying. you can get cream and like shave gel for that tho. good luck!
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what is the chance you could get pregnant if you have sex with a boy who is not wearing a condom but you are on birth control (link)
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seriously dont listen to this other advise. its crap. i know a lot of people people who thought they were safe because they were on birth control and they ended up with a baby. your never safe so all im saying is to use both. i know mutipul girls who were useing both and still got pregnat. just dont be stupid. always remember that you can never be to safe.
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I smoked weed about 6 weeks ago and today I took a drug test. It was my first time to ever do it. Do you think it's still in my system or not? I have a fast metabolism and I drink a lot of water, I heard that makes it get out faster. Thanks. (link)
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nope! its not in your system after a mounth. so youll be fine =]
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Ok this is going to be kind of long because I'm going to sort of rant. But anyway all my life I've gone to a Catholic School and my family is like really religous and filled with good wholesome morals. I was raised and taught to be the same my whole life and up until now I haven't hesistated at all to play the "good girl".
But lately, I don't know what happened to me. I've taken a complete 180 degree turn and I'm sort of ashamed at who I've become. I'm sixteen and about to go in my senior year of high school. I've been drinking like a LOT and partying. I've been sneaking out, lying to my parents and everyone around me. I never go where I tell my parents I go, and usually end up driving out of town in the middle of the night (which I'm not allowed to do AT all) and sleeping at my boyfriends house, and with people I really don't even know. Now I started smoking cigarettes and been smoking those a LOT. (about 7-8 a day) and now I'm also starting to smoke like weed too. To top it off, my parents are HUGE on abstinence and I just set up an appoinment at a clinic to go on birth control.
It seems like I'm losing who I was, and I'm not strong enough to stay the way I was.
Too be honest, I'm really scared. I mean I love doing what I do, but at the same time I'm scared of how much I changed and the kind of person I'm becoming. I'm doing things that I always used to be against, and if my parents ever found out they'd literally disown me. Also, my religion prohibits all these activites and I'm also scared of how quickly my religous and moral being are deteroriating.
I don't really know what advice I'm asking, but am I like a "bad kid"? I do keep my grades really high in school and plan on attending a high rate college, but I feel like thats not enough. Basically, I'm just really scared. So any help would be appreciated I guess... (link)
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okay wow! well im arielle and yeah i party aLOT too. but im in 8th grade. your a senior so honestly i think its deff okay for you to party. its your last year as a kid so you should enjoy it and forget everything and just have fun. now if you dont feel good about what you do then i just advice you to tone it down a little. yeah smokeing weed is straght. but cigs=baddd. theres no ponit of them, there gay. anyway before you have sex with your bf make sure your ready. dotn get cought up in all these partying and forget your morals. your parents raised you to make good decitions so dont do anything you think youll regret when your older. and you might want to chill and your sneaking out cuz your parent might be catching on so you need to gain there trust. keep up your grades.yeah i think its fine if you tell your parents that your sleeping at your friends house cuz i do that all the time and they never find out! just be careful and dont do anything youll regret.
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ok i have some random questions that just popped up..
if you smoke weed while your hair is wet does it stay in more than if it was dry?
how many hits do you need to have before you get high?
how different do you act. like in what way?
is it like being drunk?
i have done weed 3 times and i still dont know these things. haha thanks (link)
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well, hey im arielle. ive never heard of that hair thing and i dont know what you mean by it but what ever. and about the hits part, it really depends on what your smokeing and what your smokeing out of. if your smokeing out of a bong then its not very many cuz you got a lot of smoke. yeah when your high your really chill. personaly i get the worst case of the giggles. i seriously can NOT stop laughing. um yeah you get amused by anything and you can have fun like sitting or walking.!! fun shit!
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My brothers leaving me. He joined the army and left yesturday. He's leaving.. and I can't stop him. When I was growing I always got in fights with my Mother and I'd almost always go to bed hungry and late at night he would come in with Odles and Noodles or some icecream to me feel better. And we'd always talk and he promissed me he would never leave me its dumb because it happened when I was 9 but I still remember and he broke it.. and Instead of hugging him and saying how much i love him and miss him already I reminded him and yelled at him, and he left anyway. And im soo afraid that he's going die and Id never be able to tell him how much I love him. I don't want that to happen... I cry constantly now I actually havent stopped, and everyones trying to confrort me while greaving themselves, and theyre ashamed of me. MY OWN BROTHER and I leave him the last time i may ever be able ot see him calling him a liar and running away. Why am I such a bitch and attention craving? And why can't I stop crying Im gunna like go back to school and be brought to the Guidance Conselour or something dumb. I dont want him too leave it isnt far. (link)
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hey im arielle. my brother is 17 and when he turns 18 he wants to leave for the marines. it really suck cuz i actully think hes gunna. hes always been my best friend. i understand what your going though. i cant really answer your question but just know that your not alone. you just have to hang in there and be strong. you have to suck it up and be there for your family becasue they need you. feel free to talk to me if you need to talk.
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Hi my names Alysha and im from nz, i have a cousin name arielle who lived in boston america i have lost contact since my uncle has come back to new zealand and was wondering if you knew of her as there are many arielles on this site? If u do wuld u be able to reply me? (link)
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no sorry i dont. i dont live in boston. sorry i couldnt help you
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Okay my boyfriend is in 8th grade & im in ninth so we never see each other & all his 8th grade friends hate me with a passion (there girls). when i try to talk to him after school i feel like we are so distant! like he notices me & talks to me but it doesnt last long at all & i never see him as it is. confronting this with him made it a little better but its still going on like he doesnt understand ! how can i fix the distance thing. (link)
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seriously i think you guys should break up. he prolly lost interest in you. and your in 9th grade you can do better then an 8th grader.
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I was hanging out with my friend, and I saw this really hot guy who worked at the place we were at. She helped me get his number. After we left she kept making me go back with her, and like talk to him, and I felt like I was giving him the impression I was obsessed with him. But how long should I wait to call him? And when I do call him, how do I start a conversation? And lastly, how can I call him more times after the first time, without things being awkward? (link)
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yeah if you call him it will be VERY akward. texting is so much easyer. and txting is not akward at all.
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Ok, so I'm a shy guy right... Well, there is this girl I like and she likes me back.. I just don't know how to ask her out without looking like a moron.. Cause me talking to girls is like trying to find a needle in hay stack.. DIFFICULT. And I just don't wanna freeze up or get really nervous trying to ask her out.. Is there anything I can do to prevent this??
Thanks in advance. (link)
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okay so my best advice to you is to txt her. its so much easyer to get things out in a text. just start a conversation for a while. dont come right out and say it. and do that for a couple of day and ask her how she feels about you and things like that.
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im very good about keeping my room clean, except when i have friends over. we make a big mess and i know im suppose to clean up whatever im done with, but i dont want to when friends are over.
i dont mind cleaning it myself, but i was just wondering if anyone had any ideas on making cleaning my room more fun. or go faster.
i usually listen to music or something. and i get done after a few songs. and i sometimes watch t.v. and on commercials clean as much as i can.
so, if you have any more ideas, let me know please!
and sorry for such a dumb question. (link)
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im makein cookies
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I heard today that if you put rubbing alcohol on a pimple that it will clear it up. Is that true, because I don't want to try it and start breaking out? (link)
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i love that stuff.its so yummy
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