Ok, so I'm a shy guy right... Well, there is this girl I like and she likes me back.. I just don't know how to ask her out without looking like a moron.. Cause me talking to girls is like trying to find a needle in hay stack.. DIFFICULT. And I just don't wanna freeze up or get really nervous trying to ask her out.. Is there anything I can do to prevent this??
memoriesxforeverx answered Friday August 10 2007, 8:38 pm: Aww, haha i can imagine how difficult that probably could be. Just be yourself, and it should all fall into place. Also if you think about it, its a little easier since you know she likes you already. Just take deep breaths, and relax, and talk to her and then at the right time which you will find ask her calmly and cool. like "hey, um i was wandering do you want to go out with me sometime?" or something like that. Also its better to do it soon but when you are ready, and not just let her go.
good luck and hope i helped out :] [ memoriesxforeverx's advice column | Ask memoriesxforeverx A Question ]
Asiancooki answered Thursday August 9 2007, 6:02 pm: okay alls you have to do is just i/m her fone her so its not as hard and u wont look like a moron if u messs up you will sound like opn:] [ Asiancooki's advice column | Ask Asiancooki A Question ]
makexyourmove answered Thursday August 9 2007, 5:08 pm: hahaha. you sound like this guy i know. he's one of my bestfriends. he calls me at ridiculous hours, &asks me things like this all the time. this is what i say;
BREATH. be yourself, act casual. start up a little conversation. esp if you know she likes you too, don't think about it. just go for it. think of her as "one of the guys" &just talk! don't be to extremely cocky though ;] you never know what'll happen.
madem answered Thursday August 9 2007, 4:21 pm: Firstly, you need to make sure you BREATHE! Take things slowly, so you don't go gushing out lots of words all at the same time.
Just be calm, be yourself, and ask her out! At the end of the day, you like her, she likes you, she's probably going to say yes. And the worst she can say? That would be no...but then you can move on and find someone else :)
solidadvice4teens answered Thursday August 9 2007, 4:13 pm: It doesn't need to be difficult. You know that she likes you back so she isn't going to say no to you. The thing is she is probably just waiting for you to make a move so she doesn't.
She is in the same situation as you are hoping the other person will notice and act on their feelings. All you have to do is say "We've been friends for a long time and I know you feel the same way as I do let's try a relationship and see what happens."
Just blurt it out without even thinking about it next time you see her. It's not hard and shouldn't be unless you make it hard for yourself. Just say it as you'll get what you are looking for and the truth out. [ solidadvice4teens's advice column | Ask solidadvice4teens A Question ]
2tammy2 answered Thursday August 9 2007, 4:10 pm: ok i find it really cute when a guy stutters and is all nervous when he asks her out, way sexier than if there all confident, and confident is ok but cocky is not.
Believe me even if you stutter out a word or 2 she will definitely get what your trying to say. [ 2tammy2's advice column | Ask 2tammy2 A Question ]
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