Iam 14, and pretty smart I guess, and wise (and humble about it too :)
I am really into peoples feelings but i still tend to tell you like it is, theres plenty of people out there who are always a pain in the butt and making everyone around them feel like crap, i dont want to be that person.
I awnser a wide variety of questions even ones i dont know anything about, in hopes i can help maybe even alittle bit, but dont ask me retarded stuff i dont want the drama queen stuff, im here to help if your not here to whine.
Also dont ask me gross sex problems im a christian and i dont know anything about 'blow jobs' so dont ask me about them...also if you dont like the awsner i give you then dont read it.
And just for the record I could care less about the rating you give me, so if you got a negative comment send it to someone who cares, and low ratings are good for me there showing im saying it how it is.
In all christian love, 2tammy2
Gender: Female
Location: Washington
Occupation: school
Age: 14
Member Since: June 25, 2007
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Last Update: August 17, 2007
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When someone is opening up to you, and you have no idea what their going through because you have never been there before, what can you say to them ? (link)
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admit you dont have any idea what there feeling, it makes ppl mad when you make it sound like you know what their experiencing and you dont, i would just listen to yourself your woman intuition that is built in will tell you (i know that sounds weird but its just part of being maternal) anyway and just tell it to them straight, i usually not so gently tell ppl that their being selfish because usually their all caught up in their own problems, and if you have no idea what their talking about then ask your mom or a trusted adult they wont tell this girl you told them and they will give you great adive
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ive been hanging out with this guy.. and like we've been getting close.. and like.. now hes in mexico for a week.. and i REALLY miss him cause i cant even talk to him..and like its driving me crazy! please give me ideas on how i can make the time go faster.. PLEASE! and dont say hang out with friends cause ive been doing that but like when im by myself its really bad.. like i miss him a lot! so any ideas?! (link)
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its ok to think about him just remember its just one week, and oh ya dont get to clingy and call him all the time guys dont like girls who all cling up to them and stuff
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oh god i hate this so much im going into high school soon and none of my friends are there. and summer school was stupid because i dont fit in with these ppl. it took me so long to make friends that actually care about me and i have better friendships than most ppl can have in their whole life. but i have no one to help me because now i feel like every girl is really girly and im not. they make me feel like a guy. and i dont know but im starting to want to dress like a guy and not like a tomboy but like i just hate being a girl. i just dont get it i hate this school and i want my friends back and i still want to transfer schools for like next year even though people say it will get better. i dont want to change i like my life fine the way it is. i just want my best friend back. hes the only one who understands me and i love him so much... (link)
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ok you need to grow up and get a life, your a girl and you have to embrace that, life is going to change you are going to have to grow up and make the best out of your circumstances
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i have a problem. i cant let any guy in my life. i guess its that im afraid of relationships and my expectations are too high... help? (link)
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your expectations are usually not to high, you sound like a awesome girl who should be with a really great guy, he needs to be worthy of you, just dont expect him to be perfect.
Once the perfect guy comes you will be ready and if he is the right guy he will also show he is nor letting go of you.
You need to figure out why relationships are so hard for you and deal with your issues
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i'm not really religious at all. my family doesn't go to church or anything and one day my parents found out i don't really believe in god. and they kinda like freaked and said we're going to start going to church and stuff [we never did]/ k so i have some questions about all this religion stuff.
-who wrote the bible?
-i mean really how is it possible that theres some great god up in the sky?
-who all thought of this? like there had to be someone who came up with this?
-who created these so called sins?
-if being gay is a "sin", why did this god create them?
-how do people know anything of what they looked like or did?
thanks =] (link)
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ok im going to name your questions one by one:
in our now in day culture ppl want proof without solid proof they can see they wont believe it.
Religion of any kind dosent have any ligitimate proof that you can actually see other than a book such as a Bible.
1)40 different men which wrote all the different books of the Bible, though every word is inspired by God.
2)that is a pretty hard question to awnser, our brains cant really figure out how it is possible that their is a God, technichally God is not in the sky he is in heaven where no one on earth really know where it is, it's possible because God created the earth, i dont really know how to awnser this question
3)christianity is not man-made, no one came up with it, God created it, and so we can understand it he used men to write the Bible.
4)God made these sins, showing what is against him, things that make him angry.
God is perfect so he wants us to be like him, so he sent his son Jesus onto the cross so we can become clean, once we do that then God no longer sees our sin, now that dosent mean we can repent and do whatever we want afterwards or that shows we havent really commited or we need to rededicate ourselves.
5) God did not create gay people, it says in Romans 1 that God does allow ppl to do this, because he gives us free will to do what we want.
6) The Bible is pretty much the only proof we had.
note-these questions are very difficult to awnser and so i did not do a very good job, my advice to you is to pray to God and he will show himself to you, i would also read: The Case of Christ.
