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i'm basically crushed right now.
13/f
alright well i went to this daycamp and there was a teen volunteer there. he's the same age as me. let's call him ryan. well my 2 friends also go to this camp with me. let's call them tricia and gabriella. tricia is the same age as me, and gabriella is one year younger than us. me and tricia like ryan, and gabriella doesn't. when camp was over, i found ryan's myspace. we started talking, exchanged sn's, then he sent me a comment saying [these are the exact same words, other than the name] "ur friend gabriella is hot" i'm so crushed, i'm crying right now i'm not even kidding. gabriella doesn't have a myspace and she's away at softball camp, and when i tell tricia she'll also be so crushed. the thing is, gabriella also has a boyfriend. i don't know what to do, how to comment back, anything. please help me, i'm basically desperate! </3 :[
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this is what i would think to myself:
this guy completely used me to get to my friend because he was not man enough to talk to my friend by himself. why would i want a guy who doesnt have the courage to talk to the girl he likes? i am totally better than that piece of shit. he's completely hot but if he doesn't like me, then fine. the guy who is perfect for me will come along someday and if he doesn't want me, then SO WHAT?
this is what i would do:
-not respond. using you to get to your friend is totally uncalled for and rude
-tell gabriella
-meet up with tricia and both of you can have a nice cry about it if you need to them get over it. ("a tragedy shared is a tragedy halved." :])
gl babe. guys suck sometimes. shit happens
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look you cant change his mind about who he thinks is hott, just be yourself, he'll like you more like that, guys can tell when your not real.
about "Ryan's" comment only a insensitive man would say to YOU that he likes your FRIEND.
Also, he might just be messing with you to see if you'll get all in a tizzy about it.
My woman intution is telling me this guy sucks.
Get over him there will be more men
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