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LEADERRR
14/f
so im pretty but im kinda like shy. well more than anything i want to be like the "leader" of my little group of friends. i know it sounds weird but i just want to. please dont tell me just be yourself. how do i pull this off? thankss.
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A couple things you could try to start become more of a leader:
Be the one to make plans. Then everyone will look to you for what is happening, and you will be the one in control.
You have to be really confident, know that you are pretty, and act like it. Leaders are usually always amazingly confident and outgoing.
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well i guess i can answer this question since i was captain of my cherleading team, and i won beauty pagents, and i was i guess kinda leader of my grade.
Anyways, its all about confidence. but, i mean if your shy, then you cant really be a leader. i mean you gotta be like someone everyone likes. and you can be afraid to stand out.
attention isnt always great. i used to ask questions on here, on how i could get less attention. its not as great as its cracked up to be.
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is it because you have insecurities? that all of a sudden now you need to feel better or your a power freak like Hitler who have to have people to boss around or your not happy?
Or is it because you usually are shy and your tired of being the low dog on the totom poll? and you want to be the boss sometimes?
You can't push yourself on ppl or you wont have any little groups of friends, just make suggestions and dont be afraid about what they might say the first time you voice their opinion they will be suprised though.
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