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so im pretty but im kinda like shy. well more than anything i want to be like the "leader" of my little group of friends. i know it sounds weird but i just want to. please dont tell me just be yourself. how do i pull this off? thankss. (link)
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is it because you have insecurities? that all of a sudden now you need to feel better or your a power freak like Hitler who have to have people to boss around or your not happy?
Or is it because you usually are shy and your tired of being the low dog on the totom poll? and you want to be the boss sometimes?
You can't push yourself on ppl or you wont have any little groups of friends, just make suggestions and dont be afraid about what they might say the first time you voice their opinion they will be suprised though.
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15/f. I like a guy who is older than me. I like him more than a friend. But I am beginning to think it's just lust and infatuation. Do these feelings go away on their own, or do I have to do something about it? Because I can't help but think about him 24/7 when I know I'm like the LASTTTTTT thing on his mind. Lol. Thanks. (link)
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im in the exact same position, theres a guy who i really, really, really, really like but his personality just drives me nuts, but im still so deeply attracted to him i cant give it up.
I dont think lust and infaturation go away unless you make a decision just not to think about it, but pretty much you cant lie to your heart
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okay, well my neighbor saved 13 puppies from a kill shelter in georgia all from different litters and we live in massachusetts. the puppy we were going to get is a mix. we're not sure but he looks like a pitbull and a mix of something else. we've had him over so i could play with him quite a few times and he was great. we had my moms boyfriend's 7 year old boy, and 9 or 10 year old boy over too and they played great with him. we dont own the dog yet but the insurence company called and told us that no one is permitted to have a pitbull in the state of massachusetts. and if we were to get him and he bit someone and they sued us, our house and everything would get taken away. but thats like stereotyping the dog. i know people th at have pitbulls and they've never bit someone. what am i supposed to do? this is the last puppy left and i realllyyyy want him. i don't know what to do. i dont want a different puppy. (link)
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its not fair how people treat pitballs but it is just the way it is, either move to a different state with your pitbull, or give your dog to someone really awesome that lives in a state that allows pitbulls
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I dont know what is it, but i cant stand the sound of people chewing. Especially my mom. When people are around me, i cant help but focus on the sound of them chewing and it drives me absolutely nuts. I just want to like scream. What can i do to stop this? Like i said, its especially my mom, so its not like i can just get up and walk away. (link)
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concentrate on your own chewing noises, there probably even grosser.
Or just count to 20 and concentrate on something else in the room then the chewing.
And maybe start a nice conversation with someone so you stop thinking about the chewing
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its a simple enough idea.
get the side swept bangs out of your face, bobby pin them up on the top of your head.
everyone should know what im talking about there...some people have more of a 'poof' there than others as they please.
but EVERYtime i put them up i have the little short baby band that stick out of it and it looks really really bad.
i need to have my bangs up because i play tennis and they keep getting in my way.
what is a way i can put my bangs up in this fashionable way and control all the short little hairs???
xoxoxoxo (link)
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use a really, really cute head band and a pony tail a really poofy one,
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i was curious so i went on google to see how jello was made. i found something that said it was made of pig bone or something? i'm like throwing up right now, i hope this isn't true, is it? (link)
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yep its true, i mean there might be some special kinds of jello that dont but tis true
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ok ill tell you how i feel and see wat you think.
i feel like im obsessed with my bf, i wait for his calls, and wen hes not happy, i feel like its always me thats done something wrong, so then i go do something nice for him or buy him something to make him feel better.
how do i get rid of these feelings of alwayssss wanting to be with him, its like i cant concentrate on my own life. im always concerned with wat he is doing.
so yes, how do i stop this, i feel sometimes i have to pretend that i hate him just to not constantly think of him, its really annoying!!
i feel like if he doesnt spend fri and sat night with me, he'll go out and get drunk u no or play up, which he wouldnt because he doesnt go nightclubbing or anything but i seem to get really upset wen he wants to spend a fri or sat night apart. weeknights are fine cause we both got work the next morning, so i always stay at home, but on weekends its different, i just cant seem to get a handle on my own life again you no, i feel like im revolving everything i do around him.
anything right now would help, because i feel like im getting to possesive or a bit controlling. please help, hes really good to me and supportive with my emotions so thats all good, i just want to be able to turn the tables a bit you no, make him make the plans for a change, or wait for me, instead of me waiting for him. its hard to explain how i feel, but yeah.
please help
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it sounds like your really insecure, try to figure out why your so insecure.
Also, maybe your dad and your mom were married they divorced so now your being so clingy its like you are so worried about it that your making it come true?
Maybe you feel like he only matters and that you, yourself are not important, i really dont know i get like that too...
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i just noticed a little bump on the inside of my vagina lips, the fleshy part. first it didnt hurt much but now its hurting alot.
could it be just an infection or can it be something serious?
i asked my mom and she said i shouldnt worry but i dont know. could it be an STD? (link)
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its pretty normal for women to get vagina bumps sometimes, i would just visit a doctor its prob not a big deal, if your mom dosent want to take you tell her how much it hurts
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Well,I took a pregnancy test and I'm not pregnant but one of my nipples is clearly 3 times the size of the other one and its been hurting a little bit..im very young ,im going to be 15 in a few months so maybe they are growing?
I dont know why one of my boobs is like that and the other one isnt,Ive heard of one boob being bigger but ive never heard of the nipple being larger as well.
Please inform me,dont lecture about my age please :) (link)
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it could be from developement, but it also could be from pregnancy(maybe your test was wrong) and also maybe a STD, visit a doctor thats all i can say
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okay in the town where i live, all the cheerleaders have these little wooden signs in their yards that say [school name] cheerleader. well i just made cheerleading and my parents wont let me put my sign out because they think its "tacky." and actually, i dont really like it either, cuz i feel like its kind of bragging. but the other girls have been asking me why i dont have my sign out, and i don't know what to say. i dont want to insult them by saying my parents think its tacky. so what should i say? (link)
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that is retarded finally the cheerleaders can feel even better then everyone else by having a SIGN in their lawn TACKY, TACKY, TACKY!!!!
ok finally that i have vented, just tell them that your parents wont let you put it up and how horrible it is, but that you think you can get over it the sign is a bit strange...
in other words blame it on your parents but let them know you really dont like it either, you have to stand up for yourself its more fun for everyone if you do, some ppl that want everyone to always be happy, are generally not fun to hang around because their to caught up on emotions and other stuff
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15/f. is it normal for a teenage girl to grow further away from her dad, and to begin seeing him not as a father, but as a "man"? I just get really weird feelings around him. Like, I can't be in open clothes around him or something. It's awkward. I know he won't do anything, but I'm just paranoid..? (link)
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your starting to realize your dad isnt perfect and he really isnt all that great, and all those sexy guys your dating are so much cooler.
It also might feel akward because admit it your all hormonal sometimes, and that freaks guys out yes even your dad, he still loves you its just hard your growing up and both of you are trying to figure out who you are.
It's all normal to feel 'paranoid' around him your growing up, its just different now i dont really know why we feel that way but its just the way it is with me anyway with any guy that is older.
2tammy2, f/14
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I've always wondered. What is the gestation period for cats and horses? (link)
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you can easily google it.
I know it might require alittle bit of work, but it might have required less work then actually having to find this website and type in a awnser.
all you have to do is go to google.com and type in "gestation period of cats and horses"
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alright well i went to this daycamp and there was a teen volunteer there. he's the same age as me. let's call him ryan. well my 2 friends also go to this camp with me. let's call them tricia and gabriella. tricia is the same age as me, and gabriella is one year younger than us. me and tricia like ryan, and gabriella doesn't. when camp was over, i found ryan's myspace. we started talking, exchanged sn's, then he sent me a comment saying [these are the exact same words, other than the name] "ur friend gabriella is hot" i'm so crushed, i'm crying right now i'm not even kidding. gabriella doesn't have a myspace and she's away at softball camp, and when i tell tricia she'll also be so crushed. the thing is, gabriella also has a boyfriend. i don't know what to do, how to comment back, anything. please help me, i'm basically desperate! (link)
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look you cant change his mind about who he thinks is hott, just be yourself, he'll like you more like that, guys can tell when your not real.
about "Ryan's" comment only a insensitive man would say to YOU that he likes your FRIEND.
Also, he might just be messing with you to see if you'll get all in a tizzy about it.
My woman intution is telling me this guy sucks.
Get over him there will be more men
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Okay im fiveteen and i have been attempting masterbation for a while now. But I've done everything from trying to stimulate the ' lips' to external vibration stimulaters and I've never reached orgasm. Is my body unsensetive or something because I've been experimenting for a year and i don't know whats going on. help? (link)
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maybe your the type of person who can't be stimulated unless you have sex, look it if you cant do it in a year then just get a hobby or something
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whats you're lots opinion on people's different personalities when they get drunk? like how you see a persons other personality when they're drunk? (link)
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I don't think that's their "other" personality.
Alchahol influences your body and affects your self control, a perfectly nice person may be a total angry, abusive person when they drink.
Their "other" personalities are due to how their body works with the alchahol, everyone acts different when their drunk because everyones body works different.
the most common reactions to alchaho are 1)angry and abusive, 2)extremely happy, like on a high
